xianliaozhonggouyinrenchuqudehuashuyoushenme?jiaruniyaoliaomei,zuixiannixuyaohuiyixiegouyinrenchuqudexiaotaolu,chuciliaotianhuashu900juyounaxie?erzheizhong,bixukaonidekouruoxuanhe,xiamianwojiuweipengyoumenchanshengchengrenliaotianhuashudaquan,yiqilaiqiaoqiaoba!richangliaotianhuashudaquanyounaxieyouyongde?
1、闲聊的节奏感
yibanlaishuo,nvshengheyixingpengyouxianliaobujianyitaijiji,jinkenengyizhengqueyindaoweizhudao,yinerzaixianliaozhongbixubakonghaoquanbujiezougan。
chuciliaotianhuashu900juyounaxie?xianliaojiezougandezuihexinneirongchengwei“duidengyuanze”。xianliaodezijuexingheneirongshangjinkenengweichibiciduideng。
liruzijuexing,yibanlaishuojijidakaihuatitaolundeneifangbianhuiyouyuxianxianchuleyidingdexuqiuganerchuzaichuyubeidong,yinerzuihaoshikeyibabicijijidepinlvcaozongzaigeyibanzuoyou。danruguoshiyudaolingyifangjibenshangburongyijijiyuenixianliaodeneileizhonglei,jiuxuyaotisheng2cijijidejiangeshijian,yijiangditaiguojijipuluxuqiugandaozhideweihai。
ciwaiyouguanxianliaodeneirong,zhengjingshiyiwai,dajiahaiyaozunzhaoduidengyuanze,shijifanyingzaineirongdezhangdu,xianliaodexintai,jiqihuiyingdejianju。xiangxiangyixianibianxielejiaozhangyitiaoxinxijilingyifang,lingyifangzhihuiyingleliaoliaowujishuju,zheigeshihouninenggaizenmeban?lingyifangdehuiyingbiaomingtazishenduinidexingqubudahuoshimuqianmeiyoushenmexianliaoyixiang,jiarunizaicifajiaozhangyichuandehua,bianhuikanqilainihenbutinghua,lingyifangnaizhiyoukenengyebuhuinini。zheigeshihoubijiaohaodetiaoxuanshijianjieminglehuiyinghuoshibuhui。
richangliaotianhuashudaquanyounaxieyouyongde?ciwaiwomenzaiquanbuxianliaozhizhongjinkenengzunzhaosheixiandakaihuatitaolunsheijiuxianwanbihuatitaolundebiaozhun,wanbidejihuijinkenengshezaixintaigaoxie,bubidengliaodaomeihualiaolezaiwanbi,zheiyangziyifangmiannenggoujixiayicidexianliaoliuyoudianfubi,lingyifangmianyekeyigenjuxianliaolaijifalingyifangdexintaizuodaoxiyinzhudemudi。jiarunifaguoyitiaoxinxilingyifangmeihui,haiyaoxuehaojianhaojiushou,qianwanbiezaicixunwenxialaile。chuciliaotianhuashu900juyounaxie?
2、聊天话题
changchangyouxierenxiangwoqingtushuobuqingchugaigenyixingpengyouliaoshenmehuatitaolun,dequeyinweinanshihenvshizaigerenaihaohesiweifangshishangdechabie,dajiachangchangnanyizaizishenshanyudehuatitaolunzhizhonghuodehelingyifangdegongmingdian,yiweiqushunconglingyifangdeaihaoyoudiaorulechuyubeidong。
yibanlaishuo,zailejiedeqianqi,dajiajinkenengtiaoxuanyixiejiaoweikeguanxing,hedajiabiciyouxiangjiaodehuatitaolun,haikeyigenjulingyifangdeweixinpengyouquanneironglaijinxing,huatitaolunneirongyaohelingyifangxiangguanjinkenengnengshitazaochengxingquaihao,yeshitahaozaiciweichixiaqu,lirunijiandaolingyifangweixinpengyouquanfaguozaiyijiafandianyongcan,suihouninengzaixiamianpingjiawenshishafandian,dengtahuiyingzhihou,nizaizhaolingyifangsixin。jiarulingyifangdexianliaofanyingfeichanghao,bingyouyidingdetuozhanzhihou,nenggoudaidaozishenderichangshenghuo,xianglingyifangkaizhanzishenzhanxian,chenjijijihuoshizhengqueyindaolingyifanglaiyaoqing,liruniyulingyifangshuo,“jinqixxxdianyinggongyingle,tingwenhenfeichanghao。”zheijiushiyigezhengqueyindaolingyifangdehuashu,jiarulingyifangyouxingquyoubushadehua,jibenshangbianhuijiexialaiyaoqing,jiarulingyifanghuifulengmo,biaominghuoduinihuoduizheiyingpianmeishenmexingqu,dajiajiubixujijichechu,ranglingyifangzhuomobutoudajiadezhenzhengniantou。
huatitaolunsuiranguanjian,dandajiazuixianyaoqueliyidian:xianliaodejibenshixianghuzhijiandeyouhuoli。jugelizi,jiaruwuyanzulaiyuenixianliao,jibiantashuodaodehuatitaolunzaiwuqu,lirujintiandetianqifeichanghao,lirunizaiganshenme,kenengniyiranhuihuidehenkaixinba?tongyang,ninengxiangxiangnirenshengdaoluzhongzuifangandeyigenansheng,jibianhetayuniliaodehuatitaolunnizaiyouxingqu,niyehuibuxianglicaiba。
yincimingbailema,youshilingyifangfanyingchayagenbingbushihuatitaolundenanti,zhishilingyifangduiniyagenmeiyouxingquaihao。zheigeshihouzhikaoweixinliaotianjiqiaoshibuhaode,wubigenjuzishenjianshejiqiweixinpengyouquanjibenjianshelaitigaobenshendeshiyongjiazhitigaoyouhuoli。
3、闲聊的心态
dajiachangchangshuoxiyinzhudeshizhishijifalingyifangdexintai。fanyingzaixianliaozhizhongbianshidajiabixugenjubenshendexintaiquganqilingyifang,jiangjielingyifangdexintaibingyinqigongming。
lirutongyijuhua“woxiabanla”he“.woxiabanle”,erzhekanshangquleisi,biaoluchulaideyisiquexiangchashenyuan,woxiabanlazhishishiyigeqingkuangxushu,meiyouyiqiexintaiyanse。keshiwocaixiabanletamenjiuxianzhuhanyouyizhongmaiyuandefumianqingxu,zheigeshihoubawozhulingyifangdexintaidiansuihouchenjishencengcixialai,tongchangnengzaochengbucuodeshijixiaoguo。liruninengshuo“wojinqiyelaoshijiabanjiadian,youqilei”huanjuhuashuo“xinkula,shengzhijiaxinzhirizhongyouyibie”,qianmianyizhongyibenshendelijinglaizuodaogongmingdian,houmianyizhongduilingyifangdegongzuozhongbiaomingrenke。
ciwaiyigejiaoweigaojidefangfa,womenkeyigenjubenshendexintailaiyijianfankuilingyifang,chanshengshunxiangtuidong。lirulingyifangtandaoyigenijiaoweiyouxingqudehuatitaolun,niyejiunenggouzhanxianjiaoweigaodeqingxuzhuangtai,jijizhudongganenhuikuilingyifang,keshijiaruzheiyihuatitaolunnimeishenmexingqu,bubiyouyishuncong,ranglingyifangganshoudaonixintaidexiajiang。zhangqiyiwang,lingyifanghuibaliaotianneirongcaozongzainiyouxingqudefanchouneile。
richangliaotianhuashudaquanyounaxieyouyongde?ciwainanshengdexintaidabufenquanshibeixiashencaokongde,yinernvshizaixianliaozhizhongnaizhinenggoujiayixiehanyouxingyuyideneirong,danbubitaixianzhu。liru:“gangxianzaodeqingkuangxiabeikaishuitangleyixiahaotong。”“gangmaiderousiwajuranpoleyigedong”,zheileihanyouxingyuyideneirongfeichangrongyiranglingyifangfuxianglianpian,danglingyifangyaoxiangshencengcideqingkuangxia,zaibahuafengyizhuanjiazhuangzhengerbajing,ranglingyifangmobutounideniantou,feichangrongyishengchanzhizaolingyifangdeqingxubodong。
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