想念一个人怎么发微信 寻找一同的语言表达

 gangrushehuifazhan，gangruchuruzhichangdehenduoren，jingchangweirenjijiaowangerjuedeyihuo。xiangnianyigerenzenmefaweixin，xiangnianduifanggaizenmefaxinxi？erzheizhongyihuozhizhong，zuituxiandeyigebianshi，yurenxiangchudeqingkuangxia，wuhuakeshuo。hebucongxialiehaoduogecengmianlaishizhe：

一、因地制宜，灵活应变

 tanyoubaikehuoyouqiuyurendouyaoxianketaoyiliangju。zhijieledang、zhangquzhiruzehuijirenwushibudengsanbaodianzhixian。jiaruchangsuoshihe，shuoyiliangju“jinritianqizhenhao”zheileidehuaziranfeichanghao，danruowulunshijian、dizhiyiweishitianqizenmeyangzenanmianyouyixiegaoxiao。zuihaoshihuoshironghesuozaideziranhuanjingxiaotouxiaomo，yindizhiyilaiyinchulaihuatitaolun，ruguoshizaiqinqijia，hebuzanyangyixiafangjianneidechenshesheji，liruwenyiwendianshidetexingzenyang，tanyitanqiangbihuazenyangyouyizheixie。neiyangdekaichangcibingbushishijixingdejiaotan，zhuyaoshishifenweihemu。

 xiangnianyigerenzenmefaweixin，yiner，nipingjiamoujianwupinbuyunyongkekedeyuqi，changyong“zheifangjianzhuangshidemeideshuo！”“zheifuhuachentuozhedahuaping，peizaiyiqihenhaokan”zheilei。zongeryanzhi，xuanyongzanyangdeyudiao，shizuidedangdefangfa。

二、语言表达同歩，寻找一同的语言表达

 youyijuhuajiao：“jiufengzhijiqianbeishao”，yijudouduoleziranxiabianjiushi“bu”le。neimazenyangzaituixiaochanpinquanguochengzhong，bikaizheileizhuangkuang，bujixiaofeizheshuo“bu”dejiyu，jiuxuyaoxunzhaogongtonghuati，jiwanchengyuyanbiaodatongbu。neimazenyangyuxiaofeizhewanchengyuyanbiaodatongbuni？jiuxuyaoxunsudibawoxiaofeizhedezhangkouliangsanjuchangyongde“yuhui”、“zhuanyeshuyu”、“koutoushan”、“liuxingci”……zhangwoxiaofeizhedeyuyanfengge，suihouyongtexingtongyanghuoleisideyuyanbiaodayuzhigoutongjiaoliu，jiunengzaochengfeichanghaodeyuyanbiaodaganranli。

 biru，xiaofeizhetiji“……qiangjizaoxingshejihenshuai”，dajiajiukeyiyingyong“shifenkude……qiangjiyanchu……”xunzhaoyitongdeyuyanbiaoda，guidingdiyidian，yitongdehuatitaolun（nanti），dierdian，yitonghuoleisidecuoci、zaojuzihebiaodaxingshi。tashiwanchengwomenyuxiaofeizheshencengcigoutongjiaoliu，chuangjianyijianrugushideganranlidediyibu。

三、交谈需看目标

 goutongjiaoliubingbushiyiweidixuanxiezishendeganshouhexintai，zhishiyizhongxiezuodechengxuliucheng。gezhonggeyangnianji、gezhongzhiye、gezhonggeyangyingxiangliderendoushiyoufenbiebuyiyangdequweixing，doushiyoubuyiyangdeyuyanbiaodahexiguanxing。yiner，zaigoutongjiaoliuzhongtiaoxuannaxiedehuatitaolun，xuanyongnaxiedeyuyanbiaodaheyuqiliyinggeyoubutong，neiyangdahuoercaikeyijuedequanshi“zijiaren”，buranbianhuizaochengwuxingzhongdejiedi。

 liru：nibuyaoduidanshenqingnianrentanyuernanti，bubiheyishudashitantouzilicai，bubiheshangcanrentanjianshenyundongzheixie。jiaruniquefayuanbodezhuanyezhishihecaozongjiaotandegongzuonengli，nikeyichangshiconglingyifangdeyujuzhongzhaodaotadexingquaihaosuoshu，shitaduizishenyouxingquaihaodetixingfabuguandianzheixie。yibanshuolai，yigerenyouxingqudewupinduoshitazhishichubeizhongdejingcuiyibufen。jibianniyuanbucunzaixingquaihaohexihao，youhefangbutingyitingyikuozhangzishendezhishicengmianni，bingqiehuoxuniyejiuhuiduizheizhongxihaochanshengxingquaihao。

四、情况同歩，你是浴室镜子里的他

 xiangnianduifanggaizenmefaxinxi？wanchengtuixiaochanpinqudechenggong，dadaomaimai，quanshizaishifenyoushandefenweizhong、shifenkaixindeqingkuangzhongdadao。neimazuoweiyigeshijidexiaoshouyuan，youzenmehegeyoubutong、gezhonggeyangdexiaofeizhekuaisudichuangjianyigebijiaokuansongde、kaixindeqingkuang，fangzhixiaofeizhedehuijueni？bianshirangxiaofeizhejiandaoniyejiuxiangjiandaoyushijingzilidetayiyang。nideyantanjuzhi、juzhi、xinqingzheixie，yaozaiduanqineineiyuxiaofeizhedachengyizhi。