女人做对这三件事，军婚可以离婚吗?

 lihunyihoubeibeizishenshifujianvchusheng，xingqingyourennai，wanhunqianqi，naolihunqijianbunengzuodeshi，guowainianshudezhangfuhaihuijixugesanchawupaohuijiashouhoubeibei，bangbeibeigoumaiyifujiaowaimai，junhunkeyilihunma？gezhonggeyangchongni。

 danshirujinxiaohai2suiduole，zhangfuyecongciqianyiqiongerbaidexiaohuoerbianchengleyazhoudiqudeqichezhizaoyelingtouren，liangrenjinguanjuanqimei，danshiyemeiyouhuashuo，naizhibeibeishuotayoucikandaolezhangfushoushangyitiaoxinxineirongshuo：

“yinweiniburongyiliyi，yinweiwojinjinqidainengpeizainishenbianjiuxing。”

 naolihunqijianbunengzuodeshi，beibeishuoqilaizheiyishi，gaozhiwojiang：“woqueshishihaipayingduineiyangdezhuangkuang，shijishangzheiyiduanxiaoxiwoshidabannianduoqianjiandaode，woyizhitiaoxuanzijipianziji，kerujintalianwomenzaiyiqiliuzhouniandouwangjile，woxianggaizenmeban?”

 zaigenbeibeishencengcidegoutonglejieyihou，womingbaitayaoxiangquhuizhangfudexin，jiqinggantiwen，yinciwogaosubeibei，congtahelianrenxianjieduannantidesangecengmianbuzhangduban。

第一点，搜索自身在婚姻关系中人物角色的缺少

 junhunkeyilihunma？liangrennengzaiyiqi，zuikaishishigenjuxiwang，lirudajiajiandaoyigeqizhimeinv，chukaiwaizaidexiyinzhuwai，dajiahenyoukenengyehuiduitashigeshenmeyangderenjinxingfengfuduocaidexiangdao：

 tahenyoukenengxingqingwenroua，tahenyoukenengjubeigudianfenggeqichanga，tahenyoukenengzaiwofushangshi，yigexiaorongjiujiyuyuliaoazheixie。

 keshi，jiarunifajuemeinvyihuishou，baodiaozangkou，shifouyishunjianganjuechengmujieshe，suihouxiwangganjiumingxianjiangdi?zaihuoshipiaoliangmeinvdequefeichanghao，keshimeiyicidoujinyouneiliangsanju，yehuifawei。

 beibeibianshizheiban，tatinghua，congtanlianaiqianqidaodangshangmuqin，quanshijianghuaqingyanxiyu，butiguidingbumaimeng，zhangfuzizhuchuangyebixuqianjiucongniangjiarenyao，zhangfushiyeyouchengyebubilipin，bugongxiangzaojiu。

 bierenyanlijiandaodeshi，beibeihenhuixuanzhangfu，ganjuezhangfujiechurencai，youduiguinvfeichanghao，danjinyoubeibeizishenlejie，errenyitiandoushuobulaisanjuhua。

wogaosubeibei，hunyinguanxizhong，womenyaozuohaosigerenwujiaose，fenbieshi——

penyou，ranglingyifangganjuenenggoubasuoyouxinuaileyonglaigongxiang，gerenaihaowandaoyiqi;

guinv，ranglingyifangganjuezishenshigeyouzerengannenggoumanzuniguidingdebaba，henyouweishihemanzugan;

 mama，ranglingyifangpengdaoyixieqingxubuhao、gongzuoduanbanshi，jishinibunengjiyuzhuanyedetiyi，danshiyehuichuxianxintaishangdebaochigan;

 lianren，biewangjizuikaishierrennengzaochengxiyinzhu，shiyouyuyounongnongxingmeili，liangrenyuefajiaowangjiule，lejiederentiheyuyanbiaoda，jiuhuirangxingmeilishoudaofeichangdayingxiang，yejiushishenmiganjiangdi。

 beibeishuo，congweixiangguotanlianaiyaoyongxin，tataixiguanbeilaogongdangxiaohaizi，tizijizuojuece，tizishendaiwa，yongyouxintaitizishenshujie……

 manmandi，zhangfugongzuofazhanpengdaoleyulaiyuduodepenyou，danshidaibeibeichulaiqueyuelaiyuedi，zongshihuishuo：“dajiatanzuoshengyi，ninengganjuekuzaofaweide……”

 yinci，beibeixiancongpenyourenwujiaosezhujian，youyuzhangfudediyitongjinshizishenjideziyuan，erzheixiezuikaishizishendepenyouzishenfandaobulianxile，zaocheng zhangfujuedebeibeiyizhiyuanditabuzou，zishenquelijingxuduojiannanxianzu。

 yincibeibeixianguidinggenzhangfuyiqijigouzuoshengyixiaohuobandepengyoujucan，ziranjuhuihuodongqian，beibeizhuyaogaozhizhangfuzishendefenpei，younaxiezhutihuodong，huigongxiangnaxiehuatitaolun，rangzhangfudachiyijingdeshiguoquzheizhongbeibeiquanshiguidingzhangfuzuo，taquandouwulunde。

 xiamian，lianrenrenwujiaose，beibei168deshengao51kgdeshenxing，pingshiyehenzhongshiweihubaoyang，jinjintahenchuantong。huashuo：“jiaruniyaoxiangyigenanrenduinixiangyouzhuanzhuli，chuanshenmazuihaoshini?——

huidabianshibuchuanjiahongputaojiu”yincibeibeishuoyidaoyeliquanshizhangfuzishenpeiguinvshui，erbeibeijiumanbuzaihudishuimeirongjue。

 zheigeshihoujiuxuyaotianjiagesanchawuduizhangfudekanwangheqingrenzhutihuodongdefenpeile，zhishishizheleyicihou，beibeijiufajuezhangfubudanbudiaokanbeibeibudaiwa，fandaoyoushihoulinshuiqianhuianshixingwenbeibeishifouhuizaihuranlaiyigehushimeinva?

第二点，假如不可以处理困境，那么就学好迁移困境

beibeishijishanghezhangfuguayanshaoyuhaiyouyigeguanjiannantishipoxizhijiantongzhu。

 anbeibeidehuashuo，tataoyanjiapodejianghuadasangmen，danshiyoulibulejiapojizhufanjiadaiwa，zuizhongjiapomeiyicishuobeibeinantingde，tafahuodanyebiezhule。

beilaogongkanzaiyanzhonghou，jiuganjuebeibeiburongyiweirenchushi，yinciduitayeshiyouyixiemaiyuan。

 poxizhijianhuirangzhangfukazaizhongjianyouqidiaonan，ziranzuohaizidejishilejiezishenmuqinyouneixiexingqingboruodianyebutaikenengshuoquzhizezishenmama，ziranqidaixifuerzishenkeyitinghuadian，zuodehaoyixie，danshibeibeizixiaojiaoguan，buqingchuruhequranglaonianrengaoxing，yincichangchangbenlaimeihuaixin，keshibanlecuoshi，rangjiapomiansehenbuhaokan。

 jiunajiazhongdejiatingbaomueryan，jiapoyizhiqiaobuqibieren，erjiatingbaomufajuechuqubeibeijinguanbuzhishiqing，keshijianghuayijiarenyehuiting，jiuyigejingquyuebeibei。

 yinciyizhizaijialidaizhemeibeicitui。beibeigenwoshuo：taganjuejiatingbaomuyebuyi，jiapokekebierendehuobuzixidengcengmianshijishangyoudianerjidanlitiaogugele。

 lihunyihoudanshibeibeidebaorongfandaorangjiapoganjuebeibeibangzhebieren。yincicikexianshoulongzishendeshengmuxin，bajiatingbaomujiegudiao，rangjiapoganjuebeibeihezishenyitiaoqianxian，yihoujiapoduibeibeidexintaijiujianjuegaijinxuduo ，zhangfuyelezizidizhuanweizanmeilebeibei。