zainannvjiaowangzhong,youjuchangyandao“nvshengzhuinanshengjiacengsha”,kebianshizheicengqingpiaodesha,yebachengqianshangwanpiaoliangdexiaojiejienanzhule。yushangxinaidegaolengnanshen,qianxinwankuzaipenyoudexiezhuxia,yaodaolianxidianhua,danshixiamian,ruheliaotian。nan,nanyushangqingtian!xuduonvhai,xingqingjiaoweiwenhe,jishipengdaoxiaidenansheng,yejinjinxinliruxiaoluluanzhuang,biaocengyiranningjingyaohewangchangyiyang。penyousuoshiquhegaolengnanshenxianliao,rutongshetoudajieyiyang,buqingchuruhezhangkou,zhimingbaiyiweidemaiyuanzishenbuhuiliaotian。shanvrena,jiushizheiyangcuoguohegaolengnanshenchupengdehaojihui。jinrijiulaiweidahuoerjiemi,nvhaipengdaoxinaidenanhaizi,gairuheliaotian?gangrenshidenvshengzenmeliao?gengangrenshidenvshengdeliaotianjiqiaoyinggairuci。
01找寻两人的共通点
xianliaozuinankandejushimoguo,“duiniudanqin”,danshiruguoneiyangmiaoshuxinaidegaolengnanshen,xiangbixuzaoshouxuduonvhaidepangzou。ruhefangzhizheilei“lvchunbuduimazui”shidexianliao,shijishangshiyoujiqiaode,zhaoxunlianggerendegongtongdian。zaiaiderenyanqian,haowuyiwenbunengshuoshuocuoa!yinci,hebuliaoyiliaobicizhijianyouyidingdexiangjiaode、youleisidedian。liru,liangrenzailaotongxuejuhuishangxiangfeng,jiukeyiliaoyiliaoyiqiandexueyuansuiyue。huoshi,lianggerenzaiqiyejuhuihuodongshangkankanertan,haikeyiliaoyixiefenbielingdaoganbudeyouqudeshi。zhongjiu,dahuoerzhenduizaibeihoudiaokanlaozong,youmizhirezhongyu。ziran,jiarunixinaidegaolengnanshenbianshilaozong,qingquanzidonghushizheiyihuatitaolun。hebugentaxiacheyixianigongzuofangmianpengdaodenanti,qiuzhu,nanshengma,yibandouxiaibeibierenqinpei、beibierenbixude。youshihou“bubian”yixialingyifang,budanburongyilingrenfahuo,fandaohuilajinliangrendejianjue!
02聊另一方那想说的
gangrenshidenvshengzenmeliao?tijizheiyidian,xuduopiaoliangxiaojiejieyaonuhoule,“woxianglejielingyifangxiangshuoshenme,yebuneimedanxinyaozenmeliaole!”dandingcongrong,zheierjiulaijiaodahuoer,heyigerenxianliao,bingbushiyaokandaolingyifang,jiumentoushanglai。jiaruniqueshiduiyigerenyouxingquaihao,shijishangnenggoucongtachangjiandeshejiaomeitizhuanyonggongjuxiashou,kanyixiatadedongtaixing,genjutaderichangshenghuoyangzilaizhangwota,jinerxunzhaonenggouliaodehuatitaolun。zaiyigerendejiaojiquanli,tongchangbaocunzheyutaxingquaihaoleisidewupin,lirugaolengnanshenxiaitiyuyundongxiangmu,neiyidinghuigongxiangxuduotiyubisaizaizishendeshejiaopingtaishang,hetaxianliaodeqingkuangxia,jiukeyicongtaxiaidetiyuyundongxiangmu、yundongmingxingxiashou。yinci,zhaohuatiliaotianshijishangbuhuitainan,guanjianshikanzhenishifoudongdeyikaodisanfangbiaozhunqutanxun,lingyifangxihuanshenme,suihouconglingyifanghenyoukenengyouxingqudewupinzheshou,zhaoyigehuatitaolunzhujian。zheijiushishuobailede,“shunshuituizhou”。
03怎么讲比说些什么关键
jibianshiyiyangyijuhua,congbuyiyangrendezuizhongshuochulaiyeshiyoubuyiyangdeyuyier。yinci,zaixinaidegaolengnanshenyanqian,jianghuagengyaoliuyizishendeyudiaohexintai。liru,benlaishiqingrenjiabangzhu,neimejiuzaijianghuaqianxianfangyige“qing”zi。neiyangjirendejuedehuixianzhubuyiyang。ziran,yeyouyidian,zailingyifangjianghuadeqingkuangxia,yaoyoulingtingdexintai,liru,lveweiwangqianwaixie,gengweiaijinlingyifang。zaizheierquangaozhuweipiaoliangxiaojiejie,bubinaochuxiaohuaa,shilveweiwaixie,bingbushishinilijipudaolingyifanghuaizhong。nvxing,huoshiyaomiantianyidian,gengnengdedaoyixingpengyoudehaogandu。yeyouyidianshi,xianliaoyaoliuyishijian,bubibanyesangengde,bierenxinqingongzuoyitian,gangtangxialai,niyejiujilingyifanglaiyiju“nishuilema?”zheibudankanqilaishifenmeilimao,naizhinenggouchengdeshangshiyizhong“saorao”。
gengangrenshidenvshengdeliaotianjiqiaoyinggairuci,zaizheier,jiugenzhuweipiaoliangdexiaojiejiegongxiangzhishangzheisandian,hegaolengnanshenxianliaodexiaoqiaomen。jiarudahuoerpengdaoledongxindemubiao,zhengqiaolingyifangyeshidanshen,biechiyi,yingyongdequzhuiqiuwanmeiba!
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