老实人不会说话怎么办呢？

suhuashuodehao，zuiruyibajian，jiechousanbainian，yincijianghuashiyimenshifenguanjiandekechengneirong，neimazairichangshenghuozhizhong，jiuchangchangyouyixieshizairen，zuijiaoweibenbuzenmehuijianghua，meitianxuedianshuohuajiqiao，buhuishuohuazenmeban？tongchangjiuzaochengleyouqifeichangrongyirongyidezuiren，yincijinrixiangjiaodahuoerhaoduogeyuyanjiqiao，shinizairenjijiaowangzhizhong，keyiyourenyouyu。

01倾听

zheiyidiannibuyaoxiaoqiao，shigengweizhongyaode，meitianxuedianshuohuajiqiao，zaidajiadeshenpangyouhenduo，xiaiqianghuaderen，neiwoyebuzhidaodahuoeryouyijuneiyangdelaohua，dahuoertingmeitingguo，jiushicongmingyaotingsheng，youyumeiyigerendeyuyanshenhou，doubaokuozhetaxinlideniantouheyongyi，neimazaiwomenzaihetarengoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia，lingtingjiukanqilaifenwaiguanjian，buhuishuohuazenmeban？youyugenjulingting，dajiacaikeyilingwutarendehanyi，suihouyouxiaodebiaoshuchuzishendejianjie，neiyangdezuotanhuirangbicizhijiandouganjueqingqingsongsongbingqieyukuai。

02换位思考一下

nipengdaojianyibufuhedeqingkuangxia，dajiaxianbubijiqieshuomingzishendejianjie，xianlizailingyifangdeshijiaoshangxiangyixia，yejiushidajiachangchangshuodefanxiangsisuo，neiyangdajiacaikeyifeichanghaodelejietaren，taneimezuodemudijiujingshishenme，jinerbashierbaozhengzuijizhi，bahuashuodaozuishidang。

03多赞扬，少指责

renquanshiyouaimuxurongde，wulunsheidouxiaitingjianyixiebiaoyangdehua，yincizaijianghuadeqingkuangxia，dajiahaiyaoliuyiyidian，nibuyaodaizhetarendequexian，jiuyongjingdemeifang，neiyanghuiranglingyifangdangzhongchuchou，neimadajiayingdangruhequzanyangni？shuobailedezanyang，bingbingbushishiniweifanyixiang，quliuxupaima，zhishiwomenyaoshanyufajue，lingyifangdeshenshangdeyoushi，erqieduofangmianzanyang，huiranglingyifangfazifeifude，xiangyaoquyunigoutongjiaoliu。

suoyishuoshizairen，jiaruganjuezishenbuhuiliaotian，neimadajiajiuxuyaocongzhishangjiangdesangecengmiangenggai，yaogaoqingchunaxiegaishuo，shenmeyoubuyinggaishuo，mingbaiyigefencungan，bawodeqiaruqifen，duinideyurenxiangchu，shishifenyouxiezhude。buqingchudajiazishenshiguishuyuhuijianghuade，huoshizuishangjiaoweibendeni？reliehuanyingliuyanbanliuyantaolun。