如何突破高冷妹子?让她不再高冷

 ruhetupogaolengmeizi？qingganbuhaoshuogongpinggongzheng，youshidajiayouqixiaiyigenvsheng，buguanganleruheqinfen，jiaoniliaogaolengnvsheng，lingyifanghuoshiduizishenhenlengao。zheihuoxubingbushitaxingqinglengao，jinjintabuyuannuanjinimen，neimalengaodemeizhiyingdangzenmeliao？

１、怎样解决闲聊中的冷淡

 ruhetupogaolengmeizi？dajiahenvshengganglejiedeqingkuangxia，shijishangdounenggouliaodaofeichanghao。nvhaidelengao，doubingbushiyikaishijiuzheiban，zhishilijingyiduanshijianhoucaihuizhuyaobiaoxianchuqude。zheishiyouyunibushanyanci，yizhibatianliaosile。

 nanshenghenvshengdegoutongjiaoliuquanshibixugoutongjiaoliuwanchengde，jiaruxianliaoshinimeifarangnvhaitidaoxingquaihao，neimatabutaikenengduiniyouhaogan，duinilengaoshiyiqiezhengchangzhuangkuang。

 yincizaizhuiqiunvshengshi，dajiazuixianyingdangzhangwonvhaideyaoqiu，bingbatazuoweiliaotianhuati。jiaruniyizhiliaozishenyouxingqudeneirong，neimalingyifangbuyuanlicainishihenyiqiezhengchangde。

 jinyouyinvhaideyaoqiuweihuatitaolunjinxingxianliao，caikeyijifataxianliaodechongdong，rangtaxianghenihudongjiaoliu。xuanzhunnvhaidexingquaihaohuatitaolunyehenzhongyao，qianwanbieyizhitichuwenti，zheileichaxunhukouyiyangxianliaoshinvhaizuiyanfande。jieguozongshidaozhilingyifangduinilengao，bingqieliniyuezouyueyuan。

２．闲聊中的重要

 xuduodixionggenmeizhixianliaodeqingkuangxia，meizhidehuifudoubutaihao，zheishiyouyunidexianliaobingmeiyoujifanvhaidexintai，zaochengnvhaiganjuegennixianliaohensuoranwuwei，jianjiandidebianhuibuhuini，naizhijiaruheimingdannini。wozhiqianyejingchanghuichuxianzheileizhuangkuang，bieshuoduofanmenle，zhihouzaiweixinshangsoudaoyikuanweixinxiaochengxu，chengwei－－－jiaoniliao，meimeihenvhailiaotiandeqingkuangxia，woyekaiqizheiyixiaochengxu，banvshengshuodehuazhuangjinquyisou，tabianhuigenwoshuoyingdangzenmehuifunvhaile，bingqielibianyeyouhenduoxianliaoshilihegaobiedanshenshilijiaochengnenggouxuexipeixun。rujinwogennvshengliaotian，yiliaoyigezhun，dabufendounengshunlidaihuiqu，nidongdede。youciwuqi，liaogemeituogedan，qingsongdeshi。

 xianliaozuihaoyizishendelijinghuoshiduangushizuoweihuatitaolun，zhengqueyindaonvhaizhangkouxianliao。congnvhaiganenhuikuidexinxizhong，fenbiantaduishenmeyouxingqu，suihoutaoluntadeyaoqiu、aihao，neiyangnvhaijiuburongyizaiduinilengao。

 ciwaizaixianliaoshi，yidingyaojinvhaijiyuyoushiyongjiazhideneirong，biruzishendeaihao，huoshishibixuyixiegongzuoyalideshifangchulai、ganqingdesuqiu、xintaishangdegongmingdian。xianliaoshi，jiarunengjilingyifangjiyujingshenshizhishangdeshiyongjiazhi，neimatabianhuiduinizaochengxingquaihao，xiangyaozhangqixingyunixianliao。

 zongeryanzhi，xianliaoquanguochengzhongganwanbukeyiganliao，huoshishichaxunhukoudeliaotianhuati，hejutiyouguandelijinghexiaogushi，libianyaobaokuoxintaiheganqing，yaofeichanghaodechanshenggongming。neiyangnvhaicaihuimishangyunixianliao，duinibuhuizailengao。

３、提升冷漠 的关联

yi、nixuyaotichuyaoqiu，zhengqueyindaolingyifangxiangmutouzi，yibiaozishendejiagouhebubianyigan。zaojiuyingxiangliduideng。

 er、yongwanzhuandefangfalaishengjiguanlian，zaixuduoqingkuangxia，huashuodejiaoweicusubianhuirangnvhaishifendichu，weiwandebiaobaibiaoshucairongyijieshouranglingyifangjiena，bingduinikaizhan“xiangmutouzi”。

 nvhaiduinilengao，guigenjiedibianshiqiaobuqini，ganjuenimeishiyongjiazhi。jiaoniliaogaolengnvsheng，shijishangwomendoushishenmeyangderen，zhuishangdenvhaiyeshinaxiede，yinerxiangzhuishanggengqiangdenvhai，jiuyingdangrangzishenbianchenggengchenggongderen。