怎样拯救婚姻家庭：如何让婚姻起死回生

 jiaruninganjuenideganqingshenghuoshenxianlecuoluandangzhong，nihuonideairenxianjieduanyeyijingkaolvdaoliyi，nihuonidezhixiqinshuganjuehunyinshenghuowufaweichixiaqudeneishihouyingdangzabanni?zenyangzhengjiuhunyinjiating?ruheranghunyinqisihuisheng?ruhejingying☞ hunyin ？

一、怎样拯救婚姻家庭：如何让婚姻起死回生

zenyangzhengjiuhunyinjiating?ruheranghunyinqisihuisheng?

1.提振你的亲密无间衣食住行

 xingshishenxinjiankangguanliandeguanjiangoucheng。yinweiliyidegailvtingda，jianghuimeibanfayouyigeyouliangdeqinmiwujianyishizhuxing。danrentiheganqingdepengyouguanxishijinmilianxide，dangniqidaifangzhiliyi，erzheyiyangguanjian。

 lanmanshijian。meigerenbijiaomang，danfenpeiyuehuizhiyehuirangnishijianlaishezhiqingxu。shizhelanmandezhuguangwancan(zaifandianhuojiali)，kandianshijuhuodabaolingqiu。shubuzhi，zainilaiwofangyiqian，guanjiandeshirangnidezhixiqinshutamensuoquefadeaiheguanxin。gaozhitamenniaitamen，xihuanhetamenhuandusuiyue。

 zaiwofangzhoubianzhifangxiangqixizhuhehuashu。zaipengyouguanxiqiantuinaairendeshou，jiaohejianbu。gouqiganguanjianghuishizhongxindianranairenpengyouguanxideguanjiandediyibu。jiaruninganjuezishendeqinmiwujianyishizhuxingluowu，qingshizhebuyiyangdeqinmiwujianfangfa。

2.谈一谈你的理想和冲动

 zenyangzhengjiuhunyinjiating?ruheranghunyinqisihuisheng?chukaigoutongjiaoliupingshiyaoqiuhezhuangkuang(“renmenbixuxichuangdan”)，yunindeairengongxiangninlingrennanwangdehaipa，qidaihelixiang，yichuangjianganqingqinmiwujianshihenguanjiande。

 zaizhanxianninheninzhixiqinshujianglaideqiyeyuanjingshi，qingyingyong“xiangxin......”huo“xiwang......”neiyangdeyuju。sisuohegongxiangzheizhongniantouhetihuinenggouxiezhudajialejiedaodajiadehunyinshenghuoyoujianghuikuayueliyi。

 lejiezishenhezhixiqinshudenanti，biru：wojuedewodezhixiqinshuyounaxiehaochuni?wozenmecainengrangtamenchongfenfahuijiaodadegongxiao?wojuedeyuwodezhixiqinshuyiqiquna?wolixiushiqidaiyuzhixiqinshuyiqiganshenme?yaoyuenidezhixiqinshugongxiangtahuotadelixianghexinyuan。yiqisisuohetaolunnidejianglaiyouliyugaizhengta。bubiyingyongzheizhonghuihualaimaiyuanhuokaizhanxiaochensisuo。

3.明确必须更改的內容

 dangniyijingkaolvdaoliyi，jianghuihuiyouyixiezhenshidenanti，dajia2gedouyingdangzaoshouyibufenzeguai。bubiyouyuhunyinshenghuozhongdequanbunantierzhizenideairen。yunindezhixiqinshukaizhanhuihua，neiyangninjiunenggouxianghulijiecuowudefangshi，jiqiruhejiejuewenti。

 yong“wo”dechanshubiaoshunisuoxiangzaoshoudenanti，ru“xiwangwomenzaiyiqiduguoyigedaliangshijian”，erbingbushi“nishizhongbuyuanyuwohuandusuiyue。”zheizhongbudakenengbeijuedeshipipanxingde，jiangzaochenggengjijizhudongdejieguo。jiaruzaoshoubuhelidechize，jizijibianjie，danzaizaoshoutichupipingshibubihaiji。shizhecongzhixiqinshudejiaoduguanchamaodun。

4.提升与直系亲属的联络

 zenyangzhengjiuhunyinjiating?ruheranghunyinqisihuisheng?zainideqingganhezanyangzhongwusiyunideairen。zheijiangyouliyuranqinicengjingyongyoudeai。zuixiankaolvtamendeganqingyaoqiujiqitamendehuaxuewuzhiyaoqiu。yiniyuanyibeiaidefangshiaizhenideairen。

 gaosudajiadezhixiqinshunimeiridouaitamen。yongtamenxihuandexiaolipinrangnidezhixiqinshuyigeyiwaijingxi。weitamenzuowanfan，jitamaihua，huodaitamenqumaidongxi。fujianduiairendexinlaiheqingganjianghuibixuyiduanshijian。yaoyouxixinbingzaijiezaili。

5.放宽以往

 yunindeairentaoluntamensunhaihuofannaonindezhuangkuang。jiaruninxiangyao，qingxiechumulu。qishiyingdangshiyigexiangxidemingxi，dantayingdangbaohanniyunideairensuoqinshenjinglidezuitongchudezhuiyihuoqinshenjingli，erqiejiqilehuxiangyuanqi。

 zenyangzhengjiuhunyinjiating?ruheranghunyinqisihuisheng?ninhenindeairenjianghuihuiyoubuyiyangdemulu。xianhoutaolunmeiyiexingshijian。dajiameigerenyingdangrenkeniyeshizenyangduizheileiwuhuizuochufengxianbingzhiqiande。jibiannideairenbuxiangyao，haiyaoxunliankuanrong。