谈恋爱时和男友的聊天技巧有哪些？教你几个技巧

 dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？zailianaiguanxizhong，dabufenqingkuangxiashinanhaizifeijingquyuenvhai，keshitanlianaihenanpengyouliaotiandejiqiaonvhaiyeyingdangyaolejie，rangnanpengyouliaodegaoxingyeshinvpengyoudezerenni!liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？xiabianjiuhewangbianyiqikanyixiachuduixiangruhegennanpengyouliaoliaoba!

谈恋爱和男朋友聊天的技巧

方法一：聊一些他会很感兴趣的事

 yibaneryan，dajiataoluntamenzijihuoshizishenxihuandedongxideqingkuangxia，huiganjuegengzideyixie。dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？zenmehuishi?youyudajiaduizheizhonghuatitaolungengzhangwo，erqiezaoyisisuoguozheizhonghuatitaolunle。liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？xialiejiuchushiyixiehenanyouliaotianhuatiyijingongcankao：

*他今日过得怎样

*tayiwangdeqinshenjingli(biruershiqinshenjingli，xiaiganshenme，tadejiazhongzhong，sheiduitaeryanyiyifeifan)

*他的喜好

*他最爱的健身运动

*tazuixihuandeshu、yingpian，huoshigequ

方法二：持续充实自己，扩展自身的眼界

 jiaruninengxunzhaoshijiankankanxinwenwang，duyidubaokanzazhi，nidenaohaizhonglibianhuiyoudaliangdehuatitaolunkeliao。yaorangzishenjinsuishishiredian，liuyiyouqudexijupianshipinduanpian，huoshihulianwangshangshixingdegaoxiaoduanzideng。liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？

 ruguoniganjueliangrendehuihuagangkaishiyuelaiyuekuzaodeqingkuangxia，nenggouwenyiwennidenanyoutajinqiyoumuyoududaohuoshijiandaonaxieyouqudedongxi。dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？ruguoyou，dajianenggoutaolunyixianishiruhekanzheijianshiqingde。yaoshimeiyou，neimazheijiushiduitashuonijinqisuojiansuowendejijiajihuile。

方法三：讨论一些假定的情景

 nenggouwenqi，jiaruwubitiaoxuanyiyang，shiganjuesangshishijuexiaoguogengnengjiena，huanshisangshitingjuexitong?shiningyuanyibeizizhichibocaini，huanshiyibeizimeiriwubitingbagezhongtoudeshengdange?jinkenengxiangdaoyouyisidejuziti，qingjingnenggouhenquwei，haikeyihenfanza，suihouxunwennidenanyou，taxiangyaotiaoxuannayizhong。tadechuhuiyingzhihou，zaishitabiaomingtadeyuanyin。

 *nenggouyouyihetaduizhegan。wulunnidenanpengyoushuoxieshenme，doumingquetichufanguolaijianyi，neiyangtajiupobudeyishenzhongkaolvtadejianyile。danshishuoqiqingxi，nineimezuojinjinxiangrangjiaotanyuelaiyuegengyouqu，erbushiqueshiyaoxianghetachangfandiao。

 *yeyoudaliangdecuojueleinantikewen：“naxiedeshijianghuihuijinicheyeshuibuzhejueni?”“jiaruninengzaicihuoyici，ninengzuochuruhebuyiyangdetiaoxuan?”“nijuedeniderichangshenghuobuguanzenyangbunengquefadeshisha?”(huoshi，haikeyiwen“jiarunizhiyouliushijianwupin，ninengtiaoxuanzheixieni?”

方法四：使他对你说一些你永远不知道的物品

 nenggoushiyouguantazijide，haikeyishiniyongyuanbuzhidaodeyixieshierhuoshilengmenzhishi。wulunshinaxie，nidoushixuedeyixiexinwupinde。erjiarunixiangyaozuodegengshijiyixie，nenggoushitaduinishuoyixieniyongyuanbuzhidaodexihao。

 *fuguzaizheileizhuangkuangxiayeshifeichanghaodetiaoxuan。tanianshudediyitian，tadediyigexiaowanju，takeyijiqilaidediyigeshengrihui。genjuzheileifangfa，nenggoufeichanghaodizhangwodangtahuanshigexiaohaideqingkuangxiaxihuanshenme，naxieduitaeryanhenzhongyao。

方法五：问起一些古怪的难题

 zailiangrendouqingxufeichanghaodeqingkuangxia，neimezuonenggouyinchulaiyixieshifenyouqu，rangliangrendouhenkaixindehuatitaolun。nenggouwenxiangjinneiyangdenanti：“niyaojianxinyoushengdanlaoyeyema?”“jiaruwubizaidianshijihehulianwangzhongjiantiaoxuan，ninengfangqinayigeni?”jiqi“yaoshimeiyoushizhong，nijuederichangshenghuohuibianweishenmeyangzi?”weichihuihuadeqingqingsongsongquwei，bingqienaxiehuidadoumeicuo。

*jitamenjianghaowandexiaohua，suihouhetayiqixiao(qiantitiaojianshitadeyoumofengqufeichanghao)。

方法六：说些好听话

 duitashuonishiduomedexiaimouyiciyouhui，bingduitashuoweihenixiaineiyiciyouhui。liru，ninengshuo，“woainidaiwoyiqiqucanyindianchiwancandeneiyiciyouhui，najiacanyindianhenmei，rangworenweizishenshifenfeichang。”

方法七：探讨将来

 nenggoutaolunyixianiyaozaiweilaimouyitianzuodeshi——huoxuniyaoxiangyaoquxilalvxing，yaoxiangyanyichuwutaiju，xiangxieyibenxiaoshuo，huoshixiangzaichuanlirichangshenghuo。wenyiwentadouyounaxielixiang。zheiliyouyixietiyi：

*nixianglainageyuanxiaonianshu?

*你要什么专业?

*niyaozainaerrichangshenghuo?

*你要到哪去旅游?

*tajianghuiyoudegerenaihao。

*nixiangzuoshenmeyangdegongzuozhong?

方法八：一起玩游戏

 nenggouyiqiwanzhuoyouyouxi，haikeyiyiqiwanwangluoyouxi，huoshidawangluoyouxi。jiarudajiazaiyouxilimianshijingzhengguanxi，ninengzaiwandeqingkuangxiayudiaoshaoxianbujing，youyicijixingta。erjiarudajiashitongyiduidelaozhanyou，neimadajiajiukeyitantaoshoujiyouxifangfayouxineirong。nenggoushiyixiazheizhongjingdiandeyouxi：

*象棋

*跳棋

*拼字游戏

*pukeyouxi，ruqiaopaihespeed

*桌游游戏

方法九：用心聆听

 hebierenjiaotandezaoxingyishubaohanlingting，lingtingnenggoujililingyifangshuodedaliang。yaojinidenanyoujiandaonishiqueshigaosutadehuahenganxingqu，tajianghuadeqingkuangxiajiuxuyaohaohaoditing，zaitafayandeqingkuangxiayonghaowuyiwendejuziheshentiyuyanduitaduinishuodewupinzuochuxiaojie，neiyangtajiulejieniqueshishizaiyongxintingtafayan。

 *jiarudajiashibujiutanlianai，jiuzaoyiyouhenduojianmodeqingkuangxia，neimayikaishijiujinkenengbubirangdajiadehuihuachaochuyixiaoshi。shuodeguoduohuirangxinshengerganqingkuaisuyuelaiyuekuzaofawei。

*liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？shitalejienimeiyouzhuyilibujizhong。xiantanbianweijianmoyeshihenyiqiezhengchangde。