youshihou,dajiaxinggaocailiedigennvhaiziliaotian,liaohenzhangqi。zenyangyoumoliaotian?jieguo,nvhaimenzhidechuleyilianggeyingyudancidedaibiaoxinghuiying。nineiyangheyigenvhaijianghua,tazhihuiyingyilianggezidaibiaoshenmeyisi?wogaizenmezuo?ruhezhaohuati?liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao?henduonanhaierzaipengdaozheileizhuangkuangshihoushouzuwucuo,zheihuizaochengbumanyidexianliao。qiadangdefangshi shisha?
和一个女孩讲话,她只回应一两个字,这代表着哪些?
女生对你没什么兴趣。
dangheyigenvhaixianliaoshi,tazhihuiyingyilianggezi,huoxutaduinimeishenmexingqu。zenyangyoumoliaotian?niyinggaizhidao,dangyigenvhaiyingduiyigetameishenmexingquderenshi,tajinjinchuziyupindexiuyangcaihenijianghua,jinjinyibianmeiyoutarenyanqianliuyoubutaihaodeyinxiang。zaizheileiqingkuangxia,tadaduoshugennishuoxiekeqihua。ruhezhaohuati?liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao?
你闲聊的內容很无聊。
jiarumeiyiciniyufaweidexianliaonanshengxianliao,liru“nizaizuoshenme”he“nichiguolema?”nizenmerangnvhaimenhuiying?yiner,dangyigenvhaiyingduineiyangdehuihuashi,tahaowuyiwenburongyizaochengzishendexingquaihao,zhishitiaoxuanyuyigeyouxiuderengoutongjiaoliu。
女生如今不方便与你闲聊。
gennvhaiziliaotianshi,tazhihuiyingyilianggezi。lingyizhongzhuangkuangshinvshengrujinbufangbianyunixianliao。tajianghuibijiaomang。zheishi,shiwomenqianwanbieweihaineigenvren,tiaoxuanyigeshihedeshijianhetaxianliao。ruhezhaohuati?liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao?
假如她跟女孩子聊天时只回应一两个字呢?
1.在说故事中展现使用价值
guanjiandeshiyaolejieshuogushishixiyinzhunvshengzhuanzhulihequdongqitamenxintaideyizhongfangfa。ziran,dangjinvhaishuogushishi,tayeyingdangliuyixiaogushideneirong。zenyangyoumoliaotian?tayingdangkeyigenjuzheigegushixianglingyifangchuandiyixiexinxineirong。biru,nijintianzainaerjiandaoyigelaotaitaihengchuanmalu,suihougeshigeyangde…,zuizhongnijiandaonixiezhunagelaotaitaihengchuanmalu,zhihouyouyuzheiyifashengshenmeshiyouyisideshi…
xianliaoshi,dajiagenjujinvhaimenshuogushilaizhanxiantamendeshiyongjiazhi。nixiezhulaolaoyiguodamalu,biaoshulenideshanjierenyiheai。ziran,ninenggenjugeshigeyangdexiaogushilaizhanxiannideshanjierenyi、gangzhengbuahechengxin……keshiyingdangzhuzhongdeshi,zheizhongshierbukeyiyounizijishuo,erwubiyounvshengzijilaiwancheng。
2、闲聊造成情感共鸣
dajiagennvhaiziliaotiandeguanjianmudishituidongdajiazhongjiandeguanlian。shubuzhi,jiaruniyaotuidongzheileiguanlian,nizhiyourangnvshengxiangheniyoujinyibudefazhanqushi。neimanaxiedexianliaoshiqudechenggongdeni?shijishang,tashiyicibicixintaidouhuodekaolvdehuihua。womenkeyijuedetashiyiciqudechenggongdejiaotan。
yijukexueyanjiu,shentiyuyanzhannvshijiaotande31%,ganqingzhan40%,zhenshidetanxintanhuaneirongjinzhan29%。yiner,nvxingyizhibeichengzuoganqingxiaodongwu。yiner,zaidajiaxianliaodequanguochengzhong,dajiayingdanggengweiguanxinnvshidexintai。
jiaruniyiqianheyigenvhaixianliao,ertazhihuiyingleyilianggezi,zheiyinvshengdaibiaoshenmeyisi,nishizenmebaozhengde?xiangxinduguoshangbiandeneironghou,meiyigerenneixindoushiyouyidingdehuida。shijishang,nanhaiergennvhaiziliaotianshiwuxutaidangxin。youshinvhaimenzaizheixiefangmianmeiyouyiqiefujiadeshijiyiyi。ruhezhaohuati?liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao?zheishishishangshinvhaimenqingxujidongshidefanying。nvhaimenqingxubuwendinghouhuigenghao。
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