感情中如何控制好自己的情绪？军婚可以离婚吗?

 lihunyihoushehuixinlixueyanjiufaxian，naolihunqijianbunengzuodeshi，75%derenmenbingzhengshiyouxintaizaochengde。zheixiebukeyitaolunhunyinshenghuodezhongniannvren，zheixiebeihunyinshenghuokunhuoquebukeyitaolunhunyinshenghuodezhongniannvren，xiangbitamenzhiyanbuhuidegebilinjulaijiang，junhunkeyilihunma？zaiweilaishiniandezhisilvdadao4bei。

 lingrendanyoudeshi，henduorenzhuangzuohenkaixin，buzaiyi，tashigengzhimingxingdesunhai。kangniedigedaxuedekexueyanjiugongzuorenyuanfajue，qiangyanhuanxiaobinaonugengnengsunhairendeshentijiankang。

yinci，yingduiqingganzhongdexintai，dajiawubiyingduibingguanlifangfata。neima，dajianengzuoxienaxie?

①了解女人和男人是十分不一样的。

 duilaopoeryan，qinmiwujiandaibiaozhetaolunyixieshier，youqishiguanlianzishen。ernanrendexiangfashi，“woxianghetaxiangzhengqian，tazhiweitanyitan。”

 junhunkeyilihunma？naolihunqijianbunengzuodeshi，biru，jiarugongzuozhongbubijiaomanyi，nanhaierningkeqingjing，dannvxinghuibuduanwen。dangnvxingbugaoxingdeqingkuangxia，nanrenxihuanjitayixietiyi，keshinvrenyaoxiangdeshilingtingtademaiyuanhelijidexiangyong。

yinci，danghunyinshenghuofashengzhengzhishi，buyidingshilingyifangdecuo。kenengshitaxiaidefangfa，nijiushitaoyan。

②维持自我认同。

 naolihunqijianbunengzuodeshi，ruguoniqingxubodong，xianghelingyifanggoutongjiaoliushi，xianwenyiwenzishen，“woshizenmele?yinweishenme，woxiangyaoshenmejieguo?”

neiyang，dajiabudanyaoxuanxiezishendexintai，yeyaobiaoshuzishendexintaiheqidai。

③把责怪和埋怨变为沟通交流的需求。

 hunlianwentidezuikaishizhengzhaozhiyishiruilidezhize、guoduodemaiyuanheeyizhongshang。yinci，zaiziworentongdejibenshang，dajiayingdangchangshigaozhilingyifangnixihuanshenme。

 liru，youyuyigenvhaishengbingle，keshitadenanyoumeiyoudadianhuajita，tahenshengqi，yincitayingdangbiaoshudebudanjiushinibuzaiyiwo，zhishibiaoshuzishendeyaoqiu：xiwangnikeyiduotongdianhuaguanzhuwo。

④开设一个爱的尤其的日子。

 meiyigerendoushiyouzishendegongzuoyali，danfanmangbingbingbushihulvedeyuangu。yiqierenjijiaowangdebaochidoubixuguanlifangfa，youqishihunyinguanxi。

 yinci，jinkenengfenpeiyigewanmeideaiderizi，zheinenggoushiyigegudingbudongdeshijian。jinyouliangrenquyongcanhuokandianshiju，neiyanggudingbudongdeshijianhuileijibicizhijiandeqinmiwujianhexingfukuaile，suihoutamenburongyijuedeshengshuhegudan。

 zhangqidehunyinshenghuobixujiejuenantidebixugongzuonengli，erjiejuenantizuizhongyaodeyibufenbianshiganqing。danganqingbingbushidanbiandetouruhuosuoyao，meirenyaoweibicizhijiandeganqingfuchuyingyoudedaijia，youyuyiduanmeihaodehunyinbingbushixianghuyicunde，shihuligongyingdejushi，shi2gechengrendulitongfenbu，suihouzaigongpingbingcunzhongxianghuzhijianguanhuaizirun。

 ganqinghuohunyinshenghuozaimeiyigerenxinlidouhenzhongyao。dangtaxiangnilangmanqiuhunshi，tayouyigezhongshengdexinxin，nitichufenshouhuomingquetichuliyilaikonghetazongshiranglingyifangganjueleng。

 lihunyihouhunyinshenghuoshigongpingde，bixubicizhijiantouruheaixi，nvrenhenanrenyiyangbixubeiguanzhuhelejie。xiwangnikeyiyouzhewanmeideaiqinglingwaiyejuyouziwojiazhi。