nanhaizizhuiqiunvsheng,diyicidexianliaoshishifenguanjiande,yidingyaojidaolingyifangdediyiyinxiangshijizhide,lianggerenqudechenggongdegailvhuigenggao,yinci,yidingyaonulixuexinannvzhijianxianliaodehuashu!zhuinvhaizidouliaoxieshenmezhuinvhaizideliaotianhuati。
一、自来熟闲谈
zaigangzaijiashangmeizishoujiweixindezhuangkuangxia,zilaishukeyirangnidexiantanshaozouhenduodezhuanwan,zaizuikuaideshijianneihemeizixiaochumoshenggan,dangmoshengganxiaochu,meiziduinixuehuifangxiajingtixingdezhuangkuangxia,zaihemeiziliaotianjiaoxin,cikejiuqingqingsongsongduole。
xuduonanhaierzaijiahaomeizi,bulejiedemeizigoutongjiaoliushi,qingbuzijindichaxunhukouwenmeizi:“niduodaleya?”“nilaizinaliya?”“niganshenmegongzuozhongdeya?”“nijiaoshenmemingziya?”dengmeiyouyingyangchengfendenanti,neibandenanhaiernaoqiaozhi、bushanyanci,pubianmeiyoushenmetanchuliandeganjue。
yaozhangwotichuwentishilurenzhongjiancaihuitide,neileixiantanhenrongyirangdahuoerdexiantanxianrumoshengdejingyu,“mosheng”nvshengbianhuiduinidaozhixintaifangyuli,meiziyouzenmekenengyunigaoxingxiantanni?
zhuinvhaizidouliaoxieshenme,kanxiamianzheileiweixinliaotianfangfa:
1、“kanniweixinpengyouquandezhaopian,woxiangqilewodelaotongxuemen,ganjueyixiazihuidaoletongnian”(hahadaxiao)
2、“dabolangjuandetoufazaijiashangnidedairongwaitao,kanshangqunihaoyouqizhi”(chengzan)
3、“xiaogouweishenmehaibushui”(quxiaoming,keyongwanshang)
4、“xingzuoshushangshuodahuoerjinrishihexiantan”(shengchanzhizaoqiuzhiyu)
5、“nidefuzhuanghenyouyizhongchengshunvxingdefengyun,ganjuenidechuanzhedabanshifenhao”(sese)
二、呈现高使用价值
chuduixiangzishenshiyichangshiyongjiazhijiaohuan,nanhaizizhuiqiuwanmeipifubainen、rongmao、xianxidemeituidenvshi,nvshinizhongaizixinxin、congming、gaoqingshang、youjinquxindenanhaizi,yinciwomenzaixianliaoshiyaochixuchengxianbenshendeshiyongjiazhi,xunxujianjindetigaomeiziduinideyouhaodu。
zheiligeweipengyoumenwubizhuyideshi,chengxiangaoshiyongjiazhibingbudaibiaozhexuanyao,biru“takailebaomawuxi,zaichengquyouyitaofushifangdefangzi”“niqiaowodaidebiaoshifankeyabao”“gangtanleyigewubaiwandezuixinxiangmu”。neibanzongshihuirangmeizijuedenibushanyanci。
shidangdichengxianshiyongjiazhidefangshishishenmeni?jiushiyijujianggushi,yiyizhongjianjiexingxingdefangfaxushuchulai。
kanxiamianzheileiweixinliaotianfangfa:
1、“rujinwoquanshenshangxiajuedechongmanledongneng,meiduojiuzaijianshenjulebuduanlianleyigexiaoshi,xianrujinhuijiaxianzao”(zhanshichubenshenzhongaijianshenyundong,youyizhongjiankangdeshenghuofangshi)
2、“hepenyouyiqichulaijiucan,daoxianzaidouhaimeishangcai,ganjueyaoedaotilibuzhile(diuyizhanggaodashangdecantingzhaopian)”(zhanshichubenshenderichangrichangshenghuopinwei)
3、“zuijindahuoergongsiyouhenduozuixinxiangmuyaozuo,meiridoumangchenggou”(zhanshichubenshendeshangjinxin)
4、“meiyicidajiagongsijuhui,tamendoutuiwochuchanggechang”(zhanshichubenshenshanjierenyi、huigechangdetezhang)
5、“zhongaizheileiwujushudejuede(diuyizhanglvxingzhaopian)”(zhanshichubenshenaihaolvyou、richangshenghuoduozhongduoyang)
言过其实承认错误
xiaoguniangzhuzhongnidequedianzhuangkuangxia,wuxuzhengbian,wuxusahuang,wuxuqianqianbuhai。rentongta,bingqieyanguoqishita。
biruxiaoguniangwen:“nishibushijingchangneibandashanlejiexiaoguniang?”
nihuifu:“duiya,nishiwoxinzhongjinridashandediyibaige。”
辨别假难题,避开不回复
bingbingbushisuoyoudenantidouwubihuiyingde,youshihouzhishitayishiqiuzhiyuwenyiweneryi,bingbingbushiqueshixiangzhangwo。biruxiaogunianglejieni:“nizhongaixiaohaizima?”
bijiaojiandandejiejuefangshi,jiazhuangmeitingjian。
先认同,后否认
heshangmiandeyanguoqishixiangfan。xianjiazhuangrentongxiaoguniangdekongsu,jiezheyouyinchulaixinbiaoshu,rangxiaoguniangfajuezishenhenyumeiwuzhi。
xiaoguniangwen:“nishibushizaizhuinvhaizia?”
nihuifu:“duiya,woyizhizaipaohenduoxiaoniu……wozhengzaishineiyouyongguanlipaozhe,zheilihenduoxiaoniu。”
xiaoguniangwen:“nishibushixiangzhuiwo?”
zhuinvhaizideliaotianhuati,nihuifu:“duiya。wozuijinlian100mipaotiqianzhunbeibaokaocanyuaoyunhuini,zhengquegepeilian。”
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