怎么调节这段婚姻对自己的伤害？离婚对孩子的伤害真的很大吗？

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 lihunduihaizideshanghaizhendehendama？zheizhongcaiyifeichangrongyishiyigerenzishenrongsan，duanzanxingdesangshixinxin，haipajieshouxianshi。