恩爱到老的离婚婚姻一定要走过这4个阶段

 weishenmelihunnvrenhenhaoshang？meiguositanfudaxueshehuixinlixuezhuanjiajiaoshourobertj.sternbergsitengbogejiangaiqingdesangejibenqiantijiedingwei：qinmiwujian、reqingyufuwuchengnuo。yifangbutongyilihunnengtuoduojiu？

eryijuzheisanzhongyuansudezucheng，tajuederenmendeganqingjianyiqubie，yigongyou7zhong：

 xiaishiganqing、chimishiganqing、liefengshiganqing、lanmanshiganqing、airenshiganqing、yumeishiganqing、jizhishiganqingdengqizhongzhonglei。

erbulunshinayizhongganqing，dounenggoufencheng4gebuyiyanghuanjie：

1、并存(甜美期)

 lianggerenconglaibulejiedaoxianghuzhijianxiai，wulunrenhechangheneixinzongyouyigehunqianmengyingderen，shishikekedouqidaidaizaiyiqi。

tashichuduixiangzuikaixinderizi。

2、反依赖(分歧替伏期)

zheiyihuanjiedelianrenmenganqingzaoyijianjiandiquxiangpingpingdandan，daizaiyiqishijianzhangle，meiletianmeiqideshenmigan。

buhuizaiqidaimeitiannizaiyiqi，fandaoqidainengkongchuyidiansimikongjianjiejuezishendeshier，tashifanyilaihuanjietuxiandenanti。

jiaruqinglvbunenggoujiejinsuonengdeweilingyifangkaolvdaonanti，jiuhuizaochengyizhongbeilengdandejuede，yeshifenqidetifuqi。

3、单独(分歧突发性期)

yifangbutongyilihunnengtuoduojiu？zailijingzhishanglianggejieduanyihou，liangrenzhujiancongzhenshishijiyiyishangjinrulemoheshijian。

zheiyijieduandeliangrenkandaiganqingdouyouyixiepibei，daliangdeshiyaoxiangxunzhaodandudeshineikongjian。

nanshengzhujianzhongshigongzuo，nvxingzhujianjizijixiangmutouzi，yidanyouyifangzoudetaikuai，lingyifangjiuhuizhujianduizhegan。

 yaolejie，jiaruqinglvzhijiankaishiledujihemangmupanbi，shiyijianhenkongbudeshi，neiyigezoudemandeyifangduilingyifangkaishilecaiyi，bicizaigoutongjiaoliushangyechuxianlenanti。

neiyangdezhuangkuanghuibuduandaoyifangchengbuzhugongzuoyali，jineryongyousheqizheiyiduanqinggandexiangfa。

4、相互依存(稳定型)

danglianggerenjingliguolezhishangsangehuanjie，ganqingjiuhuizhujianbianhuaweizhenqing，yebuhuihaiyoudangshineileipengranxindongdejuede。

 erzaizheigehuanjiedeqingganshizuipingwende，youyubicizhijianzaoyibianchenglelingyifangzuiqinmiwujianderen，huxianglijie、huxiangzhaogu。

dangganqingbianchenglexiguanxing，dajiayejiubianchenglebicizhijianshengmingzhongzuizhongyaoderen。

weishenmelihunnvrenhenhaoshang？erdabufenqinglvhuofufu，doumeinengtingguodierhuodisanjieduan，zuihouzaochengfenlichulai。