离婚之前这三个问题要想清楚！

 neixinyouduofanza，weishenmelihunnvrenhenhaoshang？ganqingjiuhuiyouduofanza。ganqingyouduofanza，hunyinshenghuojiuhuiyouduowukenaihe。yiqian，yiweiyueduzhebangwoliuyanbanliuyan：jiaoshi，zheiriziwoqueshichengbuxiaqule。woshiyiweiquanzhidejiatingzhufu，wanhundaoxianzai，dajiayizhigenwojiapozhuzaiyiqi。wolaogongrendaoshifeichanghao，keshiwojiapochangchangdangyidajiazirendemianzeguaiwo，shuowozuoshiqingbuzixi，yifangbutongyilihunnengtuoduojiu？shuowozhilejiehuawolaogongdeqian。

kewoxiangzaijializuoneimeduojiawuhuo，yeyaodaiwa，wozenmehaiyoujihuichulaizhuanqiangongzuo?

 zheiyijianshier，wozhixiangyaogenwolaogongshuo，tajiuhuibutengbuyangdekuanweiwoyiliangju，keshizhixuwogentazeguaiwojiapodebingbushi，wolaogongjiuhuigenwofahuo。

daotoulai，woliwaibushiren。

neiyangderizi，woqueshichengbuxiaqule，wohaoxiangliyi，henxiangliqutamenyijiaren。

 liuyanbanliuyanlimanshiyueduzheneixindeyayiganyushangxin，keshihenxianzhu，tahunyinshenghuolidenantiguanjianshiyouyutajiapobuzhuzhongta，changchangzeguaita，zaochengtazaihunyinshenghuoliwufadedaozanchenggan，erlaogongdoubulejieta，fandaolizaijiaponeiyibian。

 yifangbutongyilihunnengtuoduojiu？liyi，haowuyiwenburunixiangxiangzhonghenhao。bingqienidehunyinshenghuozishenbingmeiyouchuyiqienanti，nidongdejinjinyouyunijiapodeweihai，jiuneimeliyima?

 tiyinilijigennilaogonggoutongjiaoliu，shitalejienijiaporangnidaozhideweihaiyouduomedezhong。julichanshengmei，dajiazuihaonengbanchulaizhu，guanzhulaonianrennenggouchangchangkanwang，meirizhuzaiyiqi，jiusuanshiqinmunvliangdoushihuiyoufenqi，hekuangshimeishenmeqinshuguanxidepoxizhijian。

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changchangyouyueduzhehuoqiuzhuzheyouyugezhonggeyangdeyuanguxianglihun，liyiqueshiyouneimahaome?

 congshizheixienian，wojianguoweilegenghaodizhuiqiuwanmei“xingfukuaileyuzhenzhengdeaiqing”denvxingpaoxiazishendexiaohaiyulaogong，danshibujiubianhouhuile。

taxiangtuiyoutuibuchulai，zhiyouyaozheyajianchibuxiedangshidetiaoxuan，rizifanguoyuesuoranwuwei。

yinweiwojianguozaidaxingshangchangshangkaitianpididenanshengweilegenghaodidisanzhepaoxialaopo，genlianrenwanhun，genlianrenjianlijiazhong。

zhihoutayouzhaolelianren，youlihunle。

 zaibuqingchudijiciliyideqingkuangxia，nanshengmengranyishidaohaokandelianrendaochudoushi，jiefaqiziquejinyoudangshidezuihaoshi，yihan，tazaojiubajiefaqizidiuzailemangmangrenhaizhong。

liyidaibiaozhechedifoudingdangshidetiaoxuan，wulunshiyouyushishenmeyuanyinliyi，liyiduimeiyigerenlaijiangquanshiyizhongquehan。

jiaruyouxierenjuedehunyinshenghuochengbuxiaqule，zaixiangqingxizheisangenantiyiqian，bubisuibianfourenhunyinshenghuo。

nantiyi：niyaolihunyuanyinshisha?

xianglihunzongyaoyouyigeyuangu，shiyouyuwaiyu?youyufuqiqingganbuhe?huanshiyouyuqitashishenmeyuanyin?

 ruonishichuguizhe，youyuwaiyuyinci xianglihun。neimeniyingdanghaohaodixiangyixiang，dangshibenlainiyefeichangaidenidelaopo，weiherujinjiubianxinle?bianxindeyuanyinshishenme，nengchulima?ruguojiejuele，niyaoxianglihunma?

 jiarushiyouyufuqiguanxibuhexianglihun，neiyingdanghaohaodixiangyixiang，weihedangshiwanhundeqingkuangxiameiyouganqingbuhe?daoxianzaiqueganqingbuhele?ganqingbuhedeyuanyinshishenme?kefoujiuzhengyurenshou?

liyibujinshifuqijianfenli，zhishiduizishentiaoxuandefouren，duiliangrenyiwangdefouren，duijiazhongyuyiwudepaoxia。

yinci wulunshiyouyushenmewentixianglihun，yidingyaoxianxiangyixiangnantishifoukeyishichuli，shifoukeyishijiejue。

nantier：niduilihunzhihouderichangshenghuoyouzhengtiguihuama?

 xuduomeiyouweijianglaichongfenzhunbei，yishichongdongxianglihunderen，zailihunzhihouchajuezijiderichangshenghuoguodehaibibushanglihunzhiqianshushi。

youdenanshengweilegenghaodilianrenlihunzhihou，reqingtunqu，fajuelianrensuichubibushangzishendezhengshilaopo;

 youdenvxingbulizhilihunzhihou，fajuelihunzhihouderichangshenghuoguodeyouqikumen，danshimeiyoutuilukezou，zhiyouyaojinyaxiangqian。

hunyinshenghuodaozuizhongquanshiyigeyang，dabufenshijianhenpingpingdandan，danshiyiranyoufeichangzhidexiwangdeliangdian。

jiarulianyuanpeifuqidouchengbuxiaqu，neimagenweilaijiejiaodelingyibangouchengzaihunfuqi，haowuyiwenzongshigengweijianao。

liyibukeyibulizhi，yidingyaosansierhouxing。

 weishenmelihunnvrenhenhaoshang？hunyinshenghuozhongderenshizhongganshoubushanglihunrenyuandewukenaiheyujianku，ruguoerhunzhaozhengquelerenhaixing，ruguozhaobudui，nandaoshuoyeyaochixudeliyizaijiehuna?