追女生如何聊天？教你避免“聊天误区”

zuixian，zhuinvshengruheliaotian？zheigewentixubuxuyaodeguanjianhuanjiebuqujueyu“ni”xubuxuyao，zhishiqujueyu“ta”xubuxuyao。rutong，nijiletayichedeｉｐｈｏｎｅ，danshibierenzhiyaoxiangyigeli。yinci，zhuinvshengdeqingkuangxia，jiaruniqidaishibeigongbandehua。zuixian，nixuyaozhangwodeshikehumanyidu，erbushinisuoyiweidetouru。erzhangwokehumanyidudediyibu，zhuinvhaizideliaotianjiqiao,bianshiyaozhangwohebawotashigenaxiedenvsheng？taduiganqingyounaxieyaoqiu？tashixiaizaiganqingliyouzishenshineikongjiandenvshenghuoshiquefaanquanganjiaoweinianrendezhongleini？suihou，caisuanshidajiasuobixudehuatitaolunzhonglei。

１．追女生如何聊天？

jiarutashiyigexiangduixingneixiangxingdenvsheng，zhenxinpengyoufeichangshao，heqinrendexianghuguanxiyeyibandehua，neimaneiyangdenvshengyibanzhuangkuangxiarichangshenghuoquefalingtingzheheguanaideren，yincinidelingting，hudongjiaoliuhejilihuizaibujingyijianzhongzengjiataduinideqingganyikaohexinlaigan。

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yishitaduinixinhan，ganjuenibushizhenxinshiyide，zhuidaoyibanbuzhuile，huoxurengzaizhuitaren，neimaniyejiumeiyouqidaile，youyuzheiyixingweihuirangtabazijidebaohutaobaonangdeyuelaiyuejin；

ershitazhujianshangnao，guojitianzhihouzhujianlianluoni，husiluanxiang。

cizhi，“tayounaxiezhuyaobiaoxianjiububizhuile？”

jiaruniqudechenggongdadaohegenjuleshangbiandeliucheng，neimanihaixuyaoqingxihaoduogenanti：

nengbunengqudechenggonghuodenideshijianzhouhetongguolvdeqiantitiaojianshi，shibushinitadecai，taduinidemuqianyouhaoduzaishenmeweizhishang，nizaitarichangshenghuodekedaitixingchicun，dajiarichangshenghuodexiangjiaoshuipingshiduoshao。

bubizhuile，jigejutibiaoxian：

ruguonitiaoxuanfenshoudeqingkuangxia，jirihoutazaiyebuhuijijizhaoguoni，dajiajiushizheiyangmeiyouxiawenle；

tahuranyongyouxindeaiderenhuozhujianhetarenxiangchule；

nifajuetahetarenyongyouhudongjiaoliu，bingqiehudongjiaoliujiweijingchang；

niyutadexianliaozhong，dabufenjiushinijijizhaotazhanlejiuchengzhishang；

taduinidehuiyingpianzhongyufuyanleshi；

niyutaxianliaofeichanghao，danshihaoshucidouyuebuchulai；

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zhishangdezhuangkuang，niyiranyeyouhenyoukeneng，jinjingailvsuoxiao，duiyuxubuxuyaozhui，huoshixukannizijidexinlijuece。

zaidu，“weiheyikaishihuatitaolunxuduozhihoujiuhuiyueliaoyueshaole？”

zheierjiushejidaodaodajiazenyangdakaihuatitaolun，bianhuanhuatitaolun，jifaxintai，jiqixintaihudongjiaoliudeyibufenle。

erzheiyiyibufendeguanjianshi：nixuyaobazijidegerenxingweihenvshengdeyijianfankuizuoyigetongbu。

zhenduitayouxingqudehuatitaolun，ninengduojiangyidian；jiarufajuetameishenmexingqule，jiuhuanyigehuatitaolun。

yibanrenxianliaodouxiaihuatitaolunshijinjinweiraozishende，ninenggenjugongxiangmeiriderichangshenghuo，erqiebaxianliaoxihua，“juqing＋tihui”，ranglingyifangchanshenggongming，jiangchutadeniantou，zaishufudexianliaozhong，yuniyoudalianghudongjiaoliu。

yiner，zhuinvshengdequanguocheng，shijishangyeshiyigemolianhetigaozijipanduanlihexintairenzhidudequanguocheng。

erzhuiqiuwanmeideshijianzhouhezhudongquanshijishangshizaizishendeshoushang。

yinci，zhuinvhaizideliaotianjiqiao,jiaruqidaizishenzaizhuiqiuwanmeiquanguochengzhong，baozheng“yiwentiweidaoxiang”，“jianhaojiushou”，huoshi“shibeigongban”dehua，nijiuxuyaobazijidegerenxingweihenvshengdeyijianfankuizuoyigetongbu，neiyangjiukeyigengqiangdebawodajiayiqianganqingzhuanbiandedazhifangweile。