怎么让女生主动约你闲聊 嘴笨的人怎样学会说话

 zaigennvhaijiaowangquanguochengzhong，youdepengyoubianhuifajue：xianliaodabufenquanshizishenjiji，ernvhainengxianghupeihejishifeichanghaole。youshiweilegenghaodizhaoyigekaijuhuatitaolun，geweipengyoushafeikuxinxiangdabantian，jieguoliaolemeijiju，nvhaibianshuoyoujishiyaomanggairiliao，neiyiketiezhimendemeishaoshijinzhoude，woquanshiniezhude，xinshibaliangbaliangde。gengbushufudeshi，liaobutaihaotian，haixuyaobeimagangtiezhinan，yaoxiangdechangsuoyuanyejibenshangbutaikenengle。naozifanyingmanzuibenqingshangdi，suoyizuibenderenzenyangxuehuishuohua？

 jiandaozheihaowuyiwenyoupengyouhuiduile：quanshifumuqianchedade，pingshajiudenanshengjiji，zishenyouweiheyaoguanzhenvhai？nizheibushiqifulaoshirenma？ei，jijinpailebingbushi。banlishucizhuzhong，nvhaineixinshenchuzangzhemiantian，zaiyingduinanhaizizhuiqiuwanmeishi，juedaduoshunvhaibianhuizhuyaobiaoxianchushengrenwujindeyangzi，zheiyeshiweilegenghaodibimianzishencuofuzhenxinshiyi。danzhixunvhaipingdinglenijiushitadelixiangxinghou，dangranhuishoulongmiantianduinijiji。

 naozifanyingmanzuibenqingshangdi，suoyishuoma，zuoweiyixingpengyou，qianbianchidiankuimeisha，zhixuyongzhengquelefangshi，jiunengrangnvhaifangxinanxu，tebieshizaixianliaocengmian，nenggennvhailiaodaokaixin，naizhinengrangnvshengzhudonglianluodenanhaizi，dangrangengfeichangrongyidechangsuoyuan。dangqibanlijiugengeweipengyougongxiangyixieliaotiandejiqiao，jiaohuizhuweizenmerangnvshengzhudongyuenixianliao，youzenmerangnvhaimishanggennixianliao。

01积极退场，制造悬念

 zuixian，xiangrangnvshengzhudongyuenixianliao，jiudexuehaozaixianliaoshijishizhisunerqiezhizaoxuannian。geweipengyoudegaoqingchu：yichanggengyouyiyidexianliao，yidingshinengjibicidaozhiqingxubodongde，erxintaidezaochengjiubixuganqingzijintouru。julishuoming，nvhaiyibianmanggongzuozhong，yibianhuinixinxi，neineiyangdexianliaojiumeibiyaokaizhanxialai，youyutazheishishimeifazijintouruganqingde，huixinxijinjinchuziyuwenminglimao，jiaruniyizhijiuchanbuqing，fandaohuirangtadichu。

 yiyangdedadaoli，yichangxianliaokuaijieshushi，bicidabufendoushizaifuyanleshihuiying，bingmeiyouzijintouruganqing，bingqiezheishihoudeqifenshifennankan，fandaoweihailianggerendexianliaoganshou。jiandaozhei，conghuidepengyouzaoyiwule：jiaruzaibicixianliaozhengjinqingshizhongduanlexianliao，shifoujiunengjilingyifanghuiweiwuqiongdejuede？ziran，zhongduanxianliaohaowuyiwendezhaojiekou，bukeyixiaoshiranglingyifangmobuzhetounao。

 julishuoming，niyelizhaonvshengliaotian，liaoleershiduofenzhongjuedetinghaode，nvhaiyezaijijizhudonghuiying，zheishihounihurangaozhinvhai：xiangdaoyouyigegongzuozhonghaimeiyoujiejue，mingrizailianluo。yongzheileijishizhisundefangfawanbixianliao，jiunengjinvhailiuyouhuiweiwuqiongdejuede，tayehuigengweixiwangxiayicidexianliao。ziranzheiyifangfabukeyijingchangyingyong，bingqiezhaodetuocizuihaoshizhenzhengyixie。

 chukaijishizhisunwai，niyenenggougenjuzhizaoxuanniandefangfa，rangnvhaiduixiayicixianliaochongmanxiwang。liruyiciyeliliaoguonigennvhaihudaowananhaomenghou，zaigentajiangyiju：“zhengquele，yuanbenyoujianshixianggennishuode，danhenwanle，jiuxianbuduoshuole。”nvhaihenyoukenenghuixunwennishishenmeshi，nizaigaozhita：“wohaipajiangleyihounishuibuzhejue，mingrizaiduinishuoba。”yaolejie，nvhaidexiangxianggongzuonenglishifeichangqiangjingde，tahenyoukenenghuiyouyunidetamenzhanzhuannanmian。xiangneiyang，niyejiuqudechenggongjifalenvhaideqiuzhiyu，neihaipanvshengbuzhudongyueniliaoma？

02生产制造闲聊机遇

 hengheng，shangbianzheiyifangfasuimiao，danyeshiyoujuxian，tabixunvhaixiangyaogennixianliao，danjiarumeiyicixianliaoquanshinvhaiwanbihuatitaolun，liruliaolemeijiju，tajiuyaoshuo：“yaoquxianzaole”“youshiqianbuliaole”，xiangzheileizhuangkuangyougaizenyangbaituokunjingni？

 zuixian，nideyingduikeguanshishi，zheileizhuangkuanghenxianzhushinvhaiduiniyouhaodubuqiang，danbingbushishuonihetajiuyaoliangle。pengdaozheileizhuangkuang，geweipengyoudelianpihouyidian，duoshengchanzhizaoyixiexianliaojiyu。lirunvshengshuo：yaoquxianzaole。ninenghuiying：“quba，xihaogaosuwoyisheng，wogennishuojianshiqing。”neiyangdengnvhaimangwan，tabianhuijijilianluoni。

 danjiarunvhaiduinichedimeishenmexingqu，neishangbiandefangshijiunanyidadaoxiaoguole，henyoukenengtahuihushinidehua，jishimangwanhoudoubulianluoni。zheileizhuangkuangnixuyaozuodeshitigaobenrenyouhuoli，huoshilingmitianciliangyuan，zhongjiuxianzaideniwufarangtaxindong。

 hao，youguanzenmerangnvshengzhudongyueniliaotianhuashubianshizheizhong，xiabianbanlizailiaoerdiangennvshengliaotianshidechangjianwenti，zhixuzaixianliaoshijianjuhaozheilianggefangmian，jiunengrangnvhaimishanggenniliao。

03操纵好闲聊节奏感

 gennvshengliaotianyizhigaliaoganliao，nijuedeshizhaobuzhehuatitaolun，shishishangshiyouyucaozongbutaihaoxianliaojiezougan。ruguonizaixianliaoshixuehaocaozongjiezouganle，jiubuyongyouyiquzhaohuatiliaotianle。duiyushakanhaodexianliaojiezougan，huoshineiyigedadaoli，zheidebicizaixianliaoshidouzijintouruganqing，lirudajiazaihenyongxindetantaotongyigehuatitaolun，fenbiefabujianjieshi，bianshiyouhaodejiezougan。

 zenyangxunzhaoneiyangdejiezouganni？zheijiubixunvhaicanjiaxianliao，jinguangeweipengyoushihuatitaolundefadongzhe，danhaiyaobazhudaoquanjiaojinvhai，rangtacanjiajinqu。henyoukenengyikaishinvhaijiaoweilengmo，danzuizhonghuoshizainanhaizizhengqueyindaoxiarongjinlejinqu，gensuiyiqihuatitaolun，zheijiushizhaodaoxianliaojiezougan，yihouzhaohuatiyeshifenqingqingsongsong。

04展现本身使用价值

 yitijishiyongjiazhi，yixiejianpanxiapengyoujiufeichangrongyijiyan：zheibingburaolairaoquhuoshilibuleqianma？guozhenmeiyouqianjiupeibushangyouzheganqing。qin，yigerenshengdejiazhibingbingbushijinyoucaifunengkaoliang，womenkeyijiangshiyongjiazhifenchengruanshiyongjiazhiheyingshiyongjiazhierzhong。zaiqizhongyingshiyongjiazhizhideshinengxingxianghuazhanxiandeshiyongjiazhi，yejiushizhangxianghecaifudeng，erruanshiyongjiazhizejiushizhiduofangmiandeshiyongjiazhi，tajiugenbenrenbenzhiyouguan，liruzishendegongzuonengli、qichang、qingshangzhishang、pinxingzheixie，erzheizhongshiyongjiazhijiubixuzishenquzhanxian。

05写在最终得话

 suoyizuibenderenzenyangxuehuishuohua，nvhaizaibeizhuiqiuwanmeishi，tongchangshijianqitifangde，yifangmiankenengshitataiguomiantian，lingyifangmianhenyoukenengjiushinideyouhuolibuzu。congzheiliangcengmiantisheng，jiunengxunzhaoluhuotahuanxindefangfa。dangran，jinguandajiabaoyoumudi，danzaizhuiqiuwanmeiqineiyebubizhuyaobiaoxianchutaiqiangdezhenduixing，neiyangquzhuinvhaizicaibuhuishenxianguitiannan，zuihouyegengfeichangrongyihuodezhenzhengdeaiqing。