高情商聊天对话 3个情商高的聊天的技巧

zairichangshenghuozhong，youneimayiqunren，sanyanliangyujiunengliaodenvhaihuazhiluanzhan；eryouxierengangzhangkoujianghua，jiuyaozhengduimianderennankandijiaozhitoukoudi，xianliaogaliaobuyongshuo，hairangzishenzaitarenneixindiefener。huibuhuiliaotianduiyurenxiangchueryanqueshihaimanguanjiande，zheiyidianjianxinxuduopengyouzaigennvhaidexianliaozhongyetihuidao。gaoqingshangliaotianduihuayinggaizenmejinxing？xueqingshanggaodeliaotianyuju900juburuxuehaofangfa。

liaotianliaotiannvhaijiuyaoxianzaole，liaotianliaotianchuchenghaogemenle，liaotianliaotiannvhaiyaorangnijieshaonanpengyoule，liaotianliaotianniyanbabakanjiantagaobiedanshenle。

zheiguigenjiedi，bianshiniyongyuanbuzhidaoruhegennvhailiao。

dangqishipin，banlijiujiaogeweipengyou3geqingshanggaodeliaotiandejiqiao，rangnvhaimishangyunixianliao！

几秒钟规律

zailingjuligoutongjiaoliushi，lingyifangjiangwanhua，dajiaweichijimiaozhongdeduishihejianduan，huiranglingyifangganjuedajiadequezaiyongxinlingtingerqiesisuoyourenshuodehua，zheihuiranglingyifangyouyizhongbeigaoduzhongshidejuede。

gaoqingshangliaotianduihuayinggaizenmejinxing？yihoudajiazaiqumingquetichuzishendejianyideqingkuangxia，lingyifangyehuigengweixiangyaosisuodajiashuodehua。zheiyifangshitebieshizaikeyongniyulingyifangchanshengfenqideqingkuangxia。

lirunvhaigennishuomoulvyingpianyouqipiaoliang，donghuatexiaoyehenzhenshi。niningshita2miaohoushuo“worenweizheibuyingpiandedonghuatexiaodequemeiyouhuashuo，kanjianhenzhenhanrenxin，bianshimeiyoushenmegushilei。”

neiyangjiusuannishizaifourenlingyifang，tayerongyijieshou。

yingduishierbiaodayijian，zheimeigerendoushihui，zhibuguoshiyaoranglingyifangtingjinlainidejianyi，xukannidebiaoshunengfouzhaoliaodaolingyifangdetihui，nengfouranglingyifangkaixindijienanidejianyi。

学好反夸

zaijiedaotarendezanmeishi，henduorenjingchanghuichuxiandefanyingshilijifourenlingyifang，zaichenjizishendajiyifan，weicixianchuzishendeqianxunhebuzhangyang。

quebuzhidaoyoushitaiguoqianxun，fandaohuijilingyifangyizhonghenquefazixindejuede，neiyangbianhuijianshaonideyouhuoli。bingqiezheihaihuijixurangzanmeiniderenjuedefeichangganga，huatitaolunyejiugaoyiduanluole。

shijishang，womenkeyiyoushiquanshimeidefangshi，bianshixianjiedaolingyifangdehua，zaichenjihuikuayibo。

lirunvshengshuo“xiangbudaoniyaohuizhufan，tailihaile。”ninengshuo“wokanniyebucuoa，tebieshizaijiushinidebaipanzhuangshihesecaidapei，kanjianjiuhenyouweikou。”

xiangneiyang，xianrenkelingyifangdehua，zaichenjifankua，jikanqilaiwomenhenyouzixinxin，yehuirangnvhaiganjuenihenhuijianghua。

用提出问题替代简易阐述

yongchanshudeyudiaojianghua，youyizhongwanbihuatitaolundejuede，neiyangxianliaojiubuyijianchixiaqu。dajiabajianyizhijiedechanshuhuanweitichuwenti，jiukeyibuduantuokuanhuatitaolun。

liru，nanhaiziwen：“nilibaitianyibanganshenme？”nvhaihuiying：“chulaiguangguangjie，youshihouhuiqujianshenhuisuoduanlian。"

jiarunanhaizijinjinshuo“womeishiyexiaiqujianshenhuisuo。”neihuatitaolunhenyoukenengbianhuizhongzhi，yincinenggouzaijiayiju：“niyibanzuoshenmejianshenyundong？”neiyanghuatitaolunjiukeyijianchixiaqule。

yongtichuwentidefangfaxianliao，budanhuirangnvhaijuedenixianliaohenchengzhi，gengfeichangrongyijianxinnishuodehua，womenyekeyichenjituokuanhuatitaolun，neiyanggengnengcijixingnvhaidehuiyingchongdong。

写在最终得话

gaoqingshangliaotiandeguanjianbianshimingbailizailingyifangdeshijiaodulisikao，lejieruheliao，lingyifangcaihuijuedeshushi。zheishishuoqilaijianyi，dannengxiangqiderenquefeichangshao，nengbaozhengderenjiuyuelaiyueshao。

xueqingshanggaodeliaotianyuju900juburuxuehaofangfa。yincizheixiehuititarenkaolvdaoderentongchangdouhenshoubierendereliehuanying。erzaiqingganzhong，nengmingbainvrendexindenansheng，yegengfeichangrongyizourulingyifangdeneixin，rangnvhaizhenzhenzhengzhengdiaishangleni。