当老婆有外遇我应该怎么办

 danglaopoyouwaiyugaizenmeban？jinri huazhenqinggan wangbianduiyuzheiyinanti，dechuzishendeyixietiyi，guanjianshipouxiyixienvxingdezhenzhengxiangfa，suihoudechudeyixiejihuafangan，qidaiduiniyouyidingdexiezhu。

一、当老婆有外遇我该怎么办

 danglaopoyouwaiyuwogaizenmeban，zhenduizheiyinanti，woyizhizaisisuo，keshiyuanyixunzhaochulidefangshi，renmenjiupobudeyixunzhaochuxiandezheiyiyuangu，yinciwangbiansoujilaidaojigeyouguohunhouchuguidenvxingzhenzhengxiangfa。

1、由于情感的生疏

 “shiwoguohunhouchugui，buduanyueernian，zaiqizhong6liugeyuezhenshixiangrenjiantiantangyiban。renmenyouhunhouchuguideyuanyin——zhixiqinshuwomenyiqirenweizishenhenmanbujiangli——renmenbixuzhengmingcailiaozishenshilixingde，renmendexinlirengyouqinggan，haidezhengmingcailiaorenmenzhenduinannvguanxideyishihelixianghuabingbushiyanzhibuyu，renmenbixushifangyalixie，duoshaxiao。tahuilehunyinshenghuo——wozaoyiyibushoufuwuchengnuoxianzhile——wodeshentiheneixindoudaobieleneiyichanghunyinshenghuo。cicihunhouchuguiyaowoganshoudaoyishizhuxingdebuyiyangwaimao，yuanxianxingmingnenggouneimexingfu，wonengzuoxuelinlinderen。”

 dui17%denvxinglaijiang，hunhouchuguishifuqijianzhujianshengshuyizhiliyidequanguochengzhiyi，yinciqinggandeshengshuhenjianghuishizaochengtahunhouchuguideyigeguanjianyaosu，dangniyuanyichulidanglaopoyouwaiyugaizenmebandezheiyinanti，renmenjiuwubijiejuehaoyouguanshengshudezheiyinanti。

2、tamendewaiyuluojixing

 “wobuxiangyinererduitaailibuli，wohuanshihenxiaiyoulaogongshouhou。yixiehunhouchuguideshizhijinjinxingshenghuobale。wobenzhibuyuanjiagewodeqingren，chukaixingshenghuoyiwai，woyizhiyubuxianghetamenjiuchu。”

 “hunyinshenghuozuixingfudedifangqujueyuxuduorennenggoujiezhu，wobixutadekekaoxing，worenweitahenshuoaiwo。worenweiyoudianerfuzuigan，youyuwoaitabibushangtashuoaiwoneibanshen，woyaotadezaiqianyishizhonglizhidaolewoduiwoduinideaizaoyiguoqu，talejiewozaiqizhongyicihunhouchuguiyihoushifennanguo。tazheiyirenyaobashierzangxinli，jibianbiaocengshanglaikanyiqiezaoyiyiwang，danwoganshuotaxinlirengyouwaishang。”

 shijishangzheileixiangfa，renmenzaiyingpianli，yeyouxuduoshijianshangdoushipengdaoguo，tamenzongganjuezhinengneixincunyouyizhongyanegancaikeyiweichineixinduilingyifangdezheifenai，yizhiyubumeibian。shijishangcongxuduoguoshijiaokanlai，shijishangzheileiluojixingzhenduichuantongshiderenmeneryan，jinjinyizhongduobidexintaizhuangtai，niyuanyiwanjiuta，haiyaogenggaitadezheileiluojixingxiangfa。zuoyoujiushishuoyouguandanglaopoyouwaiyuwogaizenmebandeneirong。

 yuyixingpengyoujiaowangdequanguochengzhong，shibushiniyehuipengdaolingnikunaodenandian？siliangbuquedinglingyifangneixinjiujingzaixiangganshenme？