主动和女生聊天话题 必不可少的应急话题讨论

 zaizuohuazhenqinggandequanguochengzhong，pengdaoshuzuiduodenantibianshi“heaiderenxianliaoyizhinankanhegaliao，gaizenmeban”。shijishang，nenggourangxianliaobugaliaodefangshixuduo，xuduohuatitaolunlijingyouzhangdesuiyuechenji，beizhengshinenggouxunsutuidongguanlian，lvshibushuang。xuehenvhailiaotianyiqiangehuatiburujiuzhangwojidianganhuo，zhudonghenvshengliaotianhuatiyinggaicongnvshengbenshenzheshou。

一、提高友好度的四类话题讨论

 henvhailiaotian，richangdehuatitaolunfanzaqiegeyoubutong，danpubiandenenggoudagaifenchengzheijizhong：shehuifazhanhuatitaolunlei、richangshenghuorichanglei、gerenaihaoleihexinlizhuangtaiganqinglei。

 richangshenghuorichanglei、shehuifazhanhuatitaolunleihegerenaihaoleiguishuyujishixingjiaoweigao，jiaoweifeichangrongyijinrudehuatitaolun，heshidiyicishijianduanxiangyushigenjuyixieredianxinwenshijianhuoshirichangsuoshixunsulajinguanlian。

 xuehenvhailiaotianyiqiangehuatiburujiuzhangwojidianganhuo，zaiqizhong，shehuifazhanhuatitaolunleijiushizhitantaomouyishizhengyaowen、redianxinwenshijianlaibiaoshubicizhijianduizheiyishiqingdeguandian，lirujinriganggongbudedisanjidujiaqianpaideng；

 richangshenghuorichangleijiushizhipubianbagua、duijinrigangchanshengshierdediaokan，lirudajiashitongxuemennenggoubaguaxiasheihesheichuduixiangle，huoshiqiyefantangdemalaganguoyoujiageshangzhangledeng。

 gerenaihaoleijiushizhigenjuxianghuzhijiandegongtonghuatizaochengxintaigongzhen，lirutaolunyitongxiaidedapaimingxinghejianshenyundong，xiaidetesemeishihuoshichuangzuozhe，xiangtongzhichuhuizaiduofangmianlajindajiadeguanlian。

二、从疏远到亲密无间，大家应当如何聊？

 xianliaoyikaishidemudishipobingzhilv，congshengshudaolejiebixuyigequanguocheng，zheishinenggougenjuliaoyixieyitongdegerenaihaorangbicixunsuchanshengqinggangongming。

 keshidabufenzhuangkuangxia，nanshenghenvshengdegerenaihaodoushihuichanshengwucha，feichangrongyishenxianganliao，lirunvhaihenjidongdehenanhaiziliaozongyijiemuhezuihongliuliangxiaosheng，ernanhaiziquehuihenvshengliaonbayongshiluobaihedulanteshoushang，zheishibianhuijuyoufanguolaideshijixiaoguo。

yiner，zailiaogerenaihaoleihuatitaolunshi，yidingyaotizaozuohaogongzuo，duoquzhangwolingyifangdegerenaihao，yiwentiweidaoxiang。

xianliaodexiayigehuanjie，bixubicixunsutigaoyouhaodu，conglejiedaoqinmiwujian。

zheigeshihoubixuyourichangsuosuiwangganqingleinantizhengqueyindao，bahuatitaolunliaoshen，chanshengxintaigongmingdian。

三、迅速拉进关联的12个难题

jiaruniqueshibuqingchuzenmekaiqihuatitaolun，neimajiushizheyixiaxiabiandehaoduogenantiba。

1、tangruonenggouyuedaoquanshijieyiqieyigeren，niqidainenggouhesheigongjinwancan？

2、niqidaizishennengbianchengzhimingrenshima？weihe，ruhexiangde？

3、zenmeyangcaichengdeshangshi“wanmeideyitian”，weishenmeni？

4、ninyougechangzhuanjiyigerentingma？jinqiyicishishenmeshihou？

 5、tangruojianglaibansuizhekejidefazhan，huifashengrangmeiyigerenhuoyibaisuidejiyu，keshi60suiyihou，zhiyoutiaoxuanweichi60suiyiqiandesiweiherenti，ninengtiaoxuannayige？

6、peipeipei，niyoumeiyouxiangxiangguoniguoshishishishishenmeyangzi？

7、jiyixingpengyoutongdianhuashi，ninengzhunbeichongfenxiashuoqishenmema？

8、aiheqinggan，zainixinlidoushishayingxianglini？

9、zhiqiankushishenmeshihou，youyumouyirenhuoshimoushi？

10、nijuededuinieryan，younaxieshiershikendingbukeyiwanxiaode？

11、jiarulingyifangzaoyibianchenglenizuihaodehaoguimihuoshijiyou，nijuedeshenmeshiershibixutalejiede？

12、nijuedeniduinijianglaideyibanyounaxieguiding？

 zhudonghenvshengliaotianhuatiyinggaicongnvshengbenshenzheshou，jinguanzhei12genantijinjinnanhaihenvhaixunsulajinguanliandefeizhengquedaan，danyouyidianshikendinghuida：dangshuangfangyaozuodaoxunsulajinguanliandemudi，baozhengfajuebicizhijianxinlizhenzhengniantou，chixutanxunbicizhijianxinli，kendingshiyigetongyongxingdefangshi。