离婚对孩子的伤害真的很大吗？中年夫妻该如何升温感情？​

 lihunduihaizideshanghaizhendehendama？gangchuduixiangdeqingkuangxia，qinglvzhijianjuederutongqiuaidekongque，zhiweizhanxianzishenhaodeyimian，wangshangzixunlihunlvshishiwusuo，yezhikanhuodelingyifangdeyoushi。

keyidanwanhun，jiudianjizhezongzhizhengyelingle，xiaohaiyeshengle，nayeyouqiliweihubaoyangtanlianaishide“renwuguanxi”?

 liangrenjinjinweiraozheyouyanjiangcu、wuguanjinyao，gezhonggeyangbuliangxiguan、chouwentidouzhujianxianchu，yitiandaowandoushizaihelingyifangdequexianguorizi。xuduofufuzaigezhonggeyangxinhan、bumanyi、baoyuan、zhengzhili，xingqingyemanmanzaochenglezhuanbian，yuelaiyueai“lengyanlengyu”erbuzizhi。

 wangshangzixunlihunlvshishiwusuo，pengdaolaogongyaochumenjiaoji，xifuhenyoukenengyaojifeng，nizheibanlidetingshufu，meitianhejiugechang，jiuchazaiwaimianzaiangejiale。pengdaoxiaohaidebing，zhangfuyouyaozhize，nimeitianzaijialidaizhe，ruheliangexiaohaidouzhaoliaobutaihao?

fuqizhengchaodeqingkuangxia，yizhineiyanghulengyanlengyu，budanfourenlelingyifang，fourenlezishen，yefourenlexianghujiandeqinggan。

 shubuzhihenduorendoumeiyishidao，zheilei“fouren”dexintai，he“lengyanlengyu”deshuohuafangshiqiahaoshihunyinguanxitarusiludeyihaoxiongshou。

 yidanzheilei“lengyanlengyu”bianchengchangtaihua，jiuhuidaozhierzhongjieguo。diyizhongshi，zaochengbushigan。laogonghuoshilaopo，duizheitao“lengyanlengyu”dehuajuedeyanfanhefama，yihourenyounizenmeshuodoushierbujian。

dierzhongshi，tamenbingbukeyilejie“liangshui”shenhoudehanyi，huizaochengxuduoyuanqi、naonuhepanni。

 xueshengxiaozhaobianshidianxingxingdeshili，tahelaogongxiaoyangshidaxuetongxue。liangrenzuitianmeideqingkuangxia，haihuijixuxianghuzhijianzhailulingyifangshuodelangmandehua，zhichengshouzhangbenlailiunian。

danwanhunyihou，liangrenyulaiyubukeyihaohaodigoutongjiaoliule，chukailengyanlengyudehuayiwai，jiuzhishenglengbaoli。

 qianduanshijiandeyigezhouwu，xiabanleqianxiaoyangtongdianhuahuijia，shuojinwanbuhuijiachifanle，youyuqiyepengyouxiangtizaobangtaqinghexiashengri，youyigejuhui。xiaozhaozhangkoubianshi，“nigexiaoyuangong，zaiqiyesuanlaojia，haigaozheichangmian?”

 jiuzheiyijuhuarangxiaoyangmeiquwubi，benlaixiangyumaichulibaitianhelaopoguoerrenshijie，doumeiyouzheiyizhunbeile。xiaoyangzaidianhualibinglengdehuiying，“zhihoudewancannidouwuxudengzhewole，zishenchifou。”

 lihunduihaizideshanghaizhendehendama？guadiaodianhuaxiaozhaoyoufahuoyoubiequ，shijishangtabingbingbushikanbuqilaogong，jinjinxiguanyongneiyangdeshuohuafangshilaihuifu。