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提前准备+训练。

nianshunianshudeqingkuangxia，dajiadouzuolesuanshuti，jianzishengkanyiyantixing，jiulejiegaidairunaxiegongshijisuan，jianyidetinenggenjuzhusuande，huidanengcaigebajiubulishi。

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zheishiyigefanchoujuda，weihaijiweizhangyuande、keguanxingdezizhengyuyan。

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queshibingbushirenkebuhuiliaotiansheqiqinfenchanshengdejieguoma？tashifeichangzhidecaiyide。

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shixianzuohaochongfendezhunbeiyoulianggeyichu。

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rutongyoushixueshenghuigenwoshuo，“laoshiwoneishihouruguojinzhangzenmeban？”

wonengshuo，“quanbuhenyoukenengchanshengdeqingkuangdajiadouxiangdaole，gezidougaohaolejiejuedetiqianzhunbei，meiyoubirujingengqiangdejihuiquchupeng。jishiqueshiyounaxiechuxianyiwaiyebubidanxin，nantiyuekuaipuluyuehao，kefukongjuzuihaoshidefangfabianshiyingduita，niyinggaiduizishengengyouxinxinde。”

dayoutiqianzhunbeidezhangchanshengdexinlizhuangtaipingwen，yichubuzhishiyidianbandian，jingliguodedoulejie。

第二点是训练，尝试让自身一点点走出舒适区，由浅入深去摆脱会话的难堪。

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