离婚了怎么走出来？拿着空碗乞讨，永远是情感的乞丐

 dierciqisulihunhuipanlima？qianduanshijiandedianshilianxuju《anjia》，lihunlezenmezouchulai？zhushanyaozheiyijiaoseyaowoganchupoduo。zuoweijiashiyiban，jiatingtiaojiankunhuodeshuizai“biju”lide“xiaogongzhu”，juliyikaishideta，zaifangchanzhongjiegongsizheiyibenlainenggouzaojiufengfushouyidezhiweishang，bingbingbushidianjizhezenyangnulideqinfenquzhuanquzishendexingfudeshenghuo，zhishiyixiangzhezhenengkaoyunshiyushangyige“gaoshuaifu”，lihunbulijiakeyima？bazijijiaren。yincitaxinzhongzhonglixianghuadelingyiban，youshanghaihuji，youfangyouche，zuihaoshihuanshiyoushuaiyougao。

 zaigushiqingjiedefazhanqushixia，taweilegenghaodizishendexiangxiangchidaojingyanjiaoxun，zhihouyeshigandijienaleshenpangde“yewuliuchengjingrui”pengyouwangzijiandelangmanqiuhun，erqieyewajuechuleduigongzuoduigangweidejiqing。

dantadeaiqing，yiranshitouzheyizhongchuantongshinvshijiazhiguanniandeweier：woxiangzhaoyigerenbangwoxingfukuaile。

 lihunbulijiakeyima？zhibuguoshitaxunzhaoxingfukuailedemubiaocongtuolishijidexiangxiangzhongdegaoshuaifu，luodishibianchengshenpangdegongzuogongzuonengliqiangdepengyou。

 lihunlezenmezouchulai？huaxuewuzhixingfukuailehuoxuhuanshijianyide，dangdaixuduonvshizaizhaoxunhunyinshenghuoairenshi，lingwaiyehuishengji“xingfukuaile”deneihan：bujinshiweilegenghaodichuanyichifandehuaxuewuzhixingfukuaile，daliangqingkuangxiahaibixulingyifangnengjiyuxinlizhuangtaishangdemanzugan：shiyong，lejie，gaoduzhongshi，zuihaoshiyeyouchongni。

zheiyangderen，haoxiangcaifeichangzhidegentataruhunyinshenghuo，youyuwozheihoubanshengdexingfukuaile，yaokaotajia!

shubuzhi，manhuaineiyang“xunzhaoxingfukuaile”dejuederonghe，quemianbulezaoyuhuanyinghuimiedefengxianxing。

“xingfukuaile”derenshengdaolu，zenyangpomie

 《wodeqianbansheng》zhongdeluozijun，haoxiangshizhushanyaodejiehunhouban：tajiajileleyewushuipingqiangdenansheng，guodaolejinyiyushidekuotaitairichangshenghuo，taganjuezishenzheiyishengdoujiangshibeilingyifangjiaochongde，zishendehoubanbeiziderenshengdaoluxingfukuaile，quanshiyouxierenjilequebaode。

 shubuzhi，zhongguiyouyitian，tachajuezijide“xingfukuailequebao”aishangletaren，yuanbenmingzhengyanshunde“xingfukuaile”renshengdaolucongcijieting，liyi，zhaogegongzuo，fuyanghaizi，jiejuemamahejiejiedezaoxinsi……quandouyaocongtoukaishi。

zaidianshilianxujudeqingjingzhong，rengranweitafenpeilelingyigenanshijiushi“hehan”，zhutagongzuoganqinggezhonggeyangkaiwaigua。

 shubuzhishijizhongdezhonglaonianhunyinqingganlijingquzhede“luozijun”men，quebuyidingyoudianshilianxujunvzhujiaodeguangyun，youqishizheixiexiguanjiezhulingyibanjiyu“xingfukuaile”denvshimen。

 huoxutamendepomiebingbuyidingshi“beiwaiyu”neimexijuxingdeqingjing，youkenengjinjinzaiyouzhangdelingsuidehunyinshenghuozhongfajue：yuanxianlingyifangbingbushineigezaihunyandelanmandengguangxiaoguoxia，yourubaimawangziyibannengzishizhizhongjiyuzishenbixudeshiyong，lejie，kuanweideren。

 tamenhuikuangzao，huixiaochen，huijiaolvqingxuerbugennigoutongjiaoliu，huiduobidaoshoujiyouxihegongzuozhong，naizhiyeshiyouhenyoukenenggongzuocuobaiyijuebuzhen，huoshirutongdianshilianxujugouxuejuqingjuqingban，aishanglelingyigenvren。

 bulunshizaodaopanbiandeshengsilijie，huanshibeilingsuidegudanwunaisuonieyao。quanbuyiqiantianzhenyiweinenggouconglingyibanneibianhuode“xingfukuaile”denvshi，zuihoudoupobudeyilijingmengxingshifen：yuanxian，tajibushangwoyaodexingfu。

zheishi，wogaichuluzainali?

nazhekongwanxingqi，shizhongshiqitaozhe

kenengzaiwengaizenmebanyiqian，dajiaxianyaotaolunyixia，daodifashengshenmeshi。

jiaruyigenvshi，zaiwanhunshimanhuai“tayidinghuibangwoxingfukuaile”dexiwang，zheidaodidaibiaozheshenme?

diyi，tameiyougongzuonengliduziyirendedaoxingfukuaile，bixuairenyuanyuanbujuejitaxingfukuailedeganshou。

dier，tabalingyifanglixinghuaweiyigebizishenqiangjingxuduoderen。

neiyangdehunyinguanxiyanzangdefengxianxingshijudade：

 meifaduziyirenyoubeiaideganjue，daibiaozheganqingdeyikaoherengetezhidexianghuyicun，tadexintaiheganshoufeichangrongyibeilingyifangchudongheweihai。

 nibugaoxing，woyebugaoxing，woyemeifaganshoudaoxingfukuaile。danzaizhenzhengdeyouzhangdehunhoushenghuozhong，sheiyounengbaozhengyingduiairenzishizhizhongkaixinni?daliangderen，fandaoshizaijialicaihuibapijuan，xiaochendeyimianbuyongfangyulidipuluchuqu。

 ganqingguoduyikaodenvshizheishijiuhuiganshouwei：zishenshicaogaode，zheiyiduanguanlianshicaogaode，“meimanhunyin”dexiwangbuduanchengkong。

 dierciqisulihunhuipanlima？balingyifangxiangdehenqiangjing，erzishenhenrouruo，neiyangdelixinghuashenhoudeyanwaizhiyishi：woshenmedouxuyaokaonile。