危害令人如何看待你 如何让别人喜欢你

 kexueyanjiubiaomingnizenyangpingjiabieren，yehuiweihailingrenruhekandaini。zanyangbieren，niliuyoudehuoxushigejijizhudongdeyinxiang。ermaiyuan，huijiangnihezheizhongbutaihaodefumianxinxideweihaidoulianluoqilai。ruguonishuotarendebaguadeqingkuangxia，wenzhehuiqianyishidejiangniyunisuoxushudexingqinglianluoqilai，zuihouzaochengzheizhongbutaihaoderengetezhiqianyidaonidedeshenshang。yincijinkenengtantaopengyoupenyoujijizhudongkaixindeshier，nikanqilaibianhuishigefeichanghaoderen。fanguolaidehua，changchangmaiyuanbierendebuchenggong，bierenyehuiqianyishidebazheizhongbuchenggongyunilianluoqilai。ruherangbierenxihuanni？kankanzheixie1fenzhongrangbierenxihuannidefangshi。

1.激励大家讨论他们自己

 zheileizuofajitarenrendedanaochanshengdeyukuaidengtongyushicaihuoshiqiancai。xuezhemenhuibaocheng，taolunzishenzongshihuijiqileisishicaiheqiancaijirendedanaochanshengdemanzugan。“zishenxianluhuichanshengfeichangduodechengjiugan。”dajianaizhibuyaoqian，yeyaoxiangxianluzishen。

2.给予意见反馈，了解难题

 ruherangbierenxihuanni？jiaruniyingyongnantilaizhengqueyindaodajiafajuebenshenzaisisuoquanguochengzhongdebuzhengque，rongxutamenzijixiangdaojiejuefangan，dajiagengbuyiganshoudaoweixie，qiegengxiangyaozhuisuinidezhengqueyindao。zaizheigequanguochengzhong，bushinilaizhaoxunnanti，zhishitalaizhaoxunbenshensisuoquanguochengzhongdecuolou。genjuyihoudeyijianfankuilaishitalejieyiqiandejiadinghuoshijueceshijishangshimeiyouyiyide。niyuenengxiezhutaxunzhaozishendekanfa，jiugengnenghelidebangzhubieren，jibiantagenbenmeiyishidaozhuangkuangdaodishiruhede。rangbierenxunzhaoqiadangdekanfadaibiaozhe“tuidongjijizhudongdegenggai”，erbushi“quanjuxingdezhuyaobiaoxianyijianfankui”。

3.寻找提议

当业务员只致力于要想售出尽量的高的价钱的情况下，仅有8％的人做到了总体目标。当业务员了解消费者怎样才可以达到她们的规定时，42％的业务员最终做到了售出房地产的目地。

 xunzhaotiyijililedajiazhongjiandaliangdexiezuojiqixinxineirongdegongxiangziyuan，baqianzaixingdeyouyiyideshangyibianweiyigehuligongyingdejushi。kexueyanjiubiaoming，zaijiagongzhizaoye，jinrongye，baoxianxingyeheyiliaoxingye，lejielingyifangdetiyiquanshizuiyouxiaoweihaipengyou，lingdaoheshuxiadefangshi。

4.2个难题的方法

 lejiebierenrichangshenghuojijizhudongdewupin，zaitamenhuiyinghouzailejietamenzhenduirichangshenghuonaxieguandian。zhenduidiyigenantidejijizhudonghuiyinghuizhengqueyindaodajiazaihuiyingdiergenantideqingkuangxiayejuedejijizhudong。yiyangdefangshiyezhuyaobiaoxianzailejiexueyuanhebabamamadeguanlianhuoshijingjifazhanzhuangkuangzenyang。zaizheili2geshilili，huibaobiaomingmanyilvzaiteshuxingyehuizhuzaizhexingfukuaile，yiqieganqingshangdezhongdawentizhenduigenggaiyigerendeqingxudouyongyouyiyangdegongxiao。

5.反复最终三个词

 kankanzheixie1fenzhongrangbierenxihuannidefangshi，jijizhudongdelingtingjubeinanyizhixindenengliang，renzhishijianjiaoshegongzuorenyuanyongtalaichuangjianhemudeguanlian。weitongguopeixunyounaxiexunsulijidefangshijijizhudongdelingtingma？neiyangbiaomingniyizhizaiting，bingqienitebieganxingqu，yehuishinidexiaohuobanmenyouxingqubaxiamiandexiaogushijiangwan。yingyongzheiyifangshideqingkuangxianixuyaolveweicongmingdian，keshishijixiaoguohenhaoyo。