做好这4件事，老公欠债太多该离婚吗？

 duizhunbeilihunnvrendezhonggao，hunyinshenghuohetanlianaibuyiyang，tanlianaiwomenkeyimingmuzhangdan，kehunyinshenghuoquejiazalexuduoyiwuhejiban，laogongqianzhaitaiduogailihunmatanlianaijibiantichufenshouyebuhuichanshenghendadebianhua，lihundenvrenerliyiqueshirenshengdaoludetianfandifudedazhuanzhe。

 youxierenliyi，shijiangzishenkanyamodong，eryouxierendeliyi，shitongchudezhuihuimoji，danyaoxiangwanliuquetongchangshouzuwucuo，shouzuwucuo，yaoxiangzaihun，quebuqingchuzenmecainengxiubuzheixieliefeng。

 shijishang，hunyinwanhuihelianaiwanhui，youfeichangdadebuyiyang，youyuhunyinshenghuokunfuleguoduodeyiwuyuxintai，yincideyonggengheshihunyinshenghuodewanliufangfa，caikeyijianhaojiushou，wanhuihunyin。

把“迫使”换为“坦然”

 xuduoqingkuangxia，dajiahuifajuezheixieyaoxiangzaihunderen，feichangrongyihuishiqulizhi，yunyongyiqiekeyunyongdequposhilingyifang，quanjianlingyifang，kejieguozongshigengweirenaolingyifangbale。

laogongqianzhaitaiduogailihunma？yincishishishang，zheixie“poshi”defangshi，zhenduiwanjiuhunyineryanshidebuchangshide。

 niyaoranglingyifangxiangtongyiqian，yaoxianquchuranglingyifangxiangxinnidexintailai，bubiyifubipolingyifangjiufandemoyang，jinliangrangzishenbaozhenglizhi，tanran。

 laogongqianzhaitaiduogailihunmatanranbushishuobiaocengshangdetanran，lihundenvrenzhishishuocongxinlingshenchudetanran，jienaliyidekeguanshishi，yejienalingyifangmeifajienanidekeguanshishi。

 haohaodixiangyixiangzheixienian，zishenquanshizenyangkandaitade?ruhekandaizheiyijiade?lizailingyifangdeshijiao，fanxiangsikaoyixiazishendexingwei。

 jiarunizuobudaotanran，jiubazheiyifen“poshi”yongzaizishendeshenshang，bizhezishenqupingjingxialai，jibicizhijianyigepingfuxintaideshijian，lizhixiangtonghou，nicaihuigaoqingchuzishendaodishizenmequdaoliyizheiyibude。

充分发挥优点、填补缺点

 mengzicengshuoguo：“cunyousuozhang，chiyousuoduan，wuyousuobugou，zhiyouyidingdeweizhi。”，yisishi，shijianwanwudoushiyoucunzaidebuzu，jibianshicongmingrenyehuichuxiangaobudongbuqingchudediqu。

zheigaozhiledajia，yaorenqingzishendequedian，neiyangcaikeyibuduanjinbufazhan。

 jianxinyongyouqianbianhuanjiedetanranjienahesikao，nizaoyilejiezishenjiujingyounaxiequexianhebugoule，renqinglejiuxuyaomingbaijiuzhenghetianbu，shizhequgenggaiyixiazishen，xianghupeihezhenideyoushiheyoudian，caikeyizhuangjichuzuihaodeziji。

liru，nideyoushishishaoyishoujiachangcai，nidequexianshitaiguozisiziliwangdao，neimaniyejiuyingdangjixubaochinideyoudian。

 nenggourangxiaohuobanmenxiezhunisongchuquniderenjianmeiwei，ranglingyifangpinweidaonixiangwangdeshenghuo，jinerrangtahuixiangqinidehao，danzheiyidingyaodenglingyifangxintaipingjingdeqingkuangxia。

 erquexianni，jiuxuyaonulipingchangbuduandusujiuzhengle，liru，xunlianzishenduojianshenbianrenkaolvdao，touru，chuaiceqinmijiechurendesixuheniantou，duolingtingbierenjianyi。

dengzheniqueshizhujianxuxintingqu，buhuizaiyouyijiuzhengdeqingkuangxia，bianshigenggaidezhujian。

请到最好是的“说客”

 hunyinshenghuobuzhishibicizhijianderonghe，yeshibicijiazhongdejiehe，dajialiyilaonianrenshijishangshizuibuyuanyijiandaode，yincilingyifangdebabamama，kendingshiwanjiuhunyinzhongzuihaoshide“shuoke”。

 keshi，zenyangyaoyuelingyifangbabamamabangzhu，yeshishifenzhuzhongjutifangfade，qianwanbieposhilaonianrenqubangniquanjian，zhishizhongxindizaitamenyanqianchengxiannidexiaojing，liru：jiawulaodong、zhufan、zhaoliaotamen、shouhoutamenzheixie。

jinyouneiyang，tamencaigengbushederangdajialiyi，rangbabamamatongyizhanchuqujinijianghua，shizaihaobuguodele。

适度擅于忍让

 waijiqiuyuandexiezhujinguantiexin，danyejinjinfuzhu，zhenshikeyichulizheizhongnandiande，weiyounizishen，zhishangmaixiafubigaohaoyihou，jiukeyizhaolingyifangtanchengxiangjianditanyitanle。

zuixian，yaomingbaizailingyifangyanqianzuoziwofansi，xianbazijidenantishenkaieryan，xintaiyidingyaochengzhidangran。

 lingwai，yeyaoxuehao“renrang”，bubizongshuoquexian，yeshuoqiyixiezishendekunnan，liru，hunyinshenghuozhongdebuyi，helixingzishendeyantanjuzhi，cijixinglingyifangdelianminzhixin。

 dengzhenijiangwanyihou，zaizaijiashangyiqiandemaixiafubi，jianxinniyizhizailingyifangneixinzaoyimeiyouneima“huai”le，bingbingbushiqueshibukeyuanliang，shengyudejiuxuyaoduohelingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，ranglingyifangxiangxinnidegenggai。

ziran，ranglingyifangzaicijienani，huoxuburongyizheimekuai，danruguonijianchidaodi，yidinghuiranghunyinshenghuohehaoruchu。

 duizhunbeilihunnvrendezhonggao，wanhuihunyinhewanliuganqinggeyoubutong，wanjiuhunyinqujueyulejiehunyinshenghuo，lejieziji，yelejielingyifang，bingmingbaiyongshihedefangfahefangshiquwanliulingyifang，fangshizhengquele，hunyinshenghuoyejiunengjiule。