离婚冷静期是什么？如何解锁幸福密码？

 siyebulihun，yitiji“lixiangzhuyizhe”，kenenghenduorendougaobudongzheijianshiqinggenzishenyoushenmeguanxi，manzusantiaobilihun，danruoshuodao“dierzhiye”，dahuoerjiuhenganxingqule，youyuzheixiangguanqiancaihetouzilicai，lihunlengjingqiyoushenme？gendajiaxiangguan。

 erjinriwomenyaotaolundebianshixiangguan“dierzhiye”denanti，danshicidierzhiyefeibidierzhiye，tabuxiangzuojianzhi、touzilicaiyiyangjidajiachanshengqiancaiyingli，danqueduidajiadeqinggandayouyichu，erlelejiaoshijinricouhezheiyihuatitaolungendajiataolunyixiaxiangguan“ganqingdierzhiye”deyiersanshi。

▌开拓创新，见解新奇

lelejiaoshirenruqiming，jirenyizhongnianqing、anwen、shuxindejuede。

 henyoukenengzaihenduorenlaikan，rennianqingjiudaibiaozhemeigongzuojingyan，danzaiganqinglingyuhaizhenbingbushizheiban，youyuzuozixunbujinbixukaoshijianhelijingdamopaoguangdegongzuojingyan，haibixukaituochuangxindexinxianjianjieheniantou。

lelejiaoshinengkaolvdahuoerduixinxian、qitedeyiqieniantou。

 lihunlengjingqiyoushenme？manzusantiaobilihun，liruzaicaifangzhongdajiatidao“wanliu”yishi，weilegenghaodirangdahuoergengqiangdegaoqingchuzishendewanliuduice，lelejiaoshijulishuoming：jiaruniqiantarenyibijue，haibeiguidingzai12geyueneijieqing，dannidegongzijiqiyueyagenjiubunengzai12geyueneijieqingjiekuan，neimaniyinggaizenmebanni?

fazhanqushidierzhiye，lelejiaoshichalatusitela。

 ruguonidexinchoubunengjieqingjiekuandeqingkuangxia，neimajiuxuyaogenjufazhanqushidierzhiyeerkaiyuanxitongle，wanhuiaiqingyishiruci。

 liruzaiwanliuquanguochengzhong，youyibufenxueshenghenyoukenengyaocaiyong“duitahao”zheiyifuwuzongzhilaiwanchengzishendewanliuzongtimubiao，dan“duitahao”zhikaoxiyifuzhufanzheizhongjibenfangfashibuzude，tahaibixuwenrouxiaoyidexingwei、zhongshitiexindegerenxingweiyijitayixiefujiadezhaoliaojitouru。

 erzheizhongfujiadedongxi，lelejiaoshitongchengwei“ganqingdierzhiye”，erqiejuedewulunshixiangwanhuiaiqinghuanshixiufuhunyin，nvshidoubixufazhanqushiyixiazishendeganqingdierzhiye，tigaozijizaizongtimubiaoxinlideshiyongjiazhi，jinyouneiyangcaikeyiduiwanliufeichangyouerwuyihai。

jiandaozheierdahuoerhenyoukenengjiuhuidongle，ganqingdierzhiyeshijishangbianshiyizhongweizijijiacangdefangfa。

 jiarudanshuo“tishengziwoshiyongjiazhi”henyoukenenghuiyouxierenbulijie、bujiena，dantingjianzheileiqianxianyidongyoujiandanyouyisidexingrongzehuirangrendaorumengchuxingdelingwaihaiduiyucishihenganxingqu。

 nikankan，zheijiushilelejiaoshidenengliang，nianqingeryouyouniantou，jiminyouwushiqite，chongzujirenchanshengyichangbiechuxincaidezixunfangfa。

▌自我定位，逻辑思维清楚

ciwai，lelejiaoshiduizishendejingzhundingweiyehenqingchu。

caifangzhongdajiamingquetichu“zixunguwendeziwodingwei”yici，lelejiaoshisuanzuogankaiwanqianle。

 tazishuozihua：zuoweiyigezixunguwen，nandaoshuoshilizaixueshengqianbianweitamenshenxianshizudezhanshizhiyema?henxianzhubingbushi，youyuzixunguwenbingbushibangxueshengdajiadououde;jiranzheiyang，neimashilizaixueshengshenhouweitamenxianjixiancedejunshima?tingqilaihaoxiangshizheilei，danjinxianjixianceyoukanqilaiyouyixiejuxianxing。

那应当是什么呢?

 lelejiaoshijuedezixunguwenbujinyaolizaixueshengdeshenhou，yeyaomenbadazaitamendejianbushang，neiyangcaisuanshizixunguwenyingdangshiyanderenwujiaose。

neiyanglaishuoyougenjunshiyoushenmechabieni?

 lelejiaoshijuedejiranlizaixueshengdeshenhou，jiuzhengshitaburongyixuanbinduozhuzuoyixiechuguixingweizhishi，zhishiyunyonglizaihoucaizheiyibuwei，kuozhangxueshengdejiaodufanchou，rangtajiandaoguoquzishenkanbujiande“jingse”，lingwaidailaitadaliangyouguanduinantideguandianjiqijiejuekunnandefangfa。

 er“menbadazaixueshengdejianbushang”，zhengshizixunguwenhexueshengzhongjiandejianjuyejiuyibeizhiyuan，buhuihenyuanrangxueshengjuedebushangjiaoshidecunyou，yebuhuitaijinrangjiaoshichuyubeidongjinru，jinershilelianghaodexintai。

 ziran，yibeizhiyuandejianjujiaoda degongxiaoqujueyuzaibixushikenenggoucujinxueshenggengjinyibu，huoshilijilazhexueshengchechu，fangzhigenggaodebuzhengque。

 siyebulihun，keyikandechulelejiaoshiduizixunshiyouzishendedandukanfade，eryigewanshandezixunguwenbibukeshaodebiaozhunbianshiyouzhexuehuisikaodegongzuonengli，ciwai，tamenyejuebunengmohubuqingzishendeziwodingwei，lelejiaoshijiuyongshijixingdongzhengshilezheiyidianer。