该怎样阶梯性升級关联 怎样和女孩子聊天

 henzaoyiqianyiqian，woyegaoqingchuyigedadaoli：dajiagennvhaicongyigeluren，daofazhanqushichengnvyoudezheiyiquanguocheng，bianshi“shengjiguanlian”dequanguocheng。xuduodixionggennvhailiaolejiaozhangyiduanshijian，guanlianquemeiyouyiqiejindu，henyoukenenghuoshizailiaoyixieyongcanxiexiyinshuidekeqihua。xianliaogoutongjiaoliuyemeiyoushangsheng，dangranjiumeiyouguanxideshangsheng，suihoujiumeiyousuihoule。zenyanghenvhaiziliaotian？kankanzheixiegennvshengliaotianfangfa。

 huoshiyouyixiedixionghenvshengliaolemeijiri，jiuzhujianyuenvhaichuqu，huoshigennvshenggaobai，xiangrangtarenzuoninvyou。danguanlianmeiyoudaoneiyibu，nvhaihaowuyiwenburongyijienani。

yinci，yaoyankeyizhao，lejie——aimeiguanxi——qinmiwujianzheiyiliuchenglaizou。

第三、升級的方式

jidahuoergongxiangsangehenvshengshengjiguanliandeshizhanjiqiao：

1、顺向拉涨

2、反方向拉涨

3、跨环节预估

xianjiangdiyigefangfa——shunxianglazhang：bianshilijibiaoshuhaogandu

例如：

①.我爱你。

②.gennixianliaodejuedefeichanghao，haoxianggaoxiaoqingkuangxiadetanlianaiyiyang。

③.woainijianghuamengmengdademoyang。

liruwoyiqiangenyigenvhaixianliaofaguotamen：

 “nvxingfenerzhong，yizhongshichuandezailounidoumeixingqudeneilei，yeyouyizhongbianshichuandepingdanwuqi，queruheyeyinzangbushangxingganmiren，danniguishuyudierzhong。”

diergefangfa——fanfangxianglazhang：bianshijiashetazaizhuiqiuni，jiashetaduiniyouganjuedelazhangfangfa

例如：

①.shibushinixiaiwole，heihei

②.nilianburuhemimanzhetanlianaiyiyangdexingfukuaile！

③.shibushinizaixiangwo，jinriyizhidapenti

 zheijiushifanfangxianglazhang，liuyifanfangxianglazhang，jinguanmeizhihaowuyiwenburongyishuo：jiushiwowoaini，huozheshuo：shidewozaixiangni。

danguanjianshi，zaitajiang：tiancaixiangnila。nizhenziyiweishi。deqingkuangxia，dajiabuzaoyizaitiaodoulemeiyou？

disangefangfalveweifanzayidian：kuahuanjieyugu！

 guanfangwangbiaoshubianshi：duixiayigehuanjiedeshengjiegerenxingweizuotizaodeanshizhe！xuduodixionghenyoukenengnanyilejie，danmeishier！

biaozhunbijiaojiandan，zuixiannixuyaolieyigemingxi，naxiemingxini：

1.nihenvshengaimeiguanxideguanlianhuiganshenme？

2.nihenvshengqinmiwujiandeguanlianyouhuiganshenme？

 hao，xiamiangensuigousizou，jiaruniheyigenvsheng，zaoyidaoleaimeihuanjie，liuyizheiyiguanjianzi，shizaoyiaimeiguanxile，dajiahuiganshenme？

 shibushinihuijiaofalingyifangxiaobaobao。huihudaowananhaomengzaoshanghao。huiyiqishouqianshouqukandianying，huiyoushihouqinyixialiandaner，danyouyuzhehaixiu。

 suihou，jiaruyigenvshenggennizaoyidaoqinmiwujianhuanjie，dajiahuiganshenme？shifouhuiyiqiqulvxing，huihuhuanmimi，huifashengxingguanxi...

youyixiedixionghenyoukenenghuiwenle：nijuedezheizhongganshani？youshayong，ziranyoushiyongjiazhi！

 jilao：jiaruniyaoshengjiguanlian，neimeniwubi，tizaotanxianquanshizhexiayigeguanlianhuanjiecaihuizuodeshier，youyuyiqielazhangguanliandeshierbidingquanshiyoufengxianxingde，suoyiwocaiyongtanxianliangzi，jizhuweidayigeyimiao！

 liruhenvshengzailejiehuanjie，niyaoaimeiguanxi，neimaniyejiutizaozaixianliaozhonganshizhenvhaiyixieaimeiguanxihuanjiehuizuodeshier，liru：gairidajiashouwanshouqukandianyinga。

zailiru，ninengduinvshengshuo，ruguonitaitaorenxihuanle，wojinbuzhuqinni，ninengdawoma？

 wuluntahuiyingdahuoshibuda，yebuguanjian，guanjiandeshixinxineirongchuandiguoqu，huoshizheijuhua，nidetiaodoumudizaoyizuodaole！

xuduoxiongdigennvhaiyouhui，yueleyizhongwu，shishouyemeiqian，lianyemeiqin。zongzhibianshiliaoleyizhongwu，dulishuiweihebaole。

 neimazaiweixinli，tizaoqianrukuahuanjieyugu，jiukeyijizhidichulizheigewenti。youyunvhaiquanshixiailaoshihusiluanxiangdeweishengwu，nijuedeshouqianshouqukandianyingdeqingkuangxia，nvhainaozilibianhuixiangxiangchudajiashouqianshoudejiemian，neiyangniyouhuideqingkuangxiaquqiantadeshou，nvhaiyehuihendangrandijiena。

OK，汇总一下：

 kankanzheixiegennvshengliaotianfangfa，xianghenvshengshengjiguanlian，zuixiandiyiyaofenbiannenggoulazhangdeduihuakuang，genjuxintaideguanjiandianqubianbiemeizhidexingquaihao。suihouyizhao3getaijie：lejie——aimeiguanxi——qinmiwujianqushengjiguanlian。zuizhongyaodeshi，sandalazhangfangshi：shunxianglazhang，fanfangxianglazhang，kuahuanjieyugu。