婚姻长久甜蜜都是怎样经营的？离婚两个孩子一般怎么判？

 lihunlianggehaiziyibanzenmepan？haodehunyin，shiyichanggoujie。zheibannian，penyouxiaoyueyizhizainaoliyi。nanrenneifangmianbuxinggailihunma？yaolejie，dangchuxiaoyuehezhangfuwanhun，suimeiyoujingtiandi、qiguishen，danyeshijinglileqiqisijiunan。

 nanxingjiatingtiaojianbixiaoyuejiachalehaoduogejibie，xiaoyuedebabamamabutongyi，yizaiquanjieta，jiatingtiaojianbupeiduidehunyinshenghuo，shinanyihuodexingfukuailede。

kebabamamayuedizhi，xiaoyueyuejianchibuxie，taquexin，zhixuyou“ai”，jiuchongzule。

zaimeiyouhuodebabamamazhuyuandezhuangkuangxia，qiaoqiaobazhengjilingle。

xiaohuobanmenyihuo，dangshineibanbuguyiqiediyaowanhun，weiherujinyouzheibanjianchibuxielihunle?

nanrenneifangmianbuxinggailihunma？xiaoyuedandanditanleyikouqi，yanzhonghanleishuo：

 “gentazaiyiqi，jingshenshizhishimeifayinqigongming，jingjifazhanshangbuyikaotaxiezhu，shenghuoshangwufadedaotadetiexin，neiyangdenansheng，butaikenengcunzhexinnianba。”

jiehunhouxiaoyuecaifajue，dangshide“ai”duomedegaoxiao。

 nanshengyuzishendexihao，chedibuyiyang，keyiliaodeyiqidehuatitaolun，quzhikeshu。jingjifazhanshang，nanshengyezhituzhezishenhetadejiatingguanxi。

 gengrangxiaoyuewufashihuaide，nanshengdayueshibeibabamamaguanhuaile，congbulejiequtiexinta，binglebumingbaizhaoliao，waichulianlindongxi，quanshixiaoyueqiangzhishitagande。

laorenmenyizhigaozhidajia，hunyinzhidao，zhuzhongkuanrong、renshouhewusifengxian。

 shubuzhi，quefeichangshaoyouxierenjiaohuidajia，kaonaxiedehengxin，caikeyizhichengdianqiduiyigerenjishiniandekuanrong、renshouhewusifengxianni?

zhikao“ai”jiuchongzulemeiyou?

自然并不是。

yaobushirenherenzhijian，jiyubicizhijiannenggoujiezhu、xinrenjiqihemuxiezuodetihui，shinanyibahunyinshenghuolaidaoxiangshoude。

wanhun，shijishangbianshizhaohezuohuoban

luopangshuoguo：“tanlianaishixiezuo，hunyinshenghuoshihezuojingying”。

zaiqizhongdechabie，henxiwei，queshifenguanjian。

 congmouzhongchengdushangjiang，xiezuoshiyizhongqiangqianglianshou，yejiushi“ninhaowozhengeweihao!”，dangmouyifangbugaoxingshi，nahaozishendedongxi，likaijiukeyile。

 erhezuojingyingzeshizaizheigejichushang，buguanyinglikuiben，doubixuyitongchengdanzeren，rutongyigenshengshangdetanglang，feililuoyiqixieshougongjin，huaishiyebuqibuli，duguonanguan。

taoruzaihunyinshenghuoshang，zaishihedanshi。

dianshilianxuju《fumuaiqing》zhong，genhongmiaozhengdelvzhangjiangdefu，aishanglezichanjiejixiaomeianjie。

buguancongshidaitezheng，huanshijiatingguanxi，tamenlianggerenderonghe，yebubeikanzhong。

jianglvzhangdediwei，anxiaomeidepiaolianggaoya，shitamenhunyinshenghuodeqishidian。

 zaijiehunhoudejishinianzhong，biaocengshangkan，jiangdefuxiangyouzhequleyigepiaolianglaopochanshengdezihaogan，anjiezezaijianglvzhangzhenshishenfendebiyouxia，guozhejinyiyushideyisheng。

danzixiguankanyihou，quebuhuitainanfajue，tamendehunyinshenghuo，shijishangshi“hezuohuoban”zhongjian，duibicizhijiandeyiwu。

 biaocengziyousanmandejiangdefu，huitxuanjiezhenshishenfenjitasongqudekunhuo，jiandaotadeqinrenzhishenjiongjing，yaoganmaozheweihaifazhanqiantudefengxian，congzhongwoxuanhebangzhu;

 kanqilaigaoaojiaozongdeanjie，fangzhijiangdefu“yaomianzirubao”，tabianshexiazishende“xiaomeixingzi”，pangrenjizulaogong”qingmian“。

jiangdefudejiejinsuoneng，anjiedeshengbaidedang，shitamenzai“hunyinshenghuohetongshu”zhongzijintourude“qianzaixingziyuan”。

henduorenshuo，zhenshiaiyigeren，shimeiyouliyoude。

 shishishang，aishangyigeren，kendingshibeilingyifangdeshenshangmouleidongxixiyinzhu，huozhezhipeiquanqiancai，huozherongmaoconghui，yihuoshidanchunxingqiaoli……zheixie，zongeryanzhi，buguannayizhong，daduoshuquanshizishensuochongjinghequefade。

eryuzheigerenderonghe，qiahaoshijietazhizhangbuyizhiduan，lianggerenhezuojingying，pingtanshijiandesuoyouxinuaile。

haodehunyinhehuoren，bingbushimeiyoumudi，zhishimeiyouzhanjuhegengxingaizao，gengmeiyoucaozong。

 lihunlianggehaiziyibanzenmepan？shizaiyitongdefuqiguanxizhong，shouhaozishendelugui，weizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo，chushidaliang、gengqiang、gengyoushiyongjiazhidefazhanqianli。