怎样才可以变成“讲话高手” 网聊技巧大全

 xianliao，shiyimendaxuewen。youxierenshanyuxianliao，zaiherenxianliaoshi，nengshishuangfangdoulingrenmanyi、shushi，eryouxierendubumingbaitarendeqingxu，gensheidouliaobushencengci，yishizuikuai，jiuhenyoukenengzhishangyuwuxingzhong。zheijiushiqingshanggaoyudiqingshangzhishangdechabie。zenyangcaikeyibianchengqingshanggao、huixianliaoderenni？jinrijiurangwomenyiqizouruqingshanggaodequanqiu，getliaotianxiaojiqiao，daobieganliaoquanbianchengdingjide“jianghuagaoshou”。kankanzheixiewangliaojiqiaodaquan，ruhegennvshengliaotianbushifannao。

1、不揭人短，照料别人脸面

 jibenshangmeiyigerenquanshiaimianzide。danxuduorendaojianghuashi，changchangxinzhikoukuai、luanwanxiao、suibianjierenduan，buzaiyibierendelianmian，ranglingyifanggongranxiabuletaihuochuzainankan、jiejudechujing。neiyangdexianliaokendingshixianliaozhongdejihui。ganwanyaozaiyitarendelianmian，bunengxinzhikoukuai，buranniyizhizaitaneixindeyinxianghuishoudaofeichangdayingxiange。

2、除掉否认含意，才会更加有意义

 ruhegennvshengliaotianbushifannao，buzhengquedebiaodaxingshi：woaini，danwobuxihuannixiyan。“keshi”biaozhuanzhedian，youfourenyuyi。chudiaofourendeshijiyiyi，yifangmianshijilingyifangyifenzhongshi，lingyifangmianshixianyanghouyi。shehuixinlixueshangjuede，xianzanmeilingyifang，suihouzailiaolingyifangdequexian，gengfeichangrongyiranglingyifangjiena。

3、少用“我”，多讲“你”

 xianliaoshiliangrendeshi，herenxianliaoshibukeyizhikaolvdaozishen，ruguonizaijiangzishendelijinghuoshiduimoushideguandianshi，nenggouzaijiashang“nilei”，“nijuedeni”，shishidibahuatitaolunjiaojilingyifang，shilingyifangyeshiyoubiaoshudeshineikongjian，neiyangtarencaihuigengxiangyaoyunixianliao。

4、学好倾听

“zhuanxinzhizhitingtarenfayandexintaishidajianenggoujiyutarenjiaodadezanyang，yeshihuodetarenreliehuanyingdezuihaofangshi。”

 kankanzheixiewangliaojiqiaodaquan，xinxineirongzaisanbodequanguochengzhonghenyoukenenghuizaochengwaiquheshuaijianxishu，yinerjijizhudongheyongxindeqingtingshifenguanjian。genjulingtinglingyifang，gaoqingchulingyifangyujushenhousuoanhandehanyi，nenggoushunlidejinyibukaiqihuatitaolun，fangzhichuxiannankanchangjing。