婚姻幸福不幸福呢？聪明女人离婚该咋离？

 congmingnvrenlihungaizali？womendoushilaotongxue，xueshengshidaijiuhuyouhaogan，zixunlvshilihun，keshimeiyouchuopo。zhihoubicizhijiankaolebuyiyangdeyuanxiao，jiumeiyoushenmelianluole。dasanshiwomenzaiyicilaotongxuejuhuishangyoukandaole，fajueneileijuedehaixiangliangnianqianyiyang，lihunhounvfanghukouzenmeban？dajiajiujuecezaiyiqile。

tanlianaiqinei，dajiaqingganyizhifeichanghao，feichangshaozaochengmaodunhefenqi。

kezidashangnianzhujianshangyiwanhundeshierhou，dajiadefenqijiuyizhimeihuaiguo。

zaozaitanlianaishiwoyegentashuodaole，wobuyuanyihejiapoyiqizhu，womenyaoyouzishendefangwu，chicun、diquwohaibutiao。

lihunhounvfanghukouzenmeban？kelindaojielehun，tababamamaquejiufangwudeshiyizhituozhe。

zuizhongdajiadoukuainaodaotichufenshou，tababamamacaiyuanyiyinianhougoufang。

dajiadoushizaiyixianchengshigongzuozhong，yinci xianzufangzizhu。

zixunlvshilihun，kejielehunyihou，wofaxianleyiqiedouyuwoxiangxiangdebuyiyang。

tashuodaoletachengdanyangjiahukou，wochengdanmeiruotianxian，jiazhongdehuaxiaonaxiededouwuxuwochengdan，zheiqianzishencunzhejiukeyile。

kejiehunleyihou，tachajuezijidexinshuibukeyichedizhichengdiandajiadehuaxiao，jiuyaowoyiqichengdanrichanghuaxiao。

 woneixinjiuhenbumanyi，gentachaoleyijia，tagenwochengrencuowu，bingtongyizhihouhuanshiyizhaoyuanlaishuodelai，kewoneixinhuanshibushuangkuai。

wanhuncaihaoduogeyue，dajiajiufenqichixu，wozongyouyuzheizhongsuoshifahuo，zhihoukegaizenmebana?

 “dajiashilaotongxue，zhidaodaogaoxiaoshiyouyushang，fajueliangrenzhongjiandejuedehaixiangliangnianqianyiyang，yinci juecezaiyiqi”，congzheiyidiankeyikandechu，dajia2gequanshihenshenqingderen。

 “tanlianaishiniyejiuhelingyifangshuobuyuanhejiapoyiqizhu”，henyoukenengdaliangdejiushinidanyouzhihouhelingyifangbabamamazhuzaiyiqi，jidairenyouhenduoshenghuoxiguanheyishidebuyiyang，zaisuonanmianhuichuxianfenqizaocheng。

“daowanhun，lingyifangbabamamaqueyouyufangwudeshieryizhituozhe”，keyikandechuqu，nihenzaiyizheijianshiqing。

shiermeiyouyizhaodajiayuanlaifanganhaodefazhanqushi，nijinbuzhuhuichuxianzishendexintai。

erqiebayiwuguiyinyulingyifang，juedetayutadebabamamabingbugaoduzhongshini。

 ercong“gaoshangtichufenshoudechengduyihou，lingyifangbabamamayeyuanyiyinianyihoumaifang”，keyikandechulingyifangjiqilingyifangbabamamayetourulexuduo。

 yinci xuduoqingkuangxiadajiabixushuangzhongkaolvdaonanti，budanyaojiandaozishen，haiyaoguanxindaolingyifang，erqiezhangwodaolingyifangneiyangzuoshenhoudeyuanyin。

neiyanggengfeichangrongyijiejuekunnan，erbushiyinqifenqi、weihaiguanlian。

hunhou，lingyifangduinidezhuduofuwuchengnuo，biaominglingyifangdequehenxintengni。

 danshitaruhunyinshenghuoyihou，tacaihuifajueliangrenrichangshenghuoyaozaoyuxuduoshijinanti，zheizhongnantixuduoqingkuangxiashiyaofufubiciyitongdanfude。

 “danglingyifangchajuezijidexinshuibukeyichedizhichengdiandajiadekaixiao，erqieshiniyiqichengdanrichanghuaxiaoshi”，nijuedelingyifangbingmeiyoulvxingchengnuo，ninengduitayouyidingdexinhan。

erdajiazhongjianjiejuekunnandefangfa，bianshiyong“zhengzhi”laibiaoshubumanyi。

lingyifangzaoyiyunichengrencuowule，erqietongyizhihouhuanshiyizhaodajiayuanlaishuodelai，danshinineixinhuanshibushuangkuai。

 congmingnvrenlihungaizali？henzhongyaodeyigeyuangubianshiniduizheiyijianshierdeguandianjuecede，nijuedetameiyoulvxingchengnuo，huanjuhuashuo“jianghuasuanbushanghua”。