这场婚姻危机该如何解决？男人离婚后的心理阶段是什么？

 nanrenlihunhoudexinlijieduan，hezhangfuxiangqinjiehunzaoyi2nianle，youyigeguinvcaimanyisui。lihunhouzuitongkudejieduan，wolaogongshigezixigaoqingshangdenansheng，shigejingjishiyongnan。woqingshangzhishangbutaigaodankanqilaihaisuanhaokan。wohezhangfuqingganfeichanghao，bicifumuguanlianhaixing。wanhunzhangfuchufangchushineizhuangxiuwochuledianjiayongdianqi。zaitarenyanzhongwoyoufangyoucheyouhunyinshenghuoyoutaorenxihuandeguinv，shifenmeimanxingfu，lihunhaizhuzaiyiqidehaichu，danshijishangwoduineiyangderichangshenghuobingbufuhe。

 youyuwodeshouyishizhangfude3-5bei，wokeyizhuandaoyigeyue1.5w-2.5w，ertajinyou6kbushang。huijialewoyaozhufan，yeyaojiawulaodong，zhangfuhuishuawantuodi。

 wozongjuedezheiyihunwojiekuidiao。nihaowuyiwenhuiwenneimewoneishihouweishenmejiehun，yifangmiannianjibiandamuqincui，yifangmianganjuezhangfuhaopiqi，woxingzijiaoweida，muqinshuozheizaoyijiushiwonengxunzhaozuihaoshidele。

 lihunhouzuitongkudejieduan，danrujinjielehunyoushizhangfuyehuichongwonaopiqi。meiyiciwohaixiangwotunaxie，buqiutaqiandoubututafang，yeyaojitamenzaijiachanjiatingbaomu，woyigerenguozhexiaogongzhuyiyangderichangshenghuo，woweiheyaojiezheiyihun，wozhenshigaobudonghunyinshenghuoshiweileshenme。

xiaomonvjiaoshinikeyijiwobaituokunjingma?wobuxiangzheiyang。

小魔女答：

 lihunhouzuitongkudejieduan，ninhao，meiyigerendoushiyouzishendetiaoxuan，duiyutiaoxuanlezhihou，jiujingduihuanshibudui，guodehaohuanshibutaihao，neidouzhiyourangshijianduinishuo，erzaininenggouzuode，zhibuguozaizuihoujieguofashengyiqian，buduanduizishendegerenxingweizuodiaojie。

jiuxianjieduandezhuangkuang，dajiazuihaoshihuanshiduinideyaoqiukaizhanzhucengfenxi，neiyangcaikeyishinigaoqingchuzishenbixuganshenme。

第一、你对婚姻生活的要求

 lihunhaizhuzaiyiqidehaichu，zaixinjianzhong，dajiajiandaodejiushiniduixiankuangdejudamaiyuan：“woyigerenguozhexiaogongzhuyiyangderichangshenghuo，woweiheyaojiezheiyihun，wozhenshigaobudonghunyinshenghuoshiweileshenme?”、“zongjuedezheiyihunwojiekuidiao”

 neimazhenduinilaishuo，xianjieduan“hunyinshenghuo”zheiyijianshiernishibushiyaoxiangde?shifazifeifupaichidehunyinshenghuo?yihuonirenweixianjieduandehunyinshenghuonishinenggoujienade，zhibuguoshiqidainenghunhoushenghuohaoyidian?

 ruguoshiqianmianyizhong，neimaxianzaizaiyouxiaohaidezhuangkuangxia，shibushikeyidiaojie?jiarubukeyidiaojie，zhenduiquanbuhunyinshenghuodekeguanshishidoumeifajiena。

 neimazuihaoshihuanshimingquetichulai，suihouguozishendeyigerendeshenghuo，buhuizaiwanhun，duiyumingquetichuliyideshihounanti，yexujiushinipobudeyihuahuoliquchulide。

 neimaruguoshihoumianyizhong，shijishangnishinenggoujienahunyinshenghuozheijianshiqing，jinjinganjuexianjieduanhunyinshenghuobumanyidehua，neimadajiazaifenxixiayiceng。

第二、对现阶段婚姻生活不满意的地区是啥?

 yizhaoxinjianzhongdejiaofa，dajiadezhangxiangfeichang，dannidelaogongzaiyunichuangjianlianaiguanxideqingkuangxia，zaoyichushilefangdichan、shineizhuangxiu。

 shishishangzheisuiranshijiazhongyiqiezhengchangdexiangmutouzi，keshiyesuanzuoyizhongjuedeyouchengxindexiangmutouzile，zirannichulejiayongdianqiyeduoshaoqiansuanzuohuifulelingyifangdezheileixiangmutouzi。

 erlingyifangzuoweiyigegaoqingshangderen，xingziyebijiaohao，biaominglingyifangyexiangnichushilehenduodeqingxujiazhi，keyishuo，lingyifangzaigegelingyuduinidexiangmutouziquanshijiaoweiyouchengxinqiezhihe、liangquanshijiaoweichongyude，zhaolishuoyingdangmeiyoubixumaiyuan。

 neima，nimeilingrenmanyidejiujingshishenme?shijuedenidelaogongshiyongjiazhitaidi?bumanyideshilaogongzheigeren?huanshijiarunixinjianzhongchangyan，nijiushikanbushanglingyifangzhuandetaishao，nibenlaibitazhuandeduoxuduo，danniyaodejiawulaodongzheiyijianshiershangni?

 ruguoshiqianmianyizhong，juedetabupeizishen，neimatadegeleixiangmutouzishibushinengshinilingrenmanyi?jiarubumanyi，shiganjuezishenfeichangzhidegengchusedenanshima?huanshiqidaitanengtouzidaliang?

 zonghexingnibenrendekeguanxingshiyongjiazhi，zailingyifangxiangmutouzidaliangzhihou，shibushihuizaocheng guanlianbupinghengni?zheiyidianbixusisuo。

ruguoshihoumianyizhong，zhishishiyouyujiawuhuofenpaishangchulenanti，neimashibushikeyichuli?

 shishishang，jirandajiazaoyiyoufangyouche，jiadingdajiazaoyiwufangdaichedai，neimanidexinshuichedinenggoudaojiazhengfuwugongsiqingyigequantianzaijialijiejuejiawuhuodejiatingbaomu。

 zonghexingdajiabicidexinshuieryan，jishibingbushiqingquantiandejiatingbaomu，haikeyiqingyigexiaoshigong，chengdandajiajiazhongjuedaduoshudejiawuhuo，jiusuanqingren，neimarujinyeshiyouhenduodezhinengjiajuxitongkeyihuanjiedajiadeyali，lirushuicaoxiwanji、zhinengsaodijideng。

 jiaruzheizhongnidoubuyuantiaoxuan，neimashibushinenggoukaolvdaofenpeijiawuhuo?jiarulingyifangdexinshuibinidi，bingqiegongzuoqiangdumeiyounigao，ninengyutagoutongjiaoliu，suihoujitamenduofenpaiyixiejiawuhuo。

 suiranmeifapingdingnidehunhoushenghuo，dancongzongtishang，jiaruyizhidaishang“tabupeiwo”dexinlizhuangtaiquheyigebenlaiyouxianghenihaohaoshenghuorizidenanxingjiaowang，duifufubicihexiaohaiquanshibuhaode。

 nanrenlihunhoudexinlijieduan，yaobushiyuanzexingwenti，duoduodesisuosuoshudeneirong，xuehaodaishangfajuexingfudemuguangquduidaihunyinshenghuo，shishishangbingmeiyouneimacaogao。