男人打女人该离婚吗？我们过成了一对合租的房客

 bulihunzenyangbaofulaogong，helaogongzaiyiqi9nianle，tanlianaisiniannanrendanvrengailihunma？，wanhun5nian，youyige4suidehaizi。haizichushengzhihou，youyuwozhaoliaoxiaohai，zaijiashangzhangfupingchangzuoxinxiangmugongzuozhonghenmang，laogongqianqianlihunzenmechuli？yincijiufenfangshuile。

 yikaishideqingkuangxiajinguanyoubuxiguan，zhihoujianjiandirongrule，yejuedefenlishuitingbucuode，burongyiweihaibicideshuimianzhiliang。keshirujinyulaiyuganjueliangrenzhongjianhenlengmo，chukaixiaohai，pingchangjibenshangmeiyoushenmegoutongjiaoliu。

 jinguanmeishenmedadefenqi，danjuedehaoxiangtongzuzaiyigewuyande2gezukeyiyang，meiyouqinmiwujiandejuede，fuqishenghuoyefeichangshao。

 genpenyouzhaohuati，penyoudoushuoneiyangdehunyinshenghuojianchixiaqufeichangrongyiwaiyu，zijiyehenyilv，jinguanzhangfushuodahuoerquanshineiyangguode，taburongyiwaiyu，keshiwotexiangqiujiaojiaoshi，nanrendanvrengailihunma？neiyangdehunyinshenghuozhengchangma，wonengjianxinzhangfuma?

yifengxinjian，jiangchuduoshaorendexinlihuaheyinhuan：

 laogongqianqianlihunzenmechuli？hunyinshenghuopingdanwuqi，meichanshengshenmedafenqi，fuqishenghuohenshao，naizhigezhugewu，chukaixiaohaimeiyouguoduogongtongyuyan，juedebuqinmiwujian……suiranyinhuan，riziqueyehainengyitiantianguoxialai，diertiantaiyangguangrengjiuranranshengqi。

zheilibian，youlenizishendeshenyingma?

 shijishang，zheifengxinjianzhanxiande，shiwoguozhongnianfuqiyizhonghendianxingxingdeguofa。zhiyanwodeyiweiqiuzhuzhewukenaiheerziwodiaokandishuo：helaogong，bariziguobianchengzuketongzudeyangzi。tamenweijiandefenfangshui，quebicizhijianyongyou yingmianerlaide“tongzugan”。

 xuduo qiuzhuzheyinerqianquzixun。tamenxianglyiyang，guangfanyoulvzheileikanqilaiyouyidingdequeshaodehunhoushenghuo。zheizhongganjueleisi：fangfonaerdouyiqiezhengchang，youfangfobutaidui。lingyixieqiuzhuzhe，richangshenghuofashenglerangrentongchuhedanxindedisanzhe，erzhuibensuyuanshi，changchangchousibojiandizhuachuyiduide“hezufangzike”。

budebuchengren，dajiadeyoulvshiyouyuanyinde。congxianshizhuangkuangkan，tongzushifufu，anquanyinhuanlvjiaoweigao。

 neima，tongzushifufudepubianyihuoyoushenme，tamenyougaizenyangguohaohunhoushenghuo?chenzhezheidiyifengxin，womenyiqilaikanyikan。

 xinlishuo：tanlianaisinian，wanhun5nian，lianggerenlonggongjiaowangle9nian。lganjuerizipingpingdandan，bicizhijianshuyuan，duiyucishi，lyoulvhunyinshenghuochunanti;zhangfujianjiebuyiyang，tashuodao，dahuoerquanshineiyangguode。

 helyiyang，henduoyouyuhunyinshenghuoyihuotaruzixunchudeqiuzhuzhe，quanshijiuhun，zuishaoshijiaowanghaozhangshijian。dajiaguangfanmorenshezhileyigedagailvkeguanshishi：zhonglaonianhunyinshenghuobianyuquyupingpingdandan，zuishaobuhuizaireqingmanmande。erxuduo renjuede，pingpingdandanbianyuzaocheng hunyinpolie。

正是如此?

shiwoyiduifuqipenyou，zongzaipenyouquanzhongxiuenai。

 nandeshuo：“womenliangwanhunbanian，lianggehaizi，rujinbuxiangchuduixiangneishihou，lageshoudounengxingfenyisu。womenliangyezhengchao，yeshiyouhuxiangkanbushangdeqingkuangxia，danwohenxihuanhetazaiyiqizheileiposhiyoutaidudejuede。”

 nvdehuifushuo：“bieyiweirizipingpingdandan，womenliangdeguanlianjianbukecui。”congyanjingli，nikeyijiandaotamenxiangyourizidepingpingdandan。

 yinci，shifouhuichanshenghunyinpolie，zhongyaobuqujueyurizizishenpingbupingpingdandan，erqujueyubeigaofangxiangbuxiangyouzheileipingpingdandan。zheihenzhongyao。jiarunixiangyouzheileipingdanwuqi，neimaxinlijiuburongyiyouqueshaogan。

daishangzheiyiguifan，dajiafanhuildexinzhong。

lyongleyixieci，laixushuzishenzaizheileipingdandeshenghuozhongdetihui：lengmo、meiyoushenmegoutongjiaoliu、yilv。

youcikejian，taduizheileirichangshenghuobingbuxiangyou。

 zhangfuyebingbushidaxinlilirenkezheileizukeshihunhoushenghuo，zhishixuanyongleyigefangyulifangfa：helixing。yinci，zhangfucaiyaoshuo，dajiadouneiyang。zheijuhuadezhenzhengyisishi：jinguanwoheniyiyangbingbumanyixiankuang，keshijiranmeigerenzheiban，dajiayekeyixiangtarenyiyang，couhezheguo。

zheijiuweihunyinshenghuomaixialeanquanyinhuan：huaihenzaixin，quemeiyouxiashoujiejuekunnan。

 bulihunzenyangbaofulaogong，zheilibianyougoutongjiaoliudenanti，keshilzheiduifufu，hexiuenaidefufuduibi，zuiyagendechabiequjueyu：shibushiqinmiwujian。