zhenzhenzhengzhengdegoutongjiaoliushiyouzuizhongmubiaode。weilegenghaodinenggougenghaodiwanchengmouyimubiao,goutongjiaoliushinanyide,lirujiejuemaodun,qiuzhu,zhengxuntiyi,mihuojiejue,huoshijiaoshexiezuo。yurengoutongdejiqiaoyounaxie?meiyoumubiao,nanyihuodehaodejieguo。youcikejiangoutongjiaoliudemubiaodezhongyaoxing。zaiquanbugoutongjiaoliuquanguochengzhong,bawobazhonggoutongdejiqiao,shinizaiyurenjiaowangdequanbuquanguochengzhongxunsuwanchengmubiao,shiniyizhangkoujiuduiniyouganjuelingyifang。zenmeyanggenrengoutongjiqiao?
goutongjiaoliuzhongzuizhongyaodeyidian,bianshijinxingyuyanbiaodanengligongzuonengli,dahuoerbeitarenwuhuitongchangshidahuoerjianghuabutuo,zaochengtarenwuhui。yincijianghuayaoliuyifangshi,yijuzishenwenhedeyuyanbiaodanenglilingrenjuedeshufu,nengjuyoushibangongbeideyuqixiaoguo。
一,是应用积极的用语和方式;尽可能挑选积极的词语开展沟通交流。
zenmeyanggenrengoutongjiqiao?cizhi,yuyanbiaodanengligongzuonenglishiyimendaxuewen,shulianzhangwowotidaini,shulianzhangwomeiyigerentidaiwo,shulianzhangwoyishubiaoxianshoufa,shibiaoshugengweichongzu。yuyanbiaodanengligongzuonenglitixianlemeiyigerendeniantou。meiyigerendouyingdangliuyiyuyanbiaodanenglidehelibuju。youderenbutailejie。yiyang,tarentinglehuiganjuenanshou。
三,是对不一样的人,采用不一样的沟通交流心理状态。
yurengoutongdejiqiaoyounaxie?buyiyangzhongleideren,jibiangoutongjiaoliuneirongyizhi,haiyaocaiyongbuyiyangdexingweixinlizhuangtai。liruhepenyou、zishendeshuxia、tongxuemen、qinpenghaoyouzheixie,douxuyaocaiyongzishenbutongdeshengyinhexingweizitai,gaohaozuizhenxinshiyi、zuiyoushandegoutongjiaoliu。
四,是在沟通交流的全部全过程中,不容置疑另一方的內容,不要说一些敷衍塞责得话,让另一方听。
neiyangzongranggoutongjiaoliudeyuqixiaoguogengcha。yizhaozhenglianyouxiaodefankuiyijianjilingyifang,ranglingyifangganjuetadegoutongjiaoliuhuodeleniderenkehehaowuyiwen,neiyanggoutongjiaoliudeyuqixiaoguojiuhuigenghao。
五,讲话要依据不一样的人摆脱困境。
zenmeyanggenrengoutongjiqiao?renherenzhijiandewenhuashuipingbuyiyang,jianghuadeneirongyaoliuyi。zhenduifanganqianlousuhuaderen,yaoyongyixieluojisiweiqiangdeluojipanduan。zhenduiwenbenwendangshuizhundideren,yaoderen,yaoduoqianxianyidongdeshili,shitaxunsulejie;zhenduibenxingchenwenderen,meiyigerendouxuyaoshidangjiqizishendexinlizhuangtai,yinciyaoduibuyiyangderencaiyongbuyiyangdegoutongfangshi,caikeyidedaohenhaodegoutongjiaoliuyuqixiaoguo。
六,是不必自身缄默,把话说出来。
youderen,henkenengyouyuzishendeyuangu,huoshixintaiquefazixindenggezhonggeyangyuanguerbutaixiaizhangzuijianghua,jiaruniganshuoyijuhua,wulunshuoshishenmeyisi,nidoushihuiyoufazhan,jiangchuhualai,bianshibiaoshuzishendeniantou,yurenjiaowanggoutongjiaoliu,caikeyishizishenfazhanqushi。
七,是发言要留意自身的语音视频难点。
youxierenshuoxiangshengyizhifeichangda,youxierenjianghuaxiangshengrouheweimeiyijing,youxierenjianghuaxionghun,youxierenjianghuataikuai。huoxubuyiyangderenxiangshengbuyiyang,shengdiaoyebuyiyang,womenzaijianghuadeqingkuangxiarutonggequjiezouganzhongdesudu、gaodi,liuyikongzhi,nengshidangjiejuedahuoerdeyuyinshipinnandian。
八,是讲话心理状态摆正,沟通交流的预期效果会进一步提高。
dajiazhongjiandegoutongjiaoliuzaihuxianglijiedeweihaixia,caikeyigengshufudikaizhangoutongjiaoliu,tangruonigaoaokuangwangzida,zhuangzuogaoaokuangwangzida,neiyizhilingrengengweidichu,meirenxiangzaiyunigoutongjiaoliu,jianghuayuqiqianxun,weiwandongtingnengjirenyizhongganzhiruoyidedongneng,caihuixiangzaiyunigoutongjiaoliu。
yurengoutongdejiqiaoyounaxie?zaiherenderichanggoutongjiaoliuhegoutongjiaoliudequanbuquanguochengzhong,meiyoubixuchangshijiemibierendegerenyinsibaohu。jinyouxianghuzhijianzhangwolingyifang,zhenxinchengyilejielingyifang,jinjiaodaqinfentirenzhexiang,zhangwohaoyanshuodekongzhi,caikeyizaiyurenjiaowangzhonghuodebierenderentonghezhongai。
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