lihunhouzuijiafuhunshijianshishenme?wangluoshidai,dailaidahuoerxuduoshouyi,yegenggailehenduorenderichangshenghuo。shenmilaogongbulihunzenmeban?zaiqizhongzuixianzhudeyidianbianshi,wangyoudefazhanqushi,shenmilaogongbulihunzenmeban?shoujiyouxiyuelaiyuehexiyanyiyang,suishinenggoukaiqiwangehuntianheidi。
changchangyouqiuzhuzhewen:jiaoshi,wolaogongmeitianxiabanlejiuwanyouxi,duixiaohaibuwenbuwen,wanshanghenwanyewanshangbushuijue,haichaodaowoyuhaizishuijue,bushiwomeigoutongjiaoliu,wogoutongjiaoliuguo,wujiyushi。tayiranganjuetashiduide,ganjuezishenmeiyoufancuonaxie。zheileihunyinshenghuoyaobuyaolihun?
zheimingzimeidefannaojuebushichongfenbiyaotiaojian,congshehuixinlixuedeshijiao,xifuhuibazhangfuyouxishangyinguinawei:buzilv,buqinfen,buaiwo,buxihuanxiaohai,naizhizisizilizheixiepengjishang。
ruguonizhujianneiyangduidaizhangfu,chukairangdajiadefuqiguanxigengcaogao,shiniduizhangfudexintaigenggaoyiwai,shiqibushangyiqiegongxiaode。
shenmilaogongbulihunzenmeban?shehuixinlixuejiangzaiqianyishizhong,xinlixuedashironggebianshuoguo:zaiqianyishizhongyindaozheniderenshengdaolu,niquerenweitashiyunshi。
yinci,shenmilaogongbulihunzenmeban?congshehuixinlixuedeshijiao,yiban zhangfuyouxishangyin,huijigecengmiandeyuangu:
1,逃避体制
liruxuduonanrenzaishijiliwufadedaozishenyaoxiangdemanzuganhejiazhigan,yincihuibuzijuedetaobishiji,chenzuizaiyouxili,youyuzaiyouxilirangzishenhenyoumanzugan,nenggoubianchengshuobailede“gaoshou”。
2,婚恋问题的拓宽
xuduojiemeihuibajiawuhuosuoyoulanzaizishendeshenshang,weishenmeni?youyu“wobuhuizuotayeburongyiquzuoa”,“womeiyoubanfaa,wozhiyouzheiyanga”
3,上瘾个人行为
quanbuchenmiyushenhouquanshiyouhuolide。shoujiyouxirangrenchenmiyushiyouyutacijixing,bufeijing,hainenglijijiyijianfankui。
liruzaijiazhonglibeiruohua,jiazhongmeiyourenzaihuzishendetihui,yemeiyourenlingtingzishendejianyi,fangfoquandouyongbudaotacanyu,zhangfuchedibianchengyigemeiyuezhunshijiaoxinshuide“gongjuren”,zheigeshihouyejiaoweifeichangrongyichenjinyuyouxili,erqiehenxiwangzishennengruxuan,neiyangnengdedaoguofudeguanxin。
dajiazhidaozhangfuyouxishangyinshenhoudexinlizhuangtaitizhi,jiuxianrangzishencong“shehuidaodejiaodu”xianjiedaogengwanshande“rendebenxingjiaodu”,jiuxianbubiqupengjita,hetaqujianglile。
youyudayouxishiyizhongganguanxintaideganshou,shenshangxianjisudoushihuitishengxuduo,zaiqujiangli,jiangshiminggan,zongshihuandelingyifangdehushinaizhinumuershi。
keshifangzhebuguan,fuyanleshi,xianeryijianshibuhaode,hunyinshenghuoshikunfudeguanlian,shengshuaijusun,yincizuoweitongzaizheiliduanguanlianlidexifu,yinggaizenmezuoni?
1、有一个恰当的方式是,让手机游戏这件事情越来越没那麼好玩儿
liruyouyigeshili,laogongxihuanwanyouxi,xifuyejiugensuiyiqida,haihuijixurangzhangfujiaozishenda,bingqiehoubianxifumeitiandourangzhangfudaizishenyiqida。
zhangfuzhihoufajue,benlaiwanyouxishiyijianhenkaixindeyijianshi,rujinbianchengleyigemeirirenwu,zhujianjuedeshoujiyouxifangfomeineimahaowanerle,youqishizhangfufajuexifufangfoqueshiwufaziba,jiazhongyebuguanle,zhangfuzishenxianhuangle,yincifandaozhujianquandaoxifuyaozaodianshui,bubiyouxishangyinle。
2、还有一个方式是,述情式沟通交流,迁移丈夫的专注力
bianshibiaoshuzishendetihui+mingquetichuzishendeyaoqiu。liru:zhangfu,zuoweinimeiruotianxiandeqizibeinilengdan,neixinbaliangbaliangde,ninengbunengguolaibaobaowo,yaowoganshouyixianidewenduni?
3、上边2个是通用性的方式,更实际一点呢,就想要你寻找更加深入的缘故
xinlixuedashifoluoyideshuo:jiaruyigefenqiwufachuli,neidaibiaozhezaifenqishenhouyougengjiashenrudefenqi。
liruzhangfuyouxishangyinhenyoukenengshiyouyuzaijialijiarubeiruohuale,shuoxieshenmedoumeiyourenzaihu,jiemeimenjiuxuyaojianjiandibianhuazheileifangshi。
liruxianhaowuyiwenzhangfu,jianxinzhangfuhuiganhao(jibiankaishitachuxianshiwuhuoshimomocengcengyebubimata),rangzhangfubashijianjianjiandifangdaojiazhong,fangdaohexiaohaiyunidehudongjiaoliushang。
youhuoshigenbenyuanyinjiushinihezhangfuzaoyimeiyouyitongdegerenaihaohehuatitaolunle,yinciweilegenghaodifangzhinankanzhinenggemanggegedeshoujile,zheigezenmezuo,jianxinjiemeimenzaoyixinzhongyoushuleba。
4、此外,从深层社会心理学的视角,最根本原因能解决困难的方法,還是要发展自身
lihunhouzuijiafuhunshijianshishenme?youyijuhuashuodedui,nizhangfubianweineiyang,shiyouyunizaiqianyishizhongliqidaitazheiban。yinci,xianjingxiajingxiaxinlaiwenyixiazijihaoduogenanti:zhangfuyouxishangyin,duinideyichuzainaer?zishenweihehainengzaineiyangdehunyinshenghuozhongjianchibuxiechulai?nijiehundechuxinshishenme?
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