极致的表面让他人对你有感觉 如何让别人喜欢你

 nanshengnvrendoushishijuexingxiaodongwu，nvxingyebiewushibuxiaobaibu，jinjinnishuipingmeiyounanshengneimefukuabale。yincixiang1fenzhongrangtarenduiniyouganjue，bingbingbushibukenengdeshiqing，jinjinzheiyifenzhongshihenyouzhuzhongde，zhengsuoweitaizishangyifenzhong，guanzhongxishiniangong，yaoxiangzaiyifenzhongneijiuyaotarenduiniyouganjueshibixutouruxuduode。yaoxianglingrenyizuiduandeshijianxiaixihuanni，zhikeyishigenjunijizhidebiaomianrangtarenduiniyouganjuele。ruherangbierenxihuanni？kankanzheixie1fenzhongrangbierenxihuannidefangshi。

 zuixian，jiushinidefuzhuang。zhengsuoweifoyaojinzhuangmakaoan，lianglidefushihuitigaoquanburendelevel，jiaruniyaoxiangyigejizhidepinpaixingxiang，neimajiuxuyaotiaoxuanheshizishendefuzhuangshejifengge，dedaoqinglv。

 cizhibianshinidetouxing。yigerendetouxingshinenggougenggaiyigerendezongtiganguande，lirujichengrenlibiandenanerhaozaibaxiufafanshangqudeqingkuangxiaquanburenkanshangquhenlengjun，keshidangtabaliuhaifangchulaileyihouquanburendoubuyiyangle，xuduofensidoushuojiarukeyijinzaobaliuhaifangchulai，neimanvyihaojiushitadele。

 ruherangbierenxihuanni？zaihoubianshizenggaodianhegaogenxiezile。zenggaodianshibuzugaodenanshenghenvshengbibukeshaoyoupin，shijiejiutamenzhongshengxingfudenvrena。yaolejie，dianshangyige5limidezenggaodian，quanburendoushihuibuyiyangde。ergaogenxiezizeshinvhaizhanxiannvxingfengcaidebibukeshaopinlei。danshigaogenxieziyaotiaoxuanzhongxindianhexiehougenchengsishiwududee，bingqiexiejianzuihaoshiqiaoqilaiyilimi，fangshuitaibuchaoguo3limidegaogenxiezie。

 zuizhongbianshimuguanghexiaorongle。tashirangtarenduiniyouganjuedezuizhongshenqi，buqingchuyoumeiyourenkanleyibutaiguodianying，chengweiyonghengbubian，libiandenvyihaodemuguanghexiaorong，zhendeshibudanlingyixingpengyouchimi，jiulianzhexingyenanyidichutadefengcai。danshi，pingchangrendemuguanghexiaorongyibanquanshihenyibande，keshishinenggougenjuduanlian，rangzishendemuguangmingmoushanlaide，nenggoucanzhaomeilanfanggaoshoulianyanshendefangshi，erxiaorongyejianyi，zishenduizhejingzixunlianzishenzuihaokandexiaorong，chanshengwuyishijiyi。

赞扬个人行为并非本人。

 julilaishuo，jiarulingyifangshizhuchu，qianwanbieshuo：「nijianzhibujiandandezhuchu。」taneixinlejieyoudaliangzhuchubitahaichuse。danjiaruniduitashuo，niyixingqiyouyibandeshijianhuidaotadefandianyongcan，zheijiushishifengaochaodechuipeng。

通过第三者表述赞扬。

 jiarulingyifangshijingguobierenjianjiexingtingjiannidekuazan，binilijigaozhizijidaliangleyifenyiwaijingxi。fanguolaidi，ruguoshizhizelingyifang，qianwanbietongguodisanzhegaozhibeigaofang，fangzhijiayoutiancu。

客气话也说起得恰如其分。

 keqihuashibiaomingnidebigongbijingheganxie，yinciyaozhangwofencun。youxierentiniganleyidiandianxiaoshi，nizhixushuo「ganxie。、「baoqian，zheijianshiqingmafannile。duiyu「gulouguawen，qingzhuweiduoduoguanzhao。zheileiqianqueqinggandekeqihua，jiukeyimianle。

应对他人的夸赞，说声感谢就行。

 yibanrenbeikuazanshi，duobanhuihuiying「haixing！」huozheyiweixiaodaiguo。yuqishuoneiyang，bibushangtanchengjieshoubinglijigenlingyifangshuoganxie。youshilingyifangkuazandajiadefuzhuanghuomouxiewupin，jiarunijuede：「zheijinjinbianyidehuoyuan！」fandaohuiranglingyifangnankan。

有赏析竞争者的豁达。

 ruguonidedirenhuotaoyanderenbeikuazanshi，bubijizheshuo：「danshi……」，jishinimeirenkelingyifang，biaocengshanghuoshishuoqi：「duia，tahenqinfen。」biaomingzishendehuoda。

指责也需看关联。

 kankanzheixie1fenzhongrangbierenxihuannidefangshi，zhongyanbuyidingnier，jiusuannishihaoxin，lingyifangyebuyidinghuijimianzi，naizhiwuhuinidehaoxin。chufeishiniyulingyifangyouyidingdeqingfenhuoxinlaijiben，buranbubisuibianjinxingpiping。