该离不离的婚姻，离婚的女人会后悔吗？

 lihundenvrenhuihouhuima？weizijishuo，tacongbushandaizijidezhangfu，ganqingzuixingfudemoyangshiheaiderenzaiyiqi，zhihoucaifajue，shijishangwulunzuihoujieguoruhe，nengyushangneiren，jiuzaoyishiyijianjiqixingfudeshile。duitameiyouganjue。zhibuguoshibiaozhunhaihao，buzuojiawudenvrenlihunlv，duizishenweimingshicong，yexiangyaopengzheta。

 tarenweineiyang，zishenbudongxin，jiunengguowendingdehunhoushenghuo。danshi，jiehunhouderichangshenghuoquebianchengletamaiyuan，yuanyan，chizedebenrenxiu。

 kanbushangzhangfuluojisiweipianji，kanbushanglaogongbuqinfen，kanbushangzhangfumeitisushencha，kanbushangzhangfuyiqie，hezheigerenxiangguandeyiqie。

zhixukanjiantajiutongxizishen，zenmezhaoleyigeneiyangmeibenshidenansheng。

 pianyaojibianneiyangtongchunanao，tayemeifaliquzishendehunyinshenghuo。xiaoweishuo，shijishangzhangfuduitafeichanghao，wanyililehunyudaogebibushangtadegaizenmeban!

nantishitahaiganjueyoushuipingjindenanshengdoubukekao，haowuyiwenhuiwaiyu。

talaizixunshixiangyaozhidaozenmekeyijianqingzheileiwuquhunyinshenghuochanshengdetongchuxinlizhuangtai。

 ganqingzuixingfudemoyangshiheaiderenzaiyiqi，zhihoucaifajue，shijishangwulunzuihoujieguoruhe，nengyushangneiren，jiuzaoyishiyijianjiqixingfudeshile。xiaoweizaizheiliduanfuqiguanxilidianxingxingdexintaishi，woqiaobuqini，danwofangbuxiani。

 xuduonvshidoushihuijindaozheiyiguaiquan。xinlidouxiaijiechurencai，xiaiyougongzuonengliyouzerenganderen。dantongchanghaipaxuanzezijixiaide，bansuizhenianjidetigaojiucouheyige，zaicouhezhongtongchu，zaitongchulijiangjiu。zheibanmomocengcenghenduonian，zhizhinanyirenshou。

weihetiaoxuanyigecouhedeairen?

缘故有二点：

1.儿时缺乏安全感

youyixienvshizaijiatingguanxizhongmeiyouhuodebabamamajijizhudongdeguanxinheai，shizhongchuzaiqueshaoqingkuang。

 buzuojiawudenvrenlihunlv，chengnianrenhouzhiyaoshiyouxierenduitahao，tarutongdedaozhenbao，aixijiqi，laolaodizhuazhebufangshou。buguanlingyifangduobukekao，duowonang，tayebushedexuehuifangxia。

2.缺乏自信

chengzhangjieduanzhong，beibabamamahuoshizhoubianrenbiansun，yanlidaji，duizishenquefazixin。

xinlixiangxinzishenpeibushang，peibushanghuodehaoderen，peibushanghuodehaoderichangshenghuo。

ruguoyouneiyangyigerenfasheng，tafandaoganjuebuanquan，huiweizijishengchanzhizaogezhonggeyanghenyoukenengdebubianquhuijue。

zuihouyiranhuixuanyigebibushangzishen，wonangwuquderen。

 tamenpingdinglezishenpeibushanghuode，quehuanshiqidainenghuodehaoderichangshenghuo。xuanyigenenglibuzuquerangtayouguishuganderen，suihouzaiqugengxingaizaotajiubianchengletadezuihaodexuanze。

kezuihouyiranhuibeilingyifangciqujingnianleiyuederichangshenghuosuozhuyaobiaoxianchuqudepingfanhewonangsuocuican。

yinggaizenmezuoqugenggaixinlixinxinni?

1.gaozhizishen，wofeichangzhide。

yigerenderenjijiaowangbianshihezishendeguanlian。

 jiejuehaofuqiguanxideqiantitiaojianshijiejuehaohezishendeguanlian。nikanbushangzhangfudeqingkuangxia，yeshizaiduizishenshenshendidekanbushang。kanbushangzishenbuchenggongzhiyouzhaoneiyangyigeren。

xianjiejuehaozishendeshiluogan，caikeyiliqingzishengairuhexuanze。

2.fazhanqilai，jizijidetiaoxuanchengdan。

 henduorenweiquqiuquan，zhibuguobuyuanyingduizishendeguanjiannanti。tamenbumingbairuhexuandoushihuizaoyuzhetongyangshuipingdeliyubiyoulie。

jiandaobenshenquedianchanshengdefazhanzhitongyuanbidunxiaodaozhanrendeduobizhitonglaidegengyouyiyi。

renshengdaoluzaowanbixuyingduizishencengyiweiduobidexinlizhuangtaiboruodian。

xingqingdeyunshijuecezhe，tahuibuduandebayiyangdenandianpaozainiyanqian，rangnilaifazhanchaoyue，zoubuguoqujiushizhongzhuanquan。

 lihundenvrenhuihouhuima？meiyigerendoushizaifazhanhezhuanbianzhong，xinlimeiyoupingwendejiazhiguannian，jiuhuibeibiaocengdeyaoqiushangxia，erhulvezhengtiliyi。