离婚冷静期是什么？挽回出轨老公？

 xuduonvxueshenggaosuwo：siyebulihun，“wohaineiyangdisanxiaqiqiutalaizhaowole，manzusantiaobilihun，weihetabujinbuzhihuigai，haidecunjinchi?”yaolejie，dangyigechuguinanrenbingjianchiyaolikaizhihou，jichushiquanbuhuijiade，youyuzaitadenaohaizhongli，neigetashitadezhenzhengdeaiqing，tabuweijiannanhaiyaohetazaiyiqi，lihunlengjingqiyoushenme？meishenmebizheijianshiqinggengguanjian。

 zaizheigezhengshihaihengguanzhengzhongjiandeqingkuangxia，tamenzhongjiandeyouhuolichengbeizengjia，zheichunzhengshehuixinlixueshangde“luomiouyuzhuliyexiaoyong”。

 shuobaile“luomiouyuzhuliyexiaoyong”，bianshidangchuxianyingxiangtanlianaibiciganqingguanliandewaizainengliangshi，tanlianaibicideganqingfandaohuitisheng，yinci tamendeguanlianyeyinergengweijiangu。

 yinci yaoxiangtalaolaoshishihuijiaqiufuhexing，zuixianyaozuodeshi“bubiguitiannan”，weizijibaocunyidianzizun!jibiannizairuhexiangnianta，yaoxiangmanmata，nidoudebiezhu!fandaonixuyaozuodeshi，yunyonghaolaogongdeneijiuxin。

 manzusantiaobilihun，zhenduijuedaduoshunanshengeryan，laoposhikeyipeitaduguoyishengdezuobangyoubei，hunyinshenghuoshitade“ganqingzhushi”。erhunwailianzeshi“ganqinglingshi”。

当婚外恋刚曝露时，男生通常有二种心理状态：

diyi、zishenweifanleduilaopodefuwuchengnuohechengnuo，xincunneijiu;

dier、zishenyepadebuchangshisangshixingfudejia，zhuizhuibuan。

yihandeshi，dabufenqingkuangxialaopodoucuoguozheiyiguanjiandejihui。

 lihunlengjingqiyoushenme？zaihunwailianpuludediyishijian，yinweilaoponeixinchongmanlechiru、naonu、biequdengfumianqingxu，biannanyiyouqingchujingquedefenbian，zuochubulaiqiadangdetiaoxuan。

 beixintaishangxiadelaopociketongchanghuizuochuyixiebulixingdeshier，naonudizhixuewenchizemanmanansheng，henanshengyouchaoyounao，naizhijieheqinqipengyouqudadisanzhe，qunanshengqiyequnao，bashiergaozhilaorenzheixie。

jinguanlaoponeixinbingbuyuanlihunlezhishixiangwanjiuhunyin，danshilaopozuochudegerenxingweiqueyamiaozhuzhangbananshengyinxiangledisanzhe。

 zhiguanzhongyaodeshi，laopodegerenxingweirangnanshengbuhuizaijuedeneijiu，buhuizaizhuizhuibuan，xiangfanganjuelaopomanhengwulibulijiezishenbujizishenjiyu。

 yinci ，jiarugangfajuezhangfuchuguidelaopomen，yidingqiejibubiganqingyongshi，baochilengjingheyizhi，bawozhunanshengcikedeneijiuxinlizhuangtai，nanshengjijiqiufuhexingdejiyufeichangda。

jiarunicuoguodiyigejihui，meishier，ranhoudierdian，womenyaopouxichuguinanrendeyuangu，caikeyiduizhengzhiliao。

 chuguinanrende2geguanjianyuangu，zhibuguobianshi2ge，yigeshishenglixuyao，yigeshijingshenxuqiu;feishiquanbunanrendoushiyouyushenglixuyaoerwaiyude，rangdajiajingchanghushideshijingshenxuqiu。

a、zhaodaotamenweihuodekaolvdeyaoqiushisha，xianglaopoqingtu，yitongzhaoxunjiejuefangan;

b、duobizheizhongbumanyi，suihoubuzijuedirangzheizhongbumanyidezhuguanyinsucaozongtamendegerenxingwei。

 siyebulihun，kexueyanjiugongzuorenyuanfajue，youzheilei“duobixing”niantouderenyuefeichangrongyiwaiyu，xinlixuezhuanjiayezuoleyigeshiyan：jibianyikaishininenghuijuebeiyaoyuechiqiaokeli，jiaruniyizhiyongzhugulilaiyouhuoni，dajiadezikongnenglihenyoukenenghuimanmankuifa，yulaiyufeichangrongyiqucongzhugulideyinyou。