离婚男人的心态到底是怎样的

 suizhi liyi detisheng，henduoderengaoduzhongshihunyinshenghuodepinzhi，neimadanglilehunzhihoubicideneixinhuiyouruhedetihuini？jinriwangbianjiujidahuoerjiangxialiyinanrendexintaijiqiliyinvrendexintai。

一、离异男人的心态

1、后悔莫及

 liyinanrendexintaiyixia，shiyizhicihuizheibancangliang，zheibangudan，dangshi，quebuqingchutadehao，weiheyizhibataweiwosuozuoderenhedangzuoshilisuoyingdangni。zishenxueqizheizhongshilaijiuruhejuedehenjianxinni，jianxinbuyongshuo，yixidefangfomeineimazhengjie，fanzuodegengmeineimaxiang。ertaxueqizheizhonglai，jiujuedehenzhizipianyude。buyaoshuozhiqianpenyouxiailaijiazhonghaichi，haihe，haiwan。kerujintamenyoushihoulaixiaozuoyixiaxia，doushishuowodefangwuhaochou。bugongzuodeneishihou，xiangxiaohaipeixiaohaiqulvyoumeitian，jiuleideshentifangfoyaosongdiaole，ertafangfocongweihanguoleide。

 yeliguduyequzhaozhaohaokandeqinmeimeizuogelianrennaxiede，ketamensheiyebukenlaiwozheigouwode，gengbuyaoshuojixiwangyutamennengweiwozuoshangyicanfan，shaoshangyidakoushuide。bingqiequdeshishachazuo，yedian，yaodeshizhuguangwancan，maideshigaoduanfuzhuang，huaqiwodeqianlaiyidianerdoubutongxin。yiyuejianxinchulai，bujirijiuhuihuagejingguang。xiangzheta，yimaoqianquanshitiwoguozhehuade，youshihouyaotamaishangjianguixiedeyi，doushitongxinlaobantiande，neishihou，wodouxiantaxiaojiatingqide。zuoyoujiushishuoliyinanrendexintai。

2、心存感恩

 xincunganentayiqianlishiyunixiangsuizhongshenbingtouhuaisongbao，tashiruhedeqingfen！lingyige，congjilvdeshijiaopouxi，zijiketiaoxuandehunyinshenghuolingyibanshuyiwanji，zhenshiheshidequemeibanfapengdao，gengheshinidenage"ta"，bixuhaizainaerdengni，qian1getadelikaijibiannileijileguanjiandegongzuojingyan，youshiniduoleyihuizaicitiaoxuandejiyu。wuluncongnajiashijiyiyishangjiang，dougaixincunganen。

3、视做磨炼

 nanrenzhenshidechengshuqi，wubiqinshenjingliyihuihaodiandebuchenggong、yihuinanyiwanghuaidefenshouhou、yihuijianxintongchudetiaoxuan、yihuijidongrenxindemaoxian，meiqinshenjingliguo，renshengbuxiangxi，congweiyouguo，guannianbukegumingxin。wangyuanfangkan，liyiquandangshiyihui"yewaiqiushengxunlian"。>> fuqilengzhan!hunyinpolie!zenmecainengzhengjiuhunyin?

二、离异女人的心态

1、bubitahuigenggai，gaibianxianzhuang

 liyinvrendexintaiyixia，jiaruzhinengtanengxiezhunixichuangdan、zhinengtanengduinitiaodou。meidangwoxiangqizheizhongshi，woyezaoyibuchenggongle。weitalieyizhanggongzuobiaoshizishenbiandewanquandemeiyoushiquan。yinciwoxiadingjuexingaibianxianzhuangdejingyu。dangnidelaogongtiqianzhunbeixichuangdanshi，woyehuijianyideshuojiju：“yongwuxuwolaijiaoniruheyongquanzidongxiyiji？”woneiyanghetaliaobojifan，tayebidinghuijienawodepapazhuyaobiaoxian。

2、自卑感

 lihunnvrenxintaizhuangtaihuichuxianbuzixin。liyibuxingdechuxian，duibeigaofangeryan，bujinshibenrenzaishenghuozhongjiansishi，zhishilihunzhequanburenshengdezhongtedacuobai，shiyihuihendaderenshengyanlidaji，bidinghuizaibixudefanweizhineizaochengzhendong。junbujian，bansuimeijianlihunsusongdezishizhizhong，liangzhipingpingchangchangdelihunzhe，shicongbuweirenzhidesanxian，zhuanshunzhijianbianweilesuoshudanweihuozuolinyouli、qinqipengyoudeshouyao“redianrenwu”。zheileixiangguansirenxinxide“xinwenbaodao”，kuaisuchuanbozhikuai，fanchouzhiguang，yizhiweimiaoweixiaodexuxurushengshuiping，dequeshirenzantanbuyi。

3、内向心态状态

 lihunnvrenxintaizhuangtaihuibianneixiang，lihunzhejingchangyouxinhuobujingyidibaneixindetongchuyanmaidegengsheng，gengburongyibeibierenfajue。yinweiyishizhuxingjingkuangdebuyiyang，lihunzhebuxiangyaoshishishangyedequemeibanfabaozhengyuyishizhuxingyiqiezhengchangdedajiazhenshichaoguoneixindegoutongjiaoliuhelejie，jibianyutamendeqinpenghaoyouyemeifabaozhengzheiyidianer。

4、讲出好与坏

 helaogongzhongjiandezhengchaojingchangyaowoduilifagandaokongju。jiarurenmenzhenshienaiyouweishenmehuiyouneiyangdezhengchaoni？keshiyiguohaojinian，woguanniandaofuqijiandezhengchaojuranxijuhuadetishengleniwozhijiandeqinggan。mouxieneishihouhuxiangdelejiehuizaitianmeideshiketoutoudichansheng。youshizhengchaoxianganyeliyinranleyizhihuodui，tagaoshengdedashenghanjiaofandaoyaowoquelidelejierenmendemaodunzainaer。zuoyoujiushishuoliyinvrendexintai。