老公坚决要离婚如何挽救婚姻，你有好办法吗

过多男生，觉得家中里绝大多数事儿理所应当就该女性担负，在婚姻里努力一点点，就认为自身保证了老公的老实，长期性缺阵，还合情合理，死不悔改，即便家里都是玩手机，低品质的守候。

第一步，懂得自我反省和整理

 yigehaodehunyinshiliangrengongtongfendoudejieguo，eryiqiehunyindejiongjingjuebushiyouyifangdaozhide。laogongjianjueyaolihunruhewanjiuhunyin?hunyinjiatingzixunzenmeyang?

 zaijiongjingzhong，renmentaifeichangrongyifajuelingyifangdenanti，jiandaolingyifangdebugou，quejingchanghuihulvelezishenzaizheizhongfenqi、maodunhuoshitanpanjiangjuzhongcunzaidebuzu。

yaoxiangxunzhaoxiangduixingpinghengdeqingkuang，nibixuxianqingxizishengaichengdandeyiwu。

第二步，懂得客观而客观性地对待另一方

 fenqihemaodunzhong，tongchangmimanzheguoduodexintaihezhuguanxingdexiangxiang，liruxuduowaiyudeshilizhong，waiyufangyaoshiyiwanhuijiale，beiwaiyufangjiuhuiganjueyidingshizhaodisanfangle，suihouchaonao，huoshizuochuhenduomengliedexingwei。

 renmentaixiguanxingyongbennengfanyinglaitixianle，youyudangnizaiguanlianzhongzaoshoulesunhai，yingduizhecijixinglailinshixing，renmendebennengfanyinghuiquanzidongdiweihurenmen，yaolejie，bennengfanyingshibixintaihaikuaideyizhongfanying。

 keshi，bennengfanyinghexintaidefanyingdoushirangliangrendeguanlianbuduanebianxialai，duijiejuekunnan、jiejuemaodun，xunzhaopinghengqingkuangmeiyouyidianyichu。

 zairangzishentashichulai，huodejichudeguishuganyihou，nihaiyaogangkaishigengquanfangweikeguanxingkeguandiqutanxunlingyifangle——tadaodiweishenmehuineiyangzuo?

neiyangzuoshenhoudebixushisha?ruhezuonenggoujiangdiyixiemaodunerduoyixielianjie?renmenyoumuyoujianghuizaiduxiezuo?

第三步，懂得中止以前的两极化

 danshijishang，renmenxuduozongshuniannaizhishushinianzaoyichanshengdegangufangshi，shimeibanfagenjuzishendexinnianqucaozongde，jiusuanluojisiweishanghengaoqingchuruhegengyouyiyuguanlianjiejuede，tongyixingdongshangyemeibanfabaozheng。

 zheiyiquanguochengshishifenjianxinde，yincishizhedequanguochengshiyigezishenxunliandequanguocheng，lingwaidoushiduiyiqianzishendechengcaizhuangkuangjiqiduilingyifangpingdingdeyijianfankuihejiance。

第四步，立即接纳意见反馈并开展调节

 jiaruyiqiansuozuodeqinfen——wulunshiduizishengecengmiandetigao，huanshiduilingyifangdelejie——zheizhongzhuanbianjiaruduizishenxianjieduandeyishizhuxingheli，neihaiyaojixubaochi;

jiarumeiheli，jiukanshifouzishenhaimeibaozheng，weihemeifazuodao，zenyangcainengbaozheng，shifoufangweibutaihao，bixudiaojie。

 zaichixudesisuohediaojiezhong，duizishenhelingyifangsikaohezhengli，zhizhixunzhaoyigexiangduixingpinghengdedian，rangzishenhelingyifangdouxiangduixingshushideqingkuang。

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