怎么讲比说些什么关键 刚认识的女生怎么聊

 zainannvjiaowangzhong，youjuchangyandao“nvshengzhuinanshengjiacengsha”，kebianshizheicengqingpiaodesha，yebachengqianshangwanpiaoliangdexiaojiejienanzhule。yushangxinaidegaolengnanshen，qianxinwankuzaipenyoudexiezhuxia，yaodaolianxidianhua，danshixiamian，ruheliaotian。nan，nanyushangqingtian！xuduonvhai，xingqingjiaoweiwenhe，jishipengdaoxiaidenansheng，yejinjinxinliruxiaoluluanzhuang，biaocengyiranningjingyaohewangchangyiyang。penyousuoshiquhegaolengnanshenxianliao，rutongshetoudajieyiyang，buqingchuruhezhangkou，zhimingbaiyiweidemaiyuanzishenbuhuiliaotian。shanvrena，jiushizheiyangcuoguohegaolengnanshenchupengdehaojihui。jinrijiulaiweidahuoerjiemi，nvhaipengdaoxinaidenanhaizi，gairuheliaotian？gangrenshidenvshengzenmeliao？gengangrenshidenvshengdeliaotianjiqiaoyinggairuci。

01找寻两人的共通点

 xianliaozuinankandejushimoguo，“duiniudanqin”，danshiruguoneiyangmiaoshuxinaidegaolengnanshen，xiangbixuzaoshouxuduonvhaidepangzou。ruhefangzhizheilei“lvchunbuduimazui”shidexianliao，shijishangshiyoujiqiaode，zhaoxunlianggerendegongtongdian。zaiaiderenyanqian，haowuyiwenbunengshuoshuocuoa！yinci，hebuliaoyiliaobicizhijianyouyidingdexiangjiaode、youleisidedian。liru，liangrenzailaotongxuejuhuishangxiangfeng，jiukeyiliaoyiliaoyiqiandexueyuansuiyue。huoshi，lianggerenzaiqiyejuhuihuodongshangkankanertan，haikeyiliaoyixiefenbielingdaoganbudeyouqudeshi。zhongjiu，dahuoerzhenduizaibeihoudiaokanlaozong，youmizhirezhongyu。ziran，jiarunixinaidegaolengnanshenbianshilaozong，qingquanzidonghushizheiyihuatitaolun。hebugentaxiacheyixianigongzuofangmianpengdaodenanti，qiuzhu，nanshengma，yibandouxiaibeibierenqinpei、beibierenbixude。youshihou“bubian”yixialingyifang，budanburongyilingrenfahuo，fandaohuilajinliangrendejianjue！

02聊另一方那想说的

 gangrenshidenvshengzenmeliao？tijizheiyidian，xuduopiaoliangxiaojiejieyaonuhoule，“woxianglejielingyifangxiangshuoshenme，yebuneimedanxinyaozenmeliaole！”dandingcongrong，zheierjiulaijiaodahuoer，heyigerenxianliao，bingbushiyaokandaolingyifang，jiumentoushanglai。jiaruniqueshiduiyigerenyouxingquaihao，shijishangnenggoucongtachangjiandeshejiaomeitizhuanyonggongjuxiashou，kanyixiatadedongtaixing，genjutaderichangshenghuoyangzilaizhangwota，jinerxunzhaonenggouliaodehuatitaolun。zaiyigerendejiaojiquanli，tongchangbaocunzheyutaxingquaihaoleisidewupin，lirugaolengnanshenxiaitiyuyundongxiangmu，neiyidinghuigongxiangxuduotiyubisaizaizishendeshejiaopingtaishang，hetaxianliaodeqingkuangxia，jiukeyicongtaxiaidetiyuyundongxiangmu、yundongmingxingxiashou。yinci，zhaohuatiliaotianshijishangbuhuitainan，guanjianshikanzhenishifoudongdeyikaodisanfangbiaozhunqutanxun，lingyifangxihuanshenme，suihouconglingyifanghenyoukenengyouxingqudewupinzheshou，zhaoyigehuatitaolunzhujian。zheijiushishuobailede，“shunshuituizhou”。

03怎么讲比说些什么关键

 jibianshiyiyangyijuhua，congbuyiyangrendezuizhongshuochulaiyeshiyoubuyiyangdeyuyier。yinci，zaixinaidegaolengnanshenyanqian，jianghuagengyaoliuyizishendeyudiaohexintai。liru，benlaishiqingrenjiabangzhu，neimejiuzaijianghuaqianxianfangyige“qing”zi。neiyangjirendejuedehuixianzhubuyiyang。ziran，yeyouyidian，zailingyifangjianghuadeqingkuangxia，yaoyoulingtingdexintai，liru，lveweiwangqianwaixie，gengweiaijinlingyifang。zaizheierquangaozhuweipiaoliangxiaojiejie，bubinaochuxiaohuaa，shilveweiwaixie，bingbushishinilijipudaolingyifanghuaizhong。nvxing，huoshiyaomiantianyidian，gengnengdedaoyixingpengyoudehaogandu。yeyouyidianshi，xianliaoyaoliuyishijian，bubibanyesangengde，bierenxinqingongzuoyitian，gangtangxialai，niyejiujilingyifanglaiyiju“nishuilema？”zheibudankanqilaishifenmeilimao，naizhinenggouchengdeshangshiyizhong“saorao”。

 gengangrenshidenvshengdeliaotianjiqiaoyinggairuci，zaizheier，jiugenzhuweipiaoliangdexiaojiejiegongxiangzhishangzheisandian，hegaolengnanshenxianliaodexiaoqiaomen。jiarudahuoerpengdaoledongxindemubiao，zhengqiaolingyifangyeshidanshen，biechiyi，yingyongdequzhuiqiuwanmeiba！