婚姻问题心态咨询案例：性格不和，我想离婚

zaihunyinli，xuduorenshuo“renmentaibuyiyangle，renmenxinggebuhe”，yizhiyuyiroumeidehunyingangkaishi，yicankudeliyishouwei。neima，gexinghuachabiequeshijiushishuozaochengjiatingbuhedeyuanguma？womenyiqikanyixiahunyinxintaizixunanli，suihouhunyinxintaizixunshirangwomenpouxiyixia，xiangyaozhidaodaliangdexiaohuozigen huazhenqingganwangbian lailejieyixiaba。

一、婚恋问题心态咨询案例

1、hunyinxintaizixunanli

mounvxingdehunlianwentixintaizixun：hejiefusanguanbuhe，shenghuoxiguanchabiehenda，meiyouguanniangoutongjiaoliu，meiyougongtonghuatihexianghudexihao。hetagoutongjiaoliuhaoshucile，tahaoertianjiuyoubuxing，yizhifanfu，wojiushiqueshijuedetingleile。jiaruxingqingqueshibukeyigenggai，neiyangxialai，woqueshixianglilehun。renmenyeyouxiaohai，xianzaiwoyezaiyibushangneimaduole，wobuyuanyirangzishenjiushizheiyangyibeizibuxingfukuaile。neiyangdehunyin，yeyouwanjiudejianghuima？

2、hunyinxintaizixunshipouxi

zaifufushibushixianghedenantishang，renmencunyouyigebuzhengquedelejie：bicide“gexinghua”xianghe, hunyincaihuiqudechenggong。

shijishang，yiduifuqiwubi“ganjue”xianghe、qinmijiechu, tamendehunyincaihuiqudechenggong。liru，laoxianshengchishaozhushourou,furenbupengbairou,furennenggoushuo:“renmenxinggebuhe, renmenyizhiyulianmainayikuairoudeguandiandoubuyiyang。”haikeyishuo:“renmenhentouyuan, yiqierounenggoulingwaikaolvrenmenliangren。”“xiangfuxiangcheng”he“hebulai”shijishangjinjinduitongyangzhuangkuangdebuyiyangchanshi, yizhongshidexintaikanlaixianghudebutongdian, bicijiubianweilexiangfuxiangcheng;yiweimandexintaizhuangtaikanlai,yiyangdexiangyichuyehuishibicikanshangqubuyilingyifang, yincishi“xintaizhuangtai”daozhishiqingfazhanquxiangdebuyiyang。

zaihunyinguanxizhongjianxinxianghushixianghede，weichizhongshi，tishengqinheligan, nenggoushigexinghuashangdechabiezhuanhuanchenghunyinguanxizhongdecaifu, youyuyizhongshiheshangxidexintaizhuangtaiquduidailingyifang，cainenggouxuerenzhangjiubujizhiduan，bicidoushiconglingyifangshoushangxuexipeixundaowupin, erburongyishizheyuanyibalingyifanggenggaichengzishendeyinying，bicidoushiganxielingyifangyibianweichifuqiguanxisuozuodeyiqie。erhebulaideniantou，zeshiguanlianzhongdezhongshigangkaishizouxingdeyigefeichangjingxun。

yaoshiqingganshangdelianluocunyou, jibianyoubuyiyangdejiazhiguannian, huojingjifazhanbiaozhunbubanpei, shijishangyemeiyoushenmeguanlian, wennuandejuedehuishirenjijizhudongdichongjingweilai，xianghuhuijuedezheizhongchabie“henquwei”huozhe“youqu”。zhinengdangqingyixiaotuideneishihou, renmensuojuedezhixiqinshuyingjubeidebiaozhuncaihuiyuelaiyueguanjian，renmenyibushangxilingyifang，gangkaishiduilingyifangyanke。yinci，lingyifangbiaozhundeduoshaoheguidingdezhongruo, jiushishuozuoweikaolvguanlianzhongyouyuegandezhibiaozhi。