女人必学的三个婚姻法则，离婚后复婚感情会好吗？

 yifangsihuobulihunzenmeban？zaizheigezhongguolihunlvriyibiaoshengdejinri，lihunhoufuhunganqinghuihaoma？laoyibeimenkeyibaitouxielaoyishengdeganqing，zhongguolihunlv，yuelaiyueyulaiyuxiyou。

tamennanchudelianaiguan，rutongtamendeshenghuoguannianyiyang，ganjuedongxihuaidiaojiuxuyaoxiu，xindeshizhongbibushangjiudeniu!

 erdaowomenzheibei，yiqiedongxijiule，diyigexiangfabianshihuan，meimingqiyue“jiudemeiqu，xindebudao”，erzheiyijianjieyezaocheng le，womenzaichuliganqingnantishi，congbuqusikaogenbenyuanyin，sousuo“binggener”。

 danshijishang“huan”xindeyebuqizuoyong，youyukexueyanjiuzhengshierhundezhongguolihunlvbitouhunyaogao40%，yinci nikendingbuhuiyoushui，huanyouyongguanyeshihuibuqizuoyongde，yaoxiangdedaoxingfukuailezuizhongyaodexuehaozenyangjiaowang。

 lihunhoufuhunganqinghuihaoma？jinrijiujidahuoerchansheng3gehunyinshenghuoxingfukuaileguilv，jiaoniyizhizaiyanhuoweichuzhonghuiyiwulianggerensancansijidexingfukuaileqiaomen。

规律一：立即升级对ta的掌握

 yiduanqinggan，buguandangshizenyangjinghongyipiepengranxindong，yidanlijingdaorifuyiridepingpingdandansuiyue，zaisuonanmianganjuekuzaofawei。

 dajiayinweiaicongshengshumaixianglejie，youyouyuguodulejiehou，rangganqingjianjiandiyuelaiyuequantouming，bicizhijianerrenyejianjiandizhujianshengshu。

 shijishangtashiyijianshifenkongbudeshier，rutongyingpian《wanmeimoshengren》zhong，zhongguolihunlv，xushudebianshimingandefuqiganqing，tongguoyigejijuteseshoujixinxideshoujiyouxi，weicijiemilexianghujiandejialejie，fengcilerujindabufen“shengshufufu”deshenghuozhuangtai。

 yinci ，youyixiefuqijianyizhichanshengzhengzhi，bingbingbushidajiaxianghujiantaiguolejieerxiaodujichang，fandaoshiyouyudajiazaoyimaixiangleshengshu，yinerhuxianglejiegezhiyiduanbale。

 fuqizhijiandezhangwoshuiping，shijishangjiuhaoxiangge“youximiji”，jinyouxianghuzhijianbuduandirongjincaikeyinenggougenghaodijieshoulingyifangdexintai，jiejuebicizhijiandefenqihemaodun。

 yinci ，quchangshilejieyixialingyifangxiaidedongxiba，yiqiqucanjialingyifangdeyouxilimian，yiqifanhouyundongxianliao，yiqiwozaibuyishafalishuaju，dengbicizhijianyulaiyutongbu，yulaiyuzhangwodeqingkuangxia，hunyinshenghuodangranyehuiyuelaiyueyulaiyulaogu。

规律二：塑造对ta的赞美和赞扬

suhuashuodehao：“liangyanyijusandongnuan，eyaneyuliuyuehan。”

yuyandeliliangqueshitaida，yijufengcibiannenglingrenxinhan，yijubiyibianhuilingrensangshizixinxin。

buqingchudajiabeilianrenyongkebodeyuyansunhaishi，shifouhuiganjueyouyikouqibiezhubuchu，youqidibushufuni?

shijishangfuqijiandeguyizhengzhi，budanhuisunhuaibicizhijiandeqingxu，haihuijixuweihaibicideshenxinjiankang。

 niyiweitashisongrentingwen，kexueyanjiuyecengzhengshibuxingdehunyinhuishibicifabinglvtisheng35%，erqierenjunshoumingjianshaosinian。

yinci zaiqingganzhong，jianghuaqueshihuishifenweihaifufuerrendexingfukuailepinzhiheshenxinjiankang。

 ninengfajuerichangshenghuo，niyuefashuolingyifangbutaihao，huoshishibuchenggong，neimazheigerenduinidexintaiyehuiyulaiyujiduan;fanguolaijiarunijingchangzanyanglingyifangwenrou，zhangqiguoquduibianjiehuiqueshiyuelaiyuegengweiwenrouqiaoli。

yinerniyaoxianghuodeyigewanmeidelianren，hebuchangshizairichangshenghuozhong，suzaoduitadezanmeihezanyang。

 liruconglingyifangbangninayibeishuikuaqi，huoshilingyifangchuanleyijianxinyifukuaqi，jianjiandinibianhuifajueyuanxianxianghuzhijianzanmeideganqing，queshiyaobibaoyuanchizechuqudeganqingxingfuguoduo。

规律三：宽容彼此之间、赏析彼此之间

dajiazongjuede，qingganzhongyaoxiangweichinannvguanxi，yougongtongyuyanshibukehuoquede。

 keshijishang，“gongtongyuyan”shijishangshiyigeshifenyankedeguiding，zhongjiudajiameiyigerenquanshidandudegeren，mishanglingyifangyeqiahaoshiyouyulingyifangzheibanduyiwuer。

yinci dajiacaiyinbuyiyangerxianghuzhijianxiyinzhu，keweishenmebukeyiyinbuyiyangerxianghuzhijiankuanrongni?

 weihe，nixihuanchibaitang，jiuqiaobuqilingyifangxihuanchixianglani?weihe，nixiaichuanhuiheise，jiuwubiranglingyifangrenkehuiheisedemeini?weihe，nixiaicongdiduanjiyagaoyiyang，yidiandiandetiwenti，jiuwubiquanzulingyifangcongzhengzhongjianjiyagaoyiyang，yidiandiandetiwentini?

 yifangsihuobulihunzenmeban？dajiaweiheyankedeguiding，bicizhijianzheibanyizhi，bufatongyangni?shijishang，zheileiyaoxiangqiangzhigenggailingyifangdeniantou，queshishifenzisizili，chukaihuirangbicizhijianyaoxiangxianghuzhijiantaochuwai，meiyouyiqiehaochu。