异地恋怎么维持 异国恋必须每日都通电话吗

 yiguolianbixumeiridoutongdianhuama？wohenanpengyouyouyuzheijianshiqingnaolehaojihuiguaiguaidetashuodao“tongdianhuanengzhengshiwoainimabutongdianhuawoyebuainile？”keworenweimeiwantangbeiwoligennanpengyoutongdianhualiaoliaotianshiyijianfeichangxingfudeshiataneiyangshuoderangworenweizhihoudajiameiyicitongdianhuadouzhibuguojinxingyijianmeirirenwuyiyangjiuhuranhaoleiyajinguanyouhenshucidoufeichangleiyehenshucibuyuanjianchibuxielechuduixiangtainanleya；yidilianzenmeweichikannimendegoutong，neiyidilianzenmeliaotianshengwenkuai?

 youyuyixieyuangu，tajiazhongqidaiwomenkeyizaoyidianwanhun，tashuodaotabuyuanguozaowanhun，ganjuehaibingbushiqingkuangxia。(wonengzishenganjueyouyubugouaiyincibuyuanyuwowanhun)zaiyiqiguoqule2geshengdanheyuandanjie，yemeiyoulipin，tashuodaoneisuanbushangjieri，kewoqingxidehaijidetazhiqianshengdanzengjitaqianrennvyoudelipin。(henyoukenenghuiyouxierenganjuenanhaiziweihejiuyingdangsongniwupinwomenliangzaiyiqineimezhangqimeiyicitasongwowupinhouwodoushihuihuizengsongjitayifengengzhenguiyidiandechulaiyongcanwanyeshihuijijifuyixieqianziranshitanadeduoyixie)aizhenidenanhaizihaowuyiwenhuizaitagongzuonenglifanchouyineirangniyixiexiaojingxideba。wojuedebeizaiyibeigaoduzhongshibeifangzaixinlichongzhe，bingbushishitaganjuewohenainiruheduiyuwodoubuhuilikai。，keshiniweishenmeyidingyaozaitasongnilipinyihouhuilini？nichedinenggouzaiwanshengyejiusongtalipin，tabuhuili，nizaicizaiyuandanjiesongtalipin；

 zhixutashiduiniyouganjue，jiusuanshipobudeyiyaohuilinilipindeyuangucaisonglenilipin，neiyouyoushenmeguanxi，nandaoshuolipinshijiechuandajiaqinggandezhuanyonggongjuma？xiangyaokaigedian，bubilaoxiangjiechuanlingyifangshifouhuijijisongnilipin，yebubinarujinhezhiqianbi；

 buguanqingganchuzainaxiehuanjieshenmeyuanyin，naizhishiwanhunyihou，dajiadouyingdangjinliangbimianquxiwanglingyifangganshenmeshuoxieshenme，ruguonixiangxinlingyifangshiaizhenide，zheijiukeyile；

 xihuanyuaibianshijiena，nijirantiaoxuanlezheigeren，neimatadeyoudianhequedian，youdianquedian，nijiarutaoyan，danyebubidichu，diaozhengzishenqujiena，henyoukenengnijuedewojiangdetaidayilinranle，danshishishangnineiyangganle，zhixulingyifangaizheni，xiangxinziji，ninengganshoudaojiqingqingsongsongyouxingfukuailedeganqing；

第三：自我调整

yiguolianhepingchangdetanlianaijiaodadechabiebianshibukeyizhenshitihuilingyifangdeyiqie；

 dangdajiachanshengfenqishi，niyongyuanbuzhidaolingyifangdexiaobiaoqingshishenmeyangzi，niyebuzhidaolingyifangshifouyouzaidajiachanshengfenqiyiqianjiuzaoyiyouyumoushiqingqingxudiluo，xiaochenle；

 ziranniyebuzhidaolingyifanghenijuedezaihuibaogongzuoerjutishifouzaiwanwangzherongyaoshangpaiwei，keshizheiyebuguanjian，wangwanghuidakaiyiguolian，bianshiyouyudajiabicizhijianjianxinlingyifang，qieganjuedajiadeganqingnengdiyuyiguoliandegezhonggeyangyanlidaji；

 yincidajiazaiqingganzhongjiurutongyiduixiaziyiyang，zhiyougenjuyuyanbiaodaxushuqutihui，genjuxinlaiquqingchugulv，zheijiushifenmoliandajiafenbiedeziwodiaozhenggongzuonengli；

 biru：tagangyouyuxiaoshouyejibuhegebeilingdaoganbuxunhua，zheigeshihouniyouyouyutameiyouhuilinilipindeshier，hetashuawukenaihe，keshiniyongyuanbuzhidaotaqingxuruhe，neizheigeshihoujiandaonidexinxi，tahuiruhexiang？

 tahaowuyiwenhuijiangnidangshishouqibao，jieyouhuililipindeshier，baganhuopodaonideshenshang，zhongyaojiushiniyilianmengbi，niyongyuanbuzhidaoweihe？benlaishitameiyouhuililipin，shitabudui，weihechaonidongnu，yinciniyejiuqinaole；

 zheigeshihoutaxiangdeshi：wogongzuozhongneimelei，haixuyaoshiyingni，wojiushihenlei；erniyaodeshi：shenmeyuanyin，momingqimiao，taoyanjiujiushuo，weihedongnu；dajiayucitongshiganjueyiguolianhenlei；

xiangyixiangjiarudajiadounengziwodiaozhenghuishizenyangni？

 biru：tagangyouyuxiaoshouyejibuhegebeilingdaoganbuxunhua，zheigeshihouniyouyouyutameiyouhuilinilipindeshier，hetawanxiao，taziwodiaozhenghou：ganggangbeilingdaoganbuxunhuale，xinqingyumen，rongwomanman；cikenijiandaoxinxijiububimeishizhaoshi，rangtaqingjingjieduanyixia；

 jiarutameiyouziwodiaozheng，rengranxiangnidongnu，dannikeyiziwodiaozheng，cike，ninengxiangqi，budui，yiqiantabushineiyangde，tahaowuyiwenshiyouyubiedeshierzaiqitoushang，huoshixiankuanweijijuzailiao；

 bushiwomahoupaodejiaofa，zhishiyijuwoqiuzhuzhejutishilijudeshili；yiguoliandeziwodiaozhenggongzuonengliqueshihenzhongyao；jiaruniyizhizaiyiguolianyouyanxianqitalianrenxiangzhixiangxi，naizhiguidingnidenanyouzuoyiyangdeshier，nijuedezheiyihenyoukenengwanchengma？

第四：异国恋的時间及其室内空间

 zheiyihuiyinghuijueyiqieyuyanbaoli，naxiezuohaozijixingquaihaobuyuenixianliaobianshibuaini，naxiedayouxiyebuyunixianliaobianshibuaini，dahuoerquanshichengren，wanshanyidianjiaoweitiejinjuti；

 jiurutongzheigewentiyiyang，bixumeiritongdianhuama？yinrenyousuobutongde，jiarunidemubiaoshineileiyouqinianrendezhonglei，buyaoshuoyigedianhuale，yidianyebufukuadeshuohenyoukenengshangyigexishoujiandouxiangheniliaoyiliangju；

 yincizaiyiguolianyiqian，wogairenshizijidetanlianaimubiaoshiguishuyunaxiezhongleide，ruguoshizheileijiaoweinianrendezhonglei，danniyoutaoyanbeitaolao，neimajiuxuyaoyouxiaodeshangyigoutongjiaoliushijian；

 meiyigerendouxiangyouguishuyuzishendesuiyishijian，dayouxi，shuadouyin，kanxinlangweibo，qukanshu，dalanqiu，tashirendebenzhi，nibutaikenengshuo，womenyaoyiguolianle，douxuyaohaoduogeyuedabannianjianyici，nimeirinanidalanqiudeshijianpeiwoliaotianba；

 zheijiuhe“zheidoushiweinihao”yiyangmeiyoushenmechabie，qingganbingbushilianluodepinlvyuegaoqudechenggongdegailvjiuyuedade，jiaruneiyang，yejiuburongyiyouliyiyijiangle；

 gouxiangyixia，dajiayiguolian，meiritongdianhuachukaichilema，shuijuele，duochuandian，suihoubianshigongxianggezhonghuatitaolun，danhuafangfoyueshuoyuedi，daozuizhongbianweichilema，shuijuele，guadiaoba；

 yidilianzenmeliaotianshengwenkuai，ruguonishidangjiyulingyifangshineikongjian，shijishangyeshibianxiangderangniyixieziyoukongjian，jinriyoushijiannenggouheguimiwanhuihuafei，mingrihepenyouzuoyigezuomeijia，houtianxingqutushuguanchongshiziji，xiangyixiangzishenbudanyoutanlianai，yeshiyoupenyou，haoguimi，zheibushihenxingfudeshierma？