怎样维持异国恋呢 异地恋怎么维持

 yikaishiyiguoliandeliangrentongchangduizheiyifenqingganxinxinmanman，youreqingyeshiyouqudongli，jianxinzheiyiduanqinggankeyizhangqidizouxialai。danyiguolianshijianjiule，ruguonibixutadeqingkuangxiatazongshimeifapeizheni，niyaoxiangyongtadeyizhipengchubushang，nijiandaotarenxiangaierqiuzishenqueziranyishen，zaisuonanmianganjuebiequ、gudan、xinsuan，naizhishifali。yidilianzenmeweichikannimendegoutong，neiyidilianzenmeliaotianshengwenkuai?yiguoliantongchangshigudan、jianaodequanguocheng，yongyuzhujianyiguoliandeliangrenshiyingyongde，yeshifeichangzhideqinpeide。neimazenyangweichiyiguolianni，shiwoyixiajigefangmiantiyigongnicanzhao：

1.保持联络，有什么问题立即沟通交流

 jianjushiyiguolianjiaodadeduishou，taxiangdundaozhancangyiyangcuicanzheenaideliangren，tazulanleliangrenganqingdegoutongjiaoliu，bulibicigoutongjiaoliu，ergoutongjiaoliubulijizehuirangqingganfashenggeshigeyangdenanti。keyishuo，yiguolianzhongfashengdejuedaduoshunantiquanshiyinweigoutongjiaoliumafansuozaochengde。

 yidilianzenmeweichikannimendegoutong，yinci，yiguoliandeliangrenyingdangweichianshilianluo，xunzhaoyigeshihedexianliaopinlv，bukeyitaijingchangyebukeyijianjuhenjiu。lianluotaijingchanglehuiweihailiangrenyiqiezhengchangderichangshenghuo，bicizhijianyehuihenpijuan，erhenjiubulianxidehuaqingganfeichangrongyibianqian。yucitongshi，liangrenyongyounantiyaolijigoutongjiaoliu，lijichuli，bukeyibafenqixianzhixialai，zhengchaolezuihaoshidangrijiuhehao，bubizaochenggeyechou。

2.塑造一同的个人爱好，造就话题讨论

 yiguolianjiule，liangrenyinweibicizhijiandegongzuozhongyushenghuobutongbu，chupengdeshiqingbujinxiangtong，jiufeichangrongyimeiyouhuashuo，chanshengyizhongnibudongwo、woyebulejieni，liangzuxiangguwuyandenankanjushi，neiyangxialailiangrendefeichangrongyibicizhijianshuyuan，yuelaiyueyuan。

 weilegenghaodifangzhizheileizhuangkuangfasheng，yiguoliandeliangrennenggousuzaoyitongdegerenaihao，neiyangnenggouzaojiuyixiegongtongyuyan，rangliangrennengyouhuashuo，bingduibicizhijianderichangshenghuoyoucanyuxing，jiazhonglianggerenzhongjianqianban。liru，liangrennenggoutongkanyibenshu、yibudianying，xianghuzhijiangoutongjiaoliutihuiheguandian；haikeyiyiqiwanyigeyouxi，zaixuhuanshijielihuxiangshouhouyeshiyizhonglanman。

3.按时碰面增进感情

 yiguolianyiweizheniyouzhedeshiyigekandeqingmobudaodeqinglv，taxianggewanliyoujinzaizhichi，zheihuilingrenjuedegengweigudan、gengweinanren。chuduixiangbixulingyifangdeshouhou，bixuxiangyonghepengchu，yiqiezhengchangtanlianaidelianrenzhangqibujianmianleqinggandoushihuibianqian，genghekuangshiyiguolian。yiner，anshipengmianzhenduiyiguolianeryanyouweizhongyao，yiguoliandeliangrenyingdangbaochiyouxiaodepengmianpinlv，lijizengjinganqing，meiyoubiaozhunjinkenengdifahuitezhang，zhongjiuzaiyiqicaisuanshitanlianaidezuihouzhuiqiuwanmei。

4.提升自我，让自身忙起來

 yiguoliandeliangrenmianbulerichangshenghuobutongbu，butaikenengmeishimeikenengxianliao，zonghuiyouyixiemeifazaiyidaolingyifangdeqingkuangxiaheshushouwucedeshike；jibianliangrennenggouxianliao，dangjiandaoqitalianrentianmeidezaiyiqi，erzishengushenyiren，neixinmianbuleyanxian、biequ，duiqingganzaochengwuzhugan，shifangfumianqingxu。

 jiranzheileiwukenaihedezhuangkuangnanyifangzhi，neibibushangrangzishenmangqilai，chenzheigeshihoutigaoyixiazishen，xuexipeixunyixieyaoxuedewupin，zuoyixieyaoxiangshizhedeshier。zheijinengchongshizijiderichangshenghuo，rangzishenshaozaochengxietanlianaidefumianqingxu，yekeyirangzishengengweichuse，zaixiayicipengmianshirangairenzhenhanbuji。

5.把ta整体规划到你的将来里

 liangrenwangwangyongyuzhujianyiguolian，tongchangshiyouyumanhuaiduibicizhijianyouyigemeihaodeweilaidexiangxin，zheiyixingfudeqiyeyuanjinghuicujinzheliangrenjianchidaodi；jiaruliangrenkanbujianjianglaizainaer，meiyouyigeyitongdezhangyuanmubiaodehua，jiufeichangrongyizoubuxialai。

 yiguoliandeliangrenzuihaoshirenzhendiliaoyiliaojianglaidezhunbei，ruguoshizhenxinshiyidiyaoxiangzaiyiqidehua，jiubatazhengtiguihuadaonidejianglaili，jizubicizhijianguishugan，bingchaozheiyijianglaigongtongfendou，chanshengganqingshangdezhichengdian，neiyangqingganhuigengweijiangu。

 yidilianzenmeliaotianshengwenkuai，ganqingqueshilingrenkunao，yuanyijinglijingyiguoliandeniyizhizaikanjinshijianfanhuayihoukeyixiangyongzhiaideren。