离婚后复合的最佳时期是什么？“多金优质男”都爱这样的女人！

lihunhoufuhedezuijiashiqishishenme？qianjirixiawuheyiweilejiemeiduojiudepenyousammyxianliao，lihunlehainengfuhunma？conghunyinguanxidejiaowangjiqiaoliaodegongzuofangmiandexiezuohuying，liaoguozhihouwobuyouzizhuneixinanzigangaiyiju：“lihunqianhou，tabianshineileinengjiajiyouqianrendezhonglei。”

zhihoucaizhidao，tazaoyijiajiyouqianren，laogongjialiyinfu，zuoxiangcaichanguoyi。

jinribenwen，womenjiulaixialiaohuatitaolun：keyijiajin“haomen”de，quanshixieruhedenvxing?

woji“haomen”daguomaohao，youyubenwenlidehaomenbingbushizhuanzhicaichanhegexxyi，zhishitezhiyiqiejingjifazhankuanyu、jubeigaokuanbishengchanzhulidenanshi。

每一个成功男人身后，都是有个背后女boss

gaoshiyongjiazhinanshi，tongchanghuibipingchangrenpengdaodaliangdeyixingpengyouziyuan，richangshenghuotamenyehuichangchangyushanghenduo“daozhui”dezhuangkuang。

neima，ruhedenvxingcaihuirangtamentiaoxuanzuoweilinghunbanlvni?

nansheng，shizhongshichuleihekeguangezhan50%deweishengwu。

lihunlehainengfuhunma？chuziyuchulei，tamenhuiaijinduizishenjubeixingxiyinlidenvxing，baohanrongmao、shenxing、qichang、nianjidengcengmiandeyaosu，zheiyeshinanxingdeguangfantedian。

keshi，yuecaihuachuzhongdenansheng，keguanjiuyueyouyoushi，lihunqianhou，erqietamendekeguantongchanghuinianguochulei。

lirugushenbafeitejienafangtandeqingkuangxiashuo：

“wonianqingshicengyudajiazhouzuipiaoliangnvhaiyouhui，danyemeiyoutiaoxuanta。tingwentazhihoujieguosancihun，ruguowomenneishihouzhenzaiyiqi，neiyidingshihuimiexingdebuliangyingxiang。renshengdaoluzhongzuizuizhongyaodejuedingbianshigenshenmerenwanhun，jiaruairennongcuo，ninengsunhaixuduo，bingqiebujinshiqiancaishangde。”

yinci，shiyenanshengzhaoduixiangshidaduoshuquyujianglaiquanyidelirunzuidahua，congertamentongchanghuitiaoxuankeyizaojiuzishendenvshi。

xuduonvshiyiting，ganjuezheileiniantouyouyixiegonglixing。

deque，shehuixinlixueliyouyigedingyijiao“lingheboyi”，yingyuzhongjiaozero-sumgame，hanyufanyihuilaibianshi“jiaqilaishiling”，yisishishuozaiboyiquanguochengzhong，yifanghuoyijiubidingdaibiaozhelingyifangsunhai，yinciboyibicidezongfenjiaqilaiyidingshiling。

keshi，renshengdaolujuedaduoshuqingjingbingbingbushilingheboyi，youqishihunyinguanxili，zaojiuyigeren，bingbuyiweizheyaofangqidiaociwaiyigeren。

yulingheboyixiangduixingdelingyizhongxintai，jiao：huligongying。

wulunshichupengdeshilihuanshiworichangshenghuodepenyou，keyijiajiyouqianrendenvshi，wuyiliwai，tamenquanshihuligongyingdedashen：zaojiulaogongdelingwai，yezaojiulezishen。

“有心无力，但你能聆听他讲”

zaojiunansheng，kendingbingbushifangzhebuguan，zhenghaoxiangfan，nidesixuyaoshifendexi。

zhiyaoshinengjiajin“haomen”denvxing，dabufenyongyou henqiangdetichaminqinggongzuonengli，nengtichadaoairenzaiqianyishizhongdeyaoqiu。

jiuna【lingting】zheijianshiqingeryan。

sammyzaigenwoliaodetahelaogongdeguanlianshi，wuyijianjiangleneiyangyiduanhua——

“nanshengpengdaonanti，niyouxinwuli，danninengtingtajiang。youshinanshenggennijiangzhejiangzhe，tazijijiudongle。yueyoubenshidenanshengyueaoqi，richangshenghuoliyouqibixuneiyangyigenengtingtajiangshiqingderen。”

neishihoutingwanzheijuhua，woduitacemuershisanfen。

sammyshuodehendui。

dangnanrenduinvrenzhangkouqingtushi，tamenbudanshizaishushuo，yeshizaiqidaihuodemouleihaowuyiwen。

youqishishiyenanshi，dangtamenyunishushuozishendeshiershi，shijishangyeshizaizhengligousi，sisuozishenpengdaodenanti。

zheigeshihoujiaruninengjindaolingyifangdeyuju，yibianhaowuyiwentadeniantou，liru“worenweinineimexiangshiduide”，jijidijilingyifangxinxin。

yibianbangtazaochengdaliangdefajue，hetayiqizaochengxindesisuo，liru“nineimezuomeiyoucuo，bingqieyexuhainenggou.....”rangdajiadehuihuabianweiyizhongliudongxingde、youshiyongjiazhidetaolun。

lihunhoufuhedezuijiashiqishishenme？neimadangdajiadegoutongjiaoliuwanbishi，lingyifanghuijuedehenyouhuodegan，huizaochengyizhong“meiyiciyuniliaoguo，wodedanaojiuqingxiduole”dejuede。