xuduodixiongzaihenvhailiaotianshi,yaoxiangrangtakaixingaoxing,jinerqidedaonvhaidehaogandu,danzongdanyouzishenshuodehuabuzufengqu,pafashenggezhonggeyangbuzhengque,zaochengmeizhibuhuizailizishen。youhenduoniantouquebuqingchuruhebiaoshu,benlainvhaiduininyouxingquaihao,quebeiniqingqingsongsongliaosi,zuizhonglunluoguoluren......liaomeiganggangrenshizenmeliaotian,zenmehegangjiademeiziliaotian?
neijiujingruheliaocaisuanshinvshengxihuande,caikeyidedaonvhaidehaoganduni?
rujinshiwomenzhijiejinruzhuti,rangmiangelingzheni,jianjianditihuixianliaojiunengshinixunzhaonvyoudejuede。
一、「金子逻辑思维公式计算」
juedaduoshuxianliaodewanbi,doushiyouyugoutongjiaoliufashenglenanti,shizhongdoumeiyouyigepindaolanmushangdegoutongjiaoliu,caisuanshiqingganwanbidedaohuoxian。
liru,ruguonidemubiaoyunimaiyuangongzuowentishi,nidehuiyinglijiweihaidajiaqinggandemaixiang。
nvhai:“queshihaoleiya,shejitugaile6bian,huoshibuhao,dajialaozongshizhenduo!”
nanhaizi:“bubiyizhimaiyuan,dahuoergongzuozhongdoufeichanglei,laozongshilingdaoganbu,shuoxieshenmehuoshitingzheba。”
liaomeiganggangrenshizenmeliaotian,daduoshudangnanhaizineiyanghuiyingdeqingkuangxia,nvhaidexingzizaoyizaibaofadebianyanle,jiaruneiyangdehuiyingzaoyibingbushidiyici,neizheimingpenyounenggougaohaoxiufusuiyidetiqianzhunbeile。
zheiyiduangoutongjiaoliudenantiqujueyu:nvhaiqidaihuodedeshilingyifangdexintairentong,bingbingbushiweilegenghaoditinglingyifanglaipouxizishendebuzhengque。
ernanhaizidediyifanyinglijifoudinglenvhaisuobiaoshudejianjie,meiyoujiejinsuonengdiweilingyifangkaolvdao,naizhichuansongchuyanfandexintai。
恰当的回应应该是:
biaoshuzishenyouzhetongyangdetihui:ruguowodehuawoyeyiyanghuiganjuelei;
bingduiqizhuanyenenglikaizhanrentong:“qinaidede,nihaobanga,gaile6biandoujianchibuxiechulaile”;
zuizhongnenggouhetayiqidiaokan。
zaitabuyongnijiyuguoduotiyideqingkuangxia,yidingbubihuaduoderen,bubizuozaiqingganliaijianglide「gangtiezhinan」。
yinci,xianliaode「jinziluojisiweigongshijisuan」=tonglixin+rentong+shidubiaoshu。
tonglixin,jiandandianlaishuo,jiejinsuonengdelejiebierendetihui。
rentong,jixintairentong,rentongbierenchuansongchudexintai,caikeyikaizhanyouxiaogoutong。
shidubiaoshu,shuolingyifangyaotingde,erbushiniyaoshuode。
zheitaogongshijisuanbudanshiyongxianliao,yunyongzairichangshenghuozhongyiqieyigediqu,doushihuiranglingyifangganjueshufu。
jiangwantielv,dajiazhujiantaolun3gehaoyongliaotiandejiqiao,haijidenenggoulijiyonglaiyonge~
二、「好用聊天的技巧」
1、huijue「luyushiganliao」
luyujingdianganliaojingdianhuayu,「shizhendema?wobuxiangxin」,tamenfangdaoyiqieyigechangsuolidounengrangxianliaoqifenyishunjianlengdao0duxialie。
“wociciyingwenkaodaobanjidiyile。”
“shizhendema?wobuxiangxin。”
“wojinshengle,laozongganjuewogongzuonenglifeichanghaobangwozhangxinle。”
“shizhendema?wobuxiangxin。”
“woxifuhuaiyunle,woyaodangfuqinle。”
“shizhendema?wobuxiangxin。”
yibanzhuangkuangxia,dangyouxierenyunigongxiangleyijianshiqing,niyinggaixianchangshichuaiceyixialingyifangrujindexinlizhuangtai,shixiangyaonikuanweihuoshixiangyaonizanyang?
jiaruyibuxiaoxinhuatuoerchu「shizhendema?wobuxiangxin」,yidingyaogankuaibuyiju「niqueshibangjile」。
shuolingyifanghenyoukenengyaotingdehua,erbushizishenzaiqianyishizhongyaoxiangbiaoshudeneirong。
“zheiyijianyifukuziwochuanqilaihenxianzhuangai,fangfoyidianbuyiwo。”
“meiyouya,worenweiniyizhehenyouqizhi,bingqiezheiyisediaoyouqiheshinidepifuyanse。”
jiarutaqueshiganjuebuhaokan,shiburongyichuanwaichude,yincijibianniyeganjuetadequechuandehaoxianpang,haiyaoyizhizhuzishenyaoxiangbiaoshudebulizhi。
ba「shizhendema?wobuxiangxin」huancheng「tianya,nibangjile」,dadaolingyifangdeaimuxurong,ranglingyifangyuniyueliaoyuenengliao。
2、goutongjiaoliuzhongfangzhichuobierentongdian
dapangziyanqianbutanfei,dongshiyanqianbutichou。
liru,yigexiuzhongjinyou90jindenvhaizaiyigexiuzhongchaochu140jindenvshengyanqianshuozishenyoupangle,jiuyoudianerlvchayeweile。
zaizhengchangliaotianzhong,bubitaoluntarenburunidediqu,tebieshizaihuoshiyongmaiyuandeyudiao。
“wociciyoumeikaodeyibaifen!zhikaole98fen。”——yunixianliaodetongxuemenhenyoukenengzhikaole61fen。
“wozheigeyuexiaoshouyejibumeiyouqise,jiunaleyige200wandedingdan。”——xiaoshouyejidaoshudiyiderenxiangnongsinidexindoushiyoule。
“worenweinvyouyulaiyubuwenwanle,queshixiangfenshoule。”——zheishiyouyiqundanshendedixiongxiangsharen。
richangshenghuoxiangneiyangdeqingjingshubushengshu,qiadangdezuofashishaotaolunzishen,jibiannibingbingbushiyouxinyaonazishenyoudianhetarendequedianlaizuobijiao。
3、huijue「guanshushi」xianliao
richanggoutongjiaoliujuedaduoshushiyizhongxintaishangdegoutongjiaoliu,bingbingbushiweilegenghaoditinglingyifangweiziji「shouke」,guanshushixianliaojiuhaoxiangyiyizhongdisanshijiaolaidianpingmeiyigeren。
实例1:
nv:“gongzuozhongqueshihaojianxina!”
nan:“dajiadoujianxin,nibunengyizhiyouzheileixinlizhuangtai,kandaigongzuozhongyaojijizhudongyidian。”
实例2:
nv:“wojinqishuimianzhiliangqingkuanghaocha。”
nan:“henyiqiezhengchang,shuimianchashixuduonianqingrendechangjianwenti,yaobushitaixianle,yaobubianshixiangdetaiduo。”
实例3:
nv:“wohaonanguo,yuwomubiaozhengchaole。”
nan:“zhengchaoshinanyijiejuenantide,bingqienvshengbukeyitaizuo,nanhaiziyehenjianxinde。”
shenpangzongshihuiyouyi「haoganbu」zishilaiwenhuajiaoyudajiaderen,naizhiyoushidajiayehuiyibuxiaoxinbianchengzheiyangderen。
keshi,buguanduishei,zheileigoutongfangshiquanshibuzhengquede,jianglishiyaofenqingkuangxiade。
zenmehegangjiademeiziliaotian,zheilitishidahuoeryijuhua:tanlianaidehelijindaoshikaobeitarenqudechenggongdegongzuojingyanhefangshi,erbushizishenqushizhezhuangdebiantilinshang,zuizhongshijianxiaohaole,xinhenlei,qianyongle,douhaimeijieguo。tanduojiaobulan,jinrijiulinshijidahuoergongxiangzheizhongfangfa,keshi,nirujinyingdangzhidao,xianliaoshibixuxuexipeixunde。
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