和女孩闲聊那点事 相亲应该聊什么话题

 jinriwomeneryanshuo，henvhaixianliaoneidianshiqing。zuixianhenvshengjiaowang，yingdangbaoyouruhedexinlizhuangtai。jianxindahuoerdoushiyouneiyangdeganshou：henvshengbutaishudeqingkuangxia，dajiadouxiangjinkenengzhuyaobiaoxiandehaoyidian，danshiyuexianghaohaodizhuyaobiaoxian，jiuyuerongyijinzhang。henvshengjiaowang，zuizhongyaodebingbushiwomenzishenduomedechuse，shiyongjiazhiduomedegao，zhishijinkenengbaozhengzhenxinshiyi，zuozhenshideziji。xiangqinliaotiandehuatiyounaxie？pandianxiangqinyinggailiaoshenmehuati。

tuiyibujiaruzuobudaozhenxinshiyi，keyibaozhengrangtakanshangquzhenxinshiyi，yebushibuhao。

yincizheijiubixudajiazixinxinqilai，neiyangcaikeyizuochuzuidangrandifanying，shunlihuodelingyifangdehaogandu。

 dabufenrenyaogenjutarendefanyinglaitigaozixinxin，shubuzhiwoxiangshuodeshi，zixinxinbuyinggaishikaotarenjide，fouzejiujiaotaxinerbushizixinxinle。

 youshenmebanfanengzaiduanqinei，xunsutigaowomendezixinxinni？haowuyiwenbingbushiheshuganwobibozizhang，huoshihecaixukunbidalanqiuba，shishizaizaidexuexiezhencaishixue，daozuizhongjiusuanmeizhuishangzheiyinvhai，yebunengshuo，yidianhuodemeiyouba。

 rendeyishengbianshichixuzaihuizonghesikaozhongfazhande，dajiaxuexipeixunzheizhongshier，bingbingbushiyidingnengzhuishangta，zhishitishengzhuishangtadegailv。

xiangqinliaotiandehuatiyounaxie？cicichayidian，yucitongshiyexueleyidian，xiayici，lunyelundaonile。

次之，在心态调整之后，大家该以一种哪些的方法闲聊。下边立即上干货知识。

 yaobushijiechudeganqingzhongxiaotianyalangzi，jiutatashishidishuoyixieqingchumingxidehua。neiyangcaikeyiquebaohenvshengdexianliaoyiqiezhengchangkaizhanxialai。

 haijidezaozaixueshengshidai，yingyushubenshangjiuchuanshoujilewomenyigeliaotiandehuati，qiwen。danshikenengshimeilijingwenhuazhenghedejiejuedeyuanguba，nengxiangxianghuode，womenzaikandaonvhaihou，gentashuoyiju：“jintiandetaiyanghaitingshaide。”nvhaiyezhinenghuiyingni“duia，shitingshaide。”

 zheileijiaoweimolengliangkedehuatitaolun，nantizishenmeiyoudaoxiangxing，nantidehuidayetaiguoduduiwaikaifangjianyi，dajiajiaotafeidaoxiangxinghuatitaolun。

 tatongchanghuishiwomendexianliaomubiao，meifazaochengxianliaodechongdong，naizhizainihenvshengbutaishudezhuangkuangxia，tazhishihuizanyige“ng”，womenyemeipiqi，duiba。

因此我们在闲聊时，要尽可能用导向性话题讨论取代它的，那样会更非常容易让另一方参加进去。

 queshibuqingchuliaoshenme，zheiershugangongxianggexiaozhao，“ta，ni，wo”xianliaofa。bianshizaixianliaozhongtanqiqianwanjiazheisangeyinsu，youquelidedaoxiangxing。

 zheizhaoshouhaola，jiandaozhuozishangyijuanzhidounengliaobuwan。liru“wojinqizaiwangluoshangjiandaoyigeyouqiyouqudetantao，wennvhaimenshizenyangkandainanhaizisuishendaiweishengzhide，nimenzenmekan？”

 zheierde“ta”，shizhiyuni，henvshengdoubuxianggandedisanfang，yejiushi“zaiwangshang”；“ni”zhideshiyunixianliaodenvhai；er“wo”zeshizheitaofangshideshiyongren，bianshini。

daoxiangxinghuatitaolundeyichubianshi，rangnvhaiyouquelihuiyingninantidejiyu，neiyangdajiacaihuikeliaoxialaidehenyoukeneng。

最终，在话题讨论的选择上，尽可能挑选激发女孩主动性的话题讨论。

jiunakanqiusailaijulishuoming，dajiadoulejienvhaikanqiusaikandeshishuainanhequanshenjirou，nanshengkanqiukandeshizhankuangheqiuyi。

 zaijugeshili，dangdajiahengchuanmalushinijiandaoyiliangjichijingguodelanbojini，henyoukenengyoupenyoujiuzhujianduinvhailunshuzheiyichedejiakuaiduoshaoqian、niujuduoshaoqian、qichefadongjihaoduoget。

tarenweineiyangbiaomingzhishichubei，nvhaihuijingpeibuji，shijishangnvhaiyagenmeishenmexingqu，naizhihuizaixinzhongdafanyan。

 suoyishuo，jiaruhelingyifang，liaotachabushangzuideneirong，chabushangzui...neijieguobianshi，tazhiyouyanbabakanzhe，rutongganggangdeqiwenhelanbojini。

 dajiachangchangnengtingjianneiyangyijuhuajiao：“nenggou，danmeibiyao。”xiangjinshangbiandehuatitaolun，huirangnvhaiganjue，jibuneng，yemeibiyao。

 pandianxiangqinyinggailiaoshenmehuati，lizainvhaideshijiaoshangkaolv，liaoyixienengrangtayoubiaoshuchongdongdehuatitaolun，neiyangcaikeyijifaqitaxianliaodezhudongxing。