她为了我离婚，离婚对孩子的伤害真的很大吗？

 wogenxifuguanlianyizhihenpingpingdandan，lihunduihaizideshanghaizhendehendama？yinianqian，wochuguile，wangshangzixunlihunlvshishiwusuo，genyigejihunyoujiazhongdenvxinggaohunwailian。

 tajiaoxiaoqin(biming)，genwotongnianling，33sui。wodangshihetazaiyiqideniantoufeichangjiandan，youyuhunhoushenghuoyaowojuedekuzao，yinci，woyaoquwaibianxunzhao。

zhenghao，xiaoqingentalaogongdeguanlianyebutaihao，liangrenchangchangzhengchaolengbaoli，youshihaifenfangshui。

 wohelaopowanhunliunian，youyige4suidehaizi，yinweishijiarentuomeipoxiangxijieshaode，yinci，hunhou，wofaxianlelaopohenchuantongshi，youqidedaiban，chukaixiangqinyuehuineiyitian，tachuanzhedabandehenmei，hunhou，zhilejieleichenggoujiawuhuohexiaohai，feichangshaoqingxizishen。

 wangshangzixunlihunlvshishiwusuo，meiyiciwokandaochuanzhedabanjingzhinvren，jiuyoudianerhouhuimojidangshiqinglvdewanhun。kezaixiangyixiang，tabajiazhongqingxidejingranyouxu，woyouganjuemeiyoushenmehaohouhuimojide，zongeryanzhi，xinlihendanxin。

 yinci，dangxiaoqinfashengdeqingkuangxia，yaowoyanqianyiliang。tajiyulewoxinliqianquedeganqing，dajiajiaowangyukuaideqingkuangxia，tagenwofalaosao，shuotariziguodeku，wonaizhijiangchu，nilihunba，wozhaoliaoni。

 womeixiangdaotazhendele，yigebanyueqian，tagaozhiwo，yijinggenlaogongbanbanlihunshouxu，wenwodexiangfa。tazheiyisishi，genwoshuoheshiliyi?

 woneishihouhenmeng，womeixiangguozheimekuailiyi，bingqie，zhaobuzheyuanyingenwoqiziliyi?nandaoshuowojiangyouyunitaidaiban，bumingbainanshengdesixu?zheiyetaimeiyouganranli，chuanchu，tarengaizenmemawo?wohaishiyaoyanmiande。

 yinci，wojiangyaowokaolvyixia，talaiyiju，nijiaruganjuebuyuanliyi，neimejiusuanbushangle，dajiajinzaowanbi，woyebazhaolingyijia。

 lihunduihaizideshanghaizhendehendama？xiangtinglehennanshou，yinweiwolejietashihenhua，kewojibushangtafuwuchengnuo，feichangpataxuanzelikai。silaixiangqu，wowoyebuzhidaogaizaban?