初次见面相亲聊天技巧， 这些话题千万别聊

rujinhenduorendougenjuxiangqinyuehuidefangfaxunzhaodelingyiban，zhenduixiangqinyuehui，xiangqinzhuyishixiangnanshengpian,jianxinxuduoweihunnannvdoujiaoweidanyou，yibanlaishuo，xiangqinyuehuidechangjingbianhuiyuelaiyuefeichangganga，yinerzhaoxunshihedeliaotianhuatiyouweizhongyao。jinri，jieqinwangwojiulaigendahuoerliaoyiliaodiyicijianmianxiangqinliaotianfangfa，zheizhonghuatitaolunqianwanbuyaoliaoe。chucijianmianxiangqinliaotianjiqiaoyiqikanyixiadouyounaxieba。

一、初次见面相亲聊天技巧

１、一定要有一个非常好的第一印象

shijishanghenduorendouhenxiwangdiyicijianmian，yincijiaruninengzaidiyicijianmiandeqingkuangxiajilingyifangliuyouyigefeichanghaodeyinxiang，neimanizailingyifangxinlidejibenfenbianhuibitarengaoyuxuduo。lirunizaidi１cipengmiandeqingkuangxianenggouduizishendewaizaikaizhanyixiediaojie，liruzishendechuanzhedabanzheixie。

２、有一双发觉美丽的双眼

quanqiubuqianquemei，quedeshiyishuangfajuemeilideshuangyan，yinci，zaiwoguoyijulaohuashuodehao，xiuenaisidekuai，ruguoniduitayouqinggan，neibuguannimenzenmekan，taquanshizuimeilideneiyige，yincinixuyaoyouyishuangfajuemeilideshuangyan，zaipengmiandeqingkuangxianiyidingyaoduozanyanglingyifang，keshiyidingyaoshidang。

３、学好“攘外必先安内”

jiarudajiadi１cipengmiandeqingkuangxia，queshimeishenmehuakeyishuodeneimejiucongyixiewuguantongyangdehuatitaolunlaijinru，suhuashuodehao，zheichengweirangwaibixianannei！neiyangniyiju，woyiju，shijianbujiuxunsuguoquma？

４、谈标准

weilegenghaodifangzhiliangrenlangfeishijian，cuoguolianghaodejihuie！，wojuededajiadiyijianshibianshinenggouxianhelingyifangshuoyixiazishendezhaoduixiangdebiaozhun。keshijiaruniduinidenanpengyoushifenlingrenmanyidehua，neimenideguifanyidingyaojinliangdexianglingyifangkanqi，ranglingyifangyouyizhong，bianshizishendejuede。jiaruhelingyifangbingbushihentoujixing，neineiyangyefangzhiledahuoerlangfeishijian，cuoguolianghaodejihuie！。

５、从难忘的回忆逐渐

nanwangdehuiyiyizhilingrenjuedemeimanxingfu，yincidajianenggoushuoyishuodajiabicizhijiandexingfukuailenanwangdehuiyi。youqishixueshengshidai，zhongjiuneijiushiyigerendoukounianhua，mengdongwuzhidenianling，zhinenerxingfu。

６、谈理想

weilemengxiangernulideren，shishanshanfaliangde。shuiwangdichuliu，shishiwuzheweijunjie。ninengshiyishijiangchuzishendelixianghelixiang，youyuhuijirenjiaoqiangdeguishugan。

７、与家相关的一切话题讨论

jiashixingfudegangwan，shinishixiaquanbudeshenqu。yinci，taolunqinren，shilvshibushuangdefangfa。liangrenzaiyiqiquqishengzi，buzhishidajialiangrendeshier，huoshi２gejiazhongderonghe。

８、大气详细 介绍

xiangqinyuehuishi，daqidexiangxijieshaolezishendezhuangkuanghou，yaoyunyonglingyifangdezheileihaoqixin，zaidiyishijiandandadi、helidishuochunidedianping，zheixiangbizhangpianxiaoshuodejiandanziwojieshaohebuzhisuoweidehuatitaolunyaoyouyingyangchengfendeduo，jikanqilaiwenroutitie，younengbiaoshuchunidechengxin，gengnenggouzaidiyishijianzaochenglingyifangdejudarenzhidu。ruguonvxingdequepiaoliang，dakeyishuo：“hengaoxingrenshini，nihenpiaoliang。”jinjixintaiyaoshierfenchengzhi。ruguoyiban，jiumeiyoubixufukuadeshuohenpiaoliang，neiyangfandaokanqilainihenxuqingjiayi！

９、绝情自身风潮

xuduorendaoxiangqinyuehuishi，douxiaiyanguoqishi，youxierenxiguanxingzishenbazijipengdaotiankongyunli，datantetanzishenyouduokenai、duoshaorenzhuiqiuwanmei，renweineiyangnenggouxiyinzhulingyifang，quebuzhidaoneiqiahaoshidanxudezhuyaobiaoxian，yidanbeimingyankantou，congyunkongjianzhuiluodaodigudeweidaokenanshou。jueqingdezishenfengcifandaohuiranglingyifangganjuenihenfengqu，danruguoshizichuizileitongchangranglingyifangyou“shijishangyemoguoyuci”deniantou，erziwodiaokanhuiranglingyifangxiang“doumeiyouneimachama”。

１０、迅速寻找与另一方的相交

jiaruniyudaoderenyunidelijingjieranbutong，siweifangshijieranbutong，nizhaobuzhegongtongyuyanshi，jiujinkenengfanfulingyifangjianjie，yibiaomingzishenyutachuzaitongyiguandian。zheiyangyilai，lingyifangbianhuizaochengzishenchengjiugan，duinihaoganduzengzhang！

１１、尽量避免讲话时的手式和口头禅

jianghuashiwuyijiandeshoushihekoutoushanhuibiaolunidexinlitihui，jiarulingyifangshiyigeshulianxinlizhuangtaideren，nidejinzhangbianhuibeiyishunjianbawozhu，jinerqueshiyixiliedeyoudianhejiji。

１２、调低自身的优势高度重视另一方的特长

bubizhitukankanertandexianbaizishendeqiangchu，xiangqinzhuyishixiangnanshengpian,neiyanghuiranglingyifangyouyapogan，ninengduitadexihaohetezhangduozuoyixietichuwenti，neiyangyehuijifadajiaxindehuatitaolunhegoutongjiaoliuchongdong。