dangnanhaizipengdaozishenxiaidenvhaiyihou,tongchangbuqingchugaiyaozenmegennvhailiaotiancaikeyinenggougenghaodituidongqinggan,rangnvshengxiaishangzishen。shijishanggennvhailiaotianganwanbunengmangmugenfengdiquliao,yingdangyoufangfade,neiyangcaigengweifeichangrongyirangliangrendeguanliangengweiqinmiwujian。goutongfangshibuyiyang,zaochengdeshijixiaoguoyejiubuyiyang,neimananhaizigenzishenxiaidenvshengxianliaoyingdangyaozenmeyangcainenggourangnvshengxiaishanggennixianliaoni,tuidongliangrendeqingganni?zenmegenmeiziliaotianzhaohuati?henvshengliaotianyoumohuatibunanzhao。
1.闲聊要当然一点
liangrenzhongjianzuishushidejiaowangfangfabianshibubicouhe。yikaishixianliaodeqingkuangxia,youyubulejiedeyuangu,liangrenzhongjianxianliaohenyoukenengmeiyoulejieleyihouliaodaoneimachangshun,yinciyoushihuicunyougaliao,zhaobuzhehuatitaolundeqingkuangxia。galiaodeqingkuangxiabuyaohuang,bubiyouyugaliao,ganjuenankan,suihouganliao,neiyangdahuoerdoushihuinankanheganjueyayigan,nanshou,yinciganliaodeqingkuangxiajiububiliaole。yeyoubianshinvshengbuhuinixinxineirongdeqingkuangxiajiububihaiyizhijinvhaifaxiaoxi,wentaweishenmebuhuinixinxineirong,duitakaizhanxinxihongzha。neiyangchanzhenvshenghuirangtaduinihendichude,nvshengbuhuinixinxineirongyaobubianshizaimang,meiyoujiandao,yaobushibuyuanhuinixinxineirong,yincizheigeshihouwulunnizenmefaxinxiquanshimeiyouyongde,bingqiehaihuijixurangnvshengganjuenihaofan,jidahuoerchongzudeshineikongjian,buchanzhenvshengcaisuanshizuihaoshide。
2.以诚相待
zenmegenmeiziliaotianzhaohuati?zhenxinshiyikandaibulunshijiaoyouhuoshizhuinvsheng,quanshihenzhongyaode,yichengxiangdaicaikeyirangliangrennenggougenghaodijiaowang,jiarumankouhuanghua,liangrendeguanlianburongyibaochidehenjiu。nvshengdouxiaizishendelingyibanshiduizishenzhenxinshiyide,yinciniduinvshengyichengxiangdaiyidian,bubirenhedongxidoumanbao,bubiyizhishuohuang,dedaonvshengdexinlai,jidaonvshengguishugan,nvshengdangranhuigengxianggennizaicijiaowangxialai。gennvhailiaotianyaoyichengxiangdai,erqienenggourenzhendi、naixinditingtajianghua,neiyangyouhaoduhuitishengxuduo。tangruoniduinvshengshuohuang,mouyitianbeinvshengfajuele,neidajiayejiunanyizaizaicijiaowangxialaile,gengbuyaoshuoqudechenggongzhuishangtale,lianyibanpengyoudouzuobudao。
3.找寻突破点
nanhaiziyaoxianggennvshengyouhuatitaolun,chukaipingchangduoguancharichangshenghuo,fazhanjianshi,hainenggouzaixianliaozhongxunzhaotupodian,neiyangjiukeyijielianbuduanyouhuatitaolunliaole。birunvshenggennishuotadujialvyoudelijing,neihenyoukenengcongzheidangzhonghuitijitesemeishi、jingse、tesechanpindengcengmian,neimaniyejiunenggouyizheizhongcengmianzuoweihuatitaolun,suihoujinxingxianliao。bingqieruguonishuodaonvshengxianliaozhongtijidewupin,haikeyizhengshinishiyouyongxintingnvshengjianghuade,tadangranhuiganjuenishiyouzhongshita,tingtajianghuade。dangdajialiaotianzheizhongcengmiandeqingkuangxia,jiaruliaodaohaohuoxuhainenggouhaiyoujihuichuqupengmianquyongcanguangjiegouwuni。
4.做一个引领者
henvshengliaotianyoumohuatibunanzhao,xuduonvshengquanshimanrexingde,yincigenniyaobulejiedeqingkuangxiahenyoukenenghaibuzizaizishenqugennixianliao,yincihenyoukenengburongyishuoguoduo,yebuhuiruhejijizhaohuatiliaotian,zheigeshihouzuoweinanhaizidenijiuxuyaojijidiaozhengfenwei,tuidongnvsheng,rangnvshenggensuinidegousizou,zishenjianjiandibianchengxianliaozhongdeshishizhe。ruguonituidonglexianliaodeqifen,yerangliangrenyougengjinyibudelejie,neinvhaibianhuijianjiandixuehuifangxiafangbei,nenggounenggougenghaodigennixianliao。
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