ruguonibixuxiezhudeqingkuangxia,nishizhaocengbangguonideren,shinixiezhuguoderen?nirenweitamensheihuixiezhuni?1736niandeyitian,fulankelinzaimoudiyucanyuyanshuo。youyiweilifaweiyuanchedidizhitadejianjie,bingyijufulankelindeyanshuoyefabulelingyipianyanshuo,yongyuzhizefulankelin。ruherangbierenxihuanni?kankanzheixie1fenzhongrangbierenxihuannidefangshi。
fulankelinhenxiangyaozheiminglifaweiyuandeshiyong,danyouwangbudiaolianmianququyueta。yincifulankelintiaoxuanleyigehendutedefangfa,xiangzheiminglifaweiyuanjieleyibenhenbaoguideshu。zheibenshushilifaweiyuandegerenshouzang,shijiyiyiyetingdade。lifaweiyuanhentongkuai,chujieleta。
yigexingqiyihou,fulankelinjiangshuchanghai,binglingfuyizhangzitiaobiaoshiganji。lingrenxiangbudaodeshi,zaixiayiciyiyuanzhong,lifaweiyuanjijigenfulankelingoutongjiaoliu,erqiebiaoshuleduitadeshangxi。zhihou,tamenbianchengleyibeizidepengyou。
ruherangbierenxihuanni?zheijiushishehuixinlixueshangde,fulankelinxiaoyong。xiangrangyigerenfangan、buxihuannideren,yuelaiyuexiai、xiangyaobangni,neinijiujijixianshitabangniyigexiaomang。jiandandelejie,renmaiguanxi、haorenyuanrenpinquanshibubianchuqude。ziran,zheiyibubianyaoliuyixiandu。
fulankelinxiaoyongbuzhicunyouyurenxiangchuzhong,yiyangcunyouqingganzhong。zenmerangyigerenduiniyouganjue?fulankelinxiaoyong:sheitourudeyueda,sheijiuyuezaiyi。
1、“不便”拉进2个大家的心理间距
yaoxiangtarenduiniyouganjue,neimejiuxianshitabangniyigexiaomang,shitaganshoudaozhongshiherenke,lajinbicizhijiandexinlijuli。neiyang,qingganyezaiyigeyouyigebubianzhongtiwen。
juyigeshili,wozixiaodeyishishi,zishendeshierzijizuo,jinkenengbubibubiantaren。youyuworenwei,tarenmangnishibixuhaide,woyebuzhidaozishennengfouhaideqi,yincijujuebierendexiezhu。
rutongtongxuemenchilingshideqingkuangxia,huiwangfanrangrang,daowozhei,woquanshiwanju。ziran,shiwochide,yehuirangrangdahuoer,jinjinbuyaochitarende。yiciyouyigewoxihuande,piqiyejiaoweizhishuangdetongxuemengaosuwo:meiyicirangninidoubuyaochi,shifouxianqiwoya。
zhihou,womingbaile,chitarendelingshi,yaoqiubierendexiezhu,huirangbierenganshoudaozhongshiherenke,rangqingganyulaiyuqinmiwujian。youyurenshengzaishi,qinmijiechudeguanlianbianshizainibubianwo,womafannizhongchuangjiande。
2、“不便”是迅速促进感情的一种方法
penyouyiqiandanlianyigenanshenghaozhangshijian,shineileimingyandoukeyikanchuqudexiai。danliangrenyizhidoumeishashijixingdefazhanqushi,youyuliangrensixiajibenshangbulianxi。yihoupenyouyaoyanjiushengkaoshi,erzheiyinanhaizizaoyikaorule,youyixiegongzuojingyan。penyoujiudishengxiaqi,jinriwenzheigewenti,mingriwenneiyigenanti。
zaiyigegenantizhong,liangrendehuatitaolunxianzhuzengjia,qingganyeyuebianyuehao,penyouyebeinanhaizixiangaobaile。nanshengshuozishenyiqianlejiepenyouxiaita,danmeidangyihuishi。zhihou,bansuizhepenyouyulaiyu“bubian”ta,tayeyulaiyuzhangwopenyou,ganjuezheinvshengtingbucuo,yincijiuzaiyiqile。
suoyishuo,“bubian”shijishangshiyizhongxunsucujinganqingdefangfa。zai“bubian”zhong,lejiehezhangwolingyifang,chuangjianqinggan。ruguonixihuanyigeren,huobixuyigerendexiezhushi,zuihaoshixianshitabangniyigexiaomang。chenzhezheiyixiaomang,jianjiandilajinbicizhijiandeguanlian。
3、汇总
xiangrangtarenduiniyouganjue,jiuxuyaomingbaiyongshehuixinlixueshangdejichulilun,xuehaobubiantaren。zhongjiu,sheitourule,sheijiuzaiyi。danshibixuzhuzhongyidian,neibianshi“bubian”dexiandu。shidangde“bubian”rangguanliangengweiqinmiwujian,guoduode“bubian”huilingrenyanfan。
kankanzheixie1fenzhongrangbierenxihuannidefangshi,yiner,yaozhangwohao“bubian”defencungan,liuyijiexiangan,mingbaishidangheshidang,bubizitaomeiqu,zhanrenhuasuan。zheiban,huirangbierenyulaiyuduiniyouganjue。
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