我很爱第三者，舍不得离婚怎么办？”

 “woqueshishichengshoubushangwodelaopodelaotao，weishenmelihunnvrenhenhaoshang？genheshangnianjingyiyang，zaiwoerpangwengwengzuoxiang，xiangtingdetoudouxuyaozhale。wojiaruhuiduita，talikexingfenqilai，genwozhengchao。zhihou，wopengdaoleta，tahenzaihuni，conglaibugenwochao，hetazaiyiqi，juedezhenggeshijiequanshizhengjiede，tahaoanjingzuozhewoshenpangpeiwo，yifangbutongyilihunnengtuoduojiu？yaowoyouyizhongsuiyuesujiandejuede。

wohenxihuanchongzheta，kantayijianshitiantiandexiao。womenzaiyiqisangeyue，wohenkaixin，yagenlibuleta。

 danshi，wodelaopofajuelewowaiyu，genwonaodehenlihai，yaowogendisanzheduankai，yaoburan，tajiugenwoliyi，qufayuanqisuwo，yaowojingshenchuhu，yifenqiandouwufadedao。

 wobuyuanyiliyi，suiranwolibulewaibiandeta，danwozhuomobutoutadeniantou，wohaipawoliyi，tayoumeiyougenwoguorizideniantou，woneishihouquandouluobudao。zheiyinggaizenmeban?”

nanyueduzhebiaodadeyisihenqingchu。

 tayanfanjiazhongjiquanbuningderizi，xiangzaiwaimianzhaoyoujing，waibiandenvxingjitamendejuedehenxingfu，shitashebudefangkaishou，erxifuzheilibugaoxing，butaikenengjienata‘sanrenxing’，liyitahaipa，palihunle，xiaosanmeiyougentaguorizidezhunbei，neishihouzhulandashuiyichangkong。

简易帮他干了剖析：

“xianshuoshuo，zenmehuizaochengneiyangdejuede?

 laopoailaotao，shiyouyutazaijialisuodanfudeshier，henfanza，yaocaolaodediquyeduo，zheijiuhuizaochengtajileidexintaitaiduo，bixuxuanxie。

 yifangbutongyilihunnengtuoduojiu？erlianrengennizaiyiqi，jinjintantanqing，shuoshuoaini，zhishizhicanjianidexiuxianyule，meiyoukecaolaodeshier，tayouzenmekenengquguankongni，laotaoni，genninaobugaoxing?

 fuqiguanxidaoyidingshijianjiuhuiguirupingpingdandan，jiarunikeyibagaohunwailiandesixu，huaxiaozainilaopodeshenshang，nirenwei，tanengbukaixinma?renxinqingyukuaile，youzennengxuxutaotao?

 weishenmelihunnvrenhenhaoshang？meiyoujingliguoyouyanjiangcuderizi，nisuojiandaodequanshilianrenzuixingfudeyimian，yinci ，nicaihuiganjuesuiyuesujian。danshiyigerenzhenzhengdeyimian，dajiazhongjiuhuijiandao。